Thread: I could use some advice on telling if this woman I met is a good girl

^ Heh...Bet they still want a hansum man...Sly devil, you...

[quote=JungleRaven;3282996]

Originally Posted by baldrick

= but because the country is like Hawaii but about 1/3 of the cost -- so I can live well, and easily ($) while working on my startup/software ideas.

Not even close man...( Lived in Honolulu for 4 years and my brother lives on Kauai) and if you want to have a nice western lifestyle with quality goods and foods you are familiar with then be prepared to pay for it.

On women, in my experience the college educated normal working girls who may have a some international exposure via travel in Asia are no longer interested in dating Thai guys. They also have no interest in dating guys 20 plus years or older.

Most of the chicks I meet online are pretty damn good lucking compared to your typical American land whale. Have never been asked for money, have had more than one split checks with me on the first date, even had one who I still keep in touch with who showed up in a new red plate benz to pick me up.

All of these girls are late 20s, early 30s. I am about 10 years older. They have pretty much all said will not date Thai guys any longer, and I do not think it is a money thing, it has a whole lot more to do with hanging with a Farang that has something going on and is probably half way decent looking. I can not stress this next part enough.
YOU NEED TO HAVE SOME GAME.

Be FIT, if you are not, get fit, a hard body goes a looong way.

DRESS NICE. If you do not know how read some blogs.

BE POLITE. Quality chicks like to be treated with some class and will repay that in kind.

There are loads of really normal office girls and it is pretty easy to pick em out from the pros... harder to meet em I guess, and online is really the only way I know how.

I don't claim to be killin it, but im not really old, I try to stay really fit, have some things going on in my life and try to make time I spend with dates fun and entertaining. A lot of the girls here live a boring life, trust me.

Quick thoughts on dating in America. Pretty hard to date attractive girls in early 30s compared to here, older ones usually have a bit of baggage that comes with them and well the numbers don't lie...nearly 70% are overweight and something close to 35% are obese...when you weed all them out, then the married ones, then the ones with boyfriends....pickings are really pretty slim. So when you say you can get all kinds of puss in the states...sure...fat chicks all day long.

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Good post

Originally Posted by JungleRaven

Was mainly trying to decided if I should keep a couple others as options -- and trying to figure out how to do that without offending them. Just in case the 1st turns out to be something other than what I thought.

Go out and have a drink with Luigi. He's the guy on here to show you how to juggle birds.

Whatever you do though, don't share his straw

There is some good and bad advice here. Deckwan has got it right. You could be in Oz and say the same thing almost verbatum. If you are going to live a western life style it will cost you a western price. Just come and if you meet someone by chance see where it goes. I am one of the few lucky ones who met a young gorgeous thai woman on line and she has never asked me for a penny for herself. Oh there was that $10,000 heart operation her mother needed but that couldn't be helped and then there was the time that her brother had that very nasty genetic disease which needed very costly therapy but how could i refuse? She was so close to her brother, in fact i have never seen such an affectionate brother and sister! Then what bad luck her father got sick.............

Originally Posted by Hugh Cow

Then what bad luck her father got sick............

Then the buffalo obedience school. 20k baht nit noi for a properly trained kwaai.

Look if she takes it up the bum and brings you coffee in the morning then she's OK

Originally Posted by JungleRaven

-- and all of the blogs I've seen suggest staying away from the bars (full of bar girls and party girls), and look at some of the Thai dating sites to find women that you won't find in bars.

This is a good idea. Not only will you avoid picking up the bar slang and thinking it is acceptable to use elsewhere, but you will avoid having your attitudes to Thai women corrupted.

A lot of guys are sure they will be able to filter out all that negative shit, but then fall prey to it. And there are a fair few bar girls who are actually nice people deep inside....country girls originally. But the fact is that they are still bar girls. Best to avoid them, or you will inevitably be drawn into their world....somehow.

