Thread: Do Thai women come on to you ?

Originally Posted by puppy

Yes, but not in public.

1) Thai girls will NOT approach men in public. It's against their culture.

2) They will not approach farang men, as they are scared of us, and many cannot speak English.

BS

Why should they approach men in public, when they can do it through the internet, in the privacy of their own rooms?

Ok, Thai women may occasionally approach men in the street, but it does not happen all the time, as some people are saying.

Mind you, I am married and I drive everywhere, so that probablly explains a lot.

Originally Posted by S Landreth

Originally Posted by puppy

Yes, but not in public.

1) Thai girls will NOT approach men in public. It's against their culture.

2) They will not approach farang men, as they are scared of us, and many cannot speak English.

BS

Originally Posted by Marmite the Dog

I got raped by a Thai woman this afternoon! Despicable behaviour from a member of the fairer sex!

Did ya fight back. Or just wus out like I usually do.

Originally Posted by puppy

Yes, but not in public. 1) Thai girls will NOT approach men in public. It's against their culture.

Originally Posted by puppy

Ok, Thai women may occasionally approach men in the street, but it does not happen all the time, as some people are saying.

not to you, maybe

A Thai girl once came on to me as I washed the dishes.

She was 17 and well randy.

I obliged of course.

i used to get Thai women coming on to me all the time when i first lived in Bangkok, was only 26 at the time and a handsome coont though, every time i used to go to this bar frequented by better off Thais not to far from the mall at Ngam Wong Wan, i would just sit on my own minding my own business and it would be a surprise if during the course of the evening one of the waitresses didn't come and slip me a piece of paper with some girls phone number on, shagged a few air hostesses out of that bar and a generals mia noi which was one of the main reasons for me leaving Bangkok, the stupid tart could of told me.

Originally Posted by Norton

Originally Posted by Marmite the Dog

I got raped by a Thai woman this afternoon! Despicable behaviour from a member of the fairer sex!

Did ya fight back. Or just wus out like I usually do.

Wussed out as usual.

A Dutch friend of mine succumbed to the come-on in his village near Songkhla, and she then tried to blackmail him out of 100,000 Baht. He had to go to his wife with his tail between his legs and tell her the story about her 'friend'.

She forgave him! Oh that's fine then! Oh Lordy!

Nothing to do with the big house and his working abroad for 6 months of the year!

A woman i know quite well is comiing on to me on a regular basis.
Despite the fact that i know she already has a farang live in lover. Despite the fact that she knows i have a live in Thai GF.
And despite the fact that we both know what we know.
She is pretty, intelligent and very sexy.
How would you proceed?
Her BF is a dickhead by the way.

On the rare occasions I go out in Hat Yai, staff say "Hello, Boss"

If I did anything, even if I wanted to, which I don't, my wife wouldn't hear about it?

I want a stress-free life, the reason I am here. Stress-free, contented.

Chassamui, you already know what will happen. 50-50, nothing.

Not sure i understand the last comment, 50-50 Nothing what does that mean.
The woman in question has known me for 9 months and is not a bar girl. She does not work for me. She is a friend, or that is what i assumed, until the subtle come on started.
She is mature 35+ and not given to overt displays of affection or disloyalty.

Originally Posted by chassamui

She is pretty, intelligent and very sexy.
How would you proceed?
Her BF is a dickhead by the way.

Just ask him to wait outside for 10 minutes

Originally Posted by Bobcock

Originally Posted by Nawty

Never.....except for a ladyboy that followed me for several miles once.

You remember that really freaky one that was staring at us when we had lunch at the Landmark??

Wasn't him was it?

She was looking at you.....not me

Originally Posted by chassamui

Not sure i understand the last comment, 50-50 Nothing what does that mean.
The woman in question has known me for 9 months and is not a bar girl. She does not work for me. She is a friend, or that is what i assumed, until the subtle come on started.
She is mature 35+ and not given to overt displays of affection or disloyalty.

If she's more dirty than the missus, it might be worth the risk. If your missus is already very naughty, then I'd leave well alone.

Sure..... women everywhere are looking for security, and an improved life style, but of many Thai women I have met, married to farang's........ the most common thread is that they just want to be considered some of the time.....and be spoiled a little.....not belted into submission like a bad dog........ Thai men have not yet lost out in the cave man to cave women management takeover, and are not as weak as most of us !

Most Western men have been "trained up and beaten into submission " by spoiled X wives, X bosses and sometimes even their mother's, before the pleasures of Thailand are discovered. Like good well trained dog's they are a great deal better company than what most Thai women are used to. They know that men are simply attracted to a gentle submissive nature and a friendly honeypot!! and they are prepared to offer it, instead of getting a husband by beating him over the head with a baseball bat!

Originally Posted by chassamui

How would you proceed? Her BF is a dickhead by the way.

If I was you....I would leave Marmites missus alone.

Originally Posted by Marmite the Dog

If she's more dirty than the missus, it might be worth the risk.

I don't know if she is dirty as you put it, but i am very attracted to her intelligence and thoughtfulness.
In simple terms i am gertting rump steak at home, but there seems to be a good chance of fillet on offer.

Originally Posted by chassamui

i am very attracted to her intelligence and thoughtfulness.

You what?

Makes a change from saying i really want to bone her arse.

Originally Posted by chassamui

A woman i know quite well is comiing on to me on a regular basis. Despite the fact that i know she already has a farang live in lover. Despite the fact that she knows i have a live in Thai GF.

Not worth the effort Chas........it always seems the grass is greener on the other side/ something you should not have you want in spite of common sense.

If your not getting your fill at home or looking for a little excitement (which is a natural occurring male weakness) I would suggest you negotiate a rendezvous with someone totally ambiguous about your personal situation.

Safer and will get the job done and without the potential drama.

Cheers LT. Always the voice of reason.
We actually spoke today and agreed if neither of us was in a relationship........ well you can guess the rest.
It feels good to have the air cleared, and still have a charming and intelligent friend

Sticking 1000 baht notes to your forehead seems to work quite well... That and mass quantities of tekillya...

Originally Posted by Bangyai

So my question is ..... Why ?

Is it the money ...... They want a sugar daddy
Is it sex ................ They want to sample some falang muff diving
Is it love ............. They want a decent guy to love them

Well for sure it is not love. How is your diving going daddyo

Originally Posted by Loy Toy

I would suggest you negotiate a rendezvous with someone totally ambiguous about your personal situation.

I like ambiguous