Thread: I could use some advice on telling if this woman I met is a good girl

Originally Posted by fishlocker

Bob, I have lived in a basement. Now I own several free and clear. I will not go on about that. It has no bearings, no ways to slide on.

Im off to the garden now, must get the sugar snaps in before the rain.

Thanks. That clears that up! Appreciate it.

Meat locker didn't sound Thai.

Bobs on meltdown! Got on your bike and release some endorphins.

Raven are you crazy or just very naive about Thai women. Planning to spend 3.5 weeks with a woman you never met. After two days she will be driving you nuts and you will be kicking yourself in the ass for not making plans with more than one. The trips shes taking are probably with whatever stupid falang is visiting her now. 3.5 weeks you should have at least 4 on your list. Spend a few days enjoying each one. Every woman you meet on a dating site will sleep with you. Because she knows if she doesn't the next one will. The #1 rule to remember is they will all lie to you. Honesty has no place in Thailand. Leave your conscience in America and come to Thailand to bone a few different women.

OP, you're somewhere between the possibilty of a software startup and teaching English "just for fun".
You like Thailand and reside in the States.

Imagine what some of these girls think about you after watching movies about Americans chilling out in Vegas, California, NYC, Chi-town , Boston or Seattle.

They have friends in America that charge software developers $300 / hour for a "gf experience"...so put yourself in their shoes.
You're on a friggin' dating site in SE Asia.
Go to your local AMP and ask them what their thoughts are about these type of women.

Try not to be a dick on your holiday and enjoy life. Think about who you're going to vote for on November.

Originally Posted by Chittychangchang

Bobs on meltdown! Got on your bike and release some endorphins.

ummm, ok. You probably thought that made sense when you posted it. Any chance you could explain to the rest of us what you mean?

Is this Fredwiggy under another name?
Jesus man lob in thailand and see what happens.
I don't understand why these blokes have to hook up with a woman before they get here.
The place is full of women try before you buy.

Originally Posted by DrB0b

You tell me. You seem to be the guy with the stained copy of Peter and Jane's Guide to Psychoanalysis.

Sure, here you go.

From my experience in life, which included being a squad leader in boot camp, a fraternity president, a mountain climbing instructor in Seattle, and a manager of a team of 50 at Microsoft, the only guys that I ever met that act like you, were guys that were no taller than 5' 7". They both had serious short man's complex.

I hope this helps.

Originally Posted by PeeCoffee

OP, you're somewhere between the possibilty of a software startup and teaching English "just for fun".
You like Thailand and reside in the States.

Imagine what some of these girls think about you after watching movies about Americans chilling out in Vegas, California, NYC, Chi-town , Boston or Seattle.

They have friends in America that charge software developers $300 / hour for a "gf experience"...so put yourself in their shoes.
You're on a friggin' dating site in SE Asia.
Go to your local AMP and ask them what their thoughts are about these type of women.

Try not to be a dick on your holiday and enjoy life. Think about who you're going to vote for on November.

One of the best responses I've seen. Thank you.

BTW, how do you know so much about the local "economy"?

Originally Posted by JungleRaven

I was chatting with on a regular basis (most daily) -- in fact -- I had more than I could handle (I'm not good a juggling) so I decided to narrow my focus down to 4, then to 2, and then decided there was just 1 that I liked best, in fact, so much, that I've booked a trip in June to see just her. As politely as I could, I let the others know that I had decided to focus on one with whom I felt the greatest connection. Most of them were very nice in return, and appreciated my honesty about my situation. Now, here is my issue. I have some red flags about this woman now. She owns her own business (I don't want to say exactly what kind for the sake of her privacy) but it is in the same ballpark as nursing, but she has a private practice -- similar to a private small business that a pharmacist or optometrist might have.

She has all that but she want's a farang. Why? At the end of the day farangs are boring and most will go back with a Thai guy.
I currently know of a similar situation as yourself. A Belgian guy does the same as you. Picks a woman who's well educated, a teacher in this case, in the belief she's class and not after his money. So over he comes and they get on well and he considers building a house etc. Unfortunately there's one problem she forgot to tell him. She has a million and half debt. Only after his second visit did she tell him. Obviously only when she knew that she had her hooks in him.
The Belgian is playing her now as he won't pay her the full debt but gives her a little now and again to keep her interested in him.

Give one of us her contact details and we can she if she bites the bait. Should be fun.

555

Ask her to send some sexy pics and if it's okay to post them here...

^^You volunteering mate.

Originally Posted by JungleRaven

I could use some advice on telling if this woman I met is a good girl

They're all good girls...Some are better than others, is all...

Originally Posted by JungleRaven

I could use some advice on telling if this woman I met is a good girl

She's a good girl, loves her mama. Loves Jesus and America, too. She's a good girl, crazy 'bout Elvis. Loves horses and her boyfriend, too.

^So she's a keeper then.
Thread closed.

Free Fallin', indeed...

You're not coming to Thailand to get laid, you don't want a holiday GF, you're interested in this one and concerned she may be a naughty girl.......so you're looking for a keeper.
Do what normal people do: Meet, date, get to know each other. Find out if she is or is not a keeper by yourself. Don't preempt yourself by seeking advice from total strangers or by generalising the entire Thai female population.
FFS....there are sure to be "good" adventurous Thai women, just as there's sure to be adventurous sluts.

Originally Posted by JungleRaven

What I'm wondering, is -- do Thai "good girls"

Could you help me out here - what do you mean by "good girls"?

If you mean girls who are not into "pay for play" (and even that is a very, very fuzzy line in Thailand), then you might be surprised to learn that yes, they go out, they go on trips, they drink, and shock horror they even occasionally f*ck.

Here is my take on women. Forget good girl/bad girl stuff. Personally I divide women into "completely bat shit insane" and "slightly less bat shit insane". Everything else is incidental.

....but it is in the same ballpark as nursing, but she has a private practice....

"ball" park, "private" practice......hmmmmmm.....

Originally Posted by nidhogg

Originally Posted by JungleRaven

What I'm wondering, is -- do Thai "good girls"

Could you help me out here - what do you mean by "good girls"?

If you mean girls who are not into "pay for play" (and even that is a very, very fuzzy line in Thailand), then you might be surprised to learn that yes, they go out, they go on trips, they drink, and shock horror they even occasionally f*ck.

Here is my take on women. Forget good girl/bad girl stuff. Personally I divide women into "completely bat shit insane" and "slightly less bat shit insane". Everything else is incidental.

my take on life as well. much the same as the establishment.

excellent thread, recalling the lost glory days of teak door.

Originally Posted by JungleRaven

The only one that seemed irritated was the one that was trying to get me to tell her how many other women I was chatting with, and got possessive when I told her she wasn't the only one.

There's your keeper.

^^ Same here mate,troll or not it's good for a laugh.

He's wondering if she's a 'good' Thai girl.
Here's an indicator. She's on a dating site chatting with foreigners (you didn't assume you were the only one did you?).
So I'd say no, she's not a typical Thai good girl.
Sent her any money yet?