Avoid all that, and let your prospective female friends know that you do not go to bars. They will know if you speak the truth....there are ways they have of telling. There are eyes everywhere in Thailand.

Plenty of really nice girls around.

I wish shehiredahitman would return to regale us with tales of his adventures.
That was fun.

Originally Posted by OhOh

Mostly all bluff

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Originally Posted by Dragonfly94

Look if she takes it up the bum and brings you coffee in the morning then she's OK

Is that a fact?

Good girl

Originally Posted by StevenR

Apparently Thai guys aren't interested in girls over the age of 25. Once Thai girls pass that age limit they don't want the humiliation of dating with a Thai guy who'll be ogling every university student that walks past them.

So I don't think it's that these girls would rather be with a farang but they'd rather be with someone they have more chance of keeping.

Apparently that's one of those things that isn't actually true and what farang guys over a certain age tell themselves to feel better.

Originally Posted by StevenR

Originally Posted by Deckwan

Most of the chicks I meet online are pretty damn good lucking compared to your typical American land whale.

All of these girls are late 20s, early 30s. I am about 10 years older. They have pretty much all said will not date Thai guys any longer, and I do not think it is a money thing, it has a whole lot more to do with hanging with a Farang that has something going on and is probably half way decent looking..

From my substantial reading on this I think you are kidding yourself. Apparently Thai guys aren't interested in girls over the age of 25. Once Thai girls pass that age limit they don't want the humiliation of dating with a Thai guy who'll be ogling every university student that walks past them.

So I don't think it's that these girls would rather be with a farang but they'd rather be with someone they have more chance of keeping.

I can only relate my experience. I will say that many girls have said that at around 30 they do feel they are getting quite old. I have heard that many of the thai guys are picky but I can only assume that applies to the handsome ones with good jobs.

Another anecdotal from this last week: I bagged a chick who was 25, nice body, so so face, but perfectly acceptable. Has a decent lower end job, just bought a condo and spent a year living and working in the states. She shared her Line and Tinder accts with me... was very eye opening...most guys come immediately on with the cock pictures and really aggressive in asking for sex...few others more subtle.

From what I could see there are few if any 20 something farangs around looking to have any kind of a relationship, most are mid 30s to mid 40s, so maybe that is the pool many normal chicks in mid 20s to 30s have to pick from here...dunno.

Originally Posted by Deckwan

Has a decent lower end job,

How many inches?

Originally Posted by DJ Pat

Originally Posted by Dragonfly94

Look if she takes it up the bum and brings you coffee in the morning then she's OK

Is that a fact?

Good girl

If she can walk to bring you coffee in the morning, you "did it wrong"...Or she's a real trooper who lubs you mak mak...

Nothing wrong with getting a decent lower end job.

I wonder how fredwiggy is making out about now. It's been a while since I've seen a fresh house building thread.

I'm looking to get some good advice. How much is to much to pay for a decent lower end job in Bangkok?

You mean is she a "good girl?"...

Originally Posted by patsycat

The way some of you talk about women is atrocious.

Welcome to TD, the home of sexist, misogynist, racist losers!

Originally Posted by JungleRaven

Originally Posted by baldrick

our friend the original poster started this thread in an attempt to confirm his preconceptions , not to listen to advice

when that did not eventuate he went all keyboard warrior about his swab leader experience

he is going to come here , get cnut stuck and fleeced unless he rids himself of these western ideas about how he wants things to work

combined with he is probably chatting to a 23 year old girl ( so she says ) and he thinks she likes him because of how handsome he looks in his neckbeard , not how much money she thinks he has in his wallet

The keyboard warrior stuff was only directed at the poster (Bo0b) that began insulting me in his first post.

Dr B0b is a grumpy unhappy man. Pay no attention. Yes, he got nasty immediately.

I think he's still in the UK, by the way.


Disregard him.


IMO, Jungle Raven,

If I were you I would wait before you actually move to Thailand full-time before setting up dates / meeting women in Thailand, IMO.

The distance factor.