Thread: The type of thai slut that goes for a farang guy

noobee.

Originally Posted by StrontiumDog

However, the facts of this matter are relatively easily discerned, by the unbiased. A young lady shacking up with a much older, usually unattractive male will be doing so based solely around financial gain and security. It's not romantic love, it is an extended business deal. Therein lies the rub. There's no real attachment. Business is business.

The amount of girls I've met, who had left the bar, but offered me a good time is astounding. They all had farang boyfriends or were married. I've been walking out of foodland on Soi 5 and had offers...one girl invited me back as it was her last night in Thailand. She was off to marry some european the next day! I've had offers from girls all around the Sukhumvit nightlife zones, from ladies who had stopped working and had come back to see their friends in the bar. Boyfriend/husband was supporting them. I know a few who live abroad, but when they return they like to fuck guys here for free, always young guys. Their farang husband never has a clue (he will be told she is back to see her family...reception isn't good etc etc).

The other scary thing is how many have Thai boyfriends, whether it be mangda or giks, or even long term boyfriends..
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DrAndy is always hypesensitives when he reads posts like this.

Like the author of the OP I have had many free ones with 'ex' slappers married to old fools. Often the husband is a silly self-opinionated ugly knob who loves to pontificate to other silly fools in bars and on web boards about how much he understands Thai 'kulture' while my knob feeds his missus' desires.

Originally Posted by Chairman Mao

Bollix mate, didn't you read DrAndy's post, there's good decent keepers in every demographic. Just cause she's a drugfuked cumpipe to be used n abused for 100b doesn't mean she ain't possible wifey material.

I'm not sure if you are serious. Of course, people find their own level in life so it is possible.

depends on the environment you are in. if you are surrounded with whores and the like most probably you will attract them.

try associating with thai from all level and see if you will meet somebody worthy of your liking or love.

I agree with rose.

Daffney's company that he keeps is kinda low, even his male friends.

But some hookers do have very nice personalities.

^unfortunately your opinion holds no more weight than the next punter.

I know, but it's fun to play...

^fair enough least you graciously admit it.

When i first came to Thailand i took advantage of the nice ladies offering P4P. All in the interests of improving my cultural understanding of course. I even paid for my own research.
I met many girls who conform to the bar girl stereotype, and it was interesting as i got to know them on a conversational basis, how ingrained the cash culture is for many of them.
It was also interesting to meet quite a few who enjoy the work and are not necessarily motivated entirely by cash.
I still have a couple of friends from that time and i now view their work quite differently. One is an attractive and sexy professional with no qualms about what she does. She is open and honest about her work and the importance of money in her life. She is not a bad person, quite the opposite. She has grown up knowing nothing else, works hard and provides an excellent value for money service. We see each other on an irregular basis, but not as a customer client relationship. She is more of a mate who likes a good gossip over coffee and will often ask my advice about her latest beau.
Another friend who i still bump into occasionally was my first bargirl. Again she is honest and hardworking, but seems to have more fun than most girls. She appears less worried about money and will choose her clients based on her own preferences, even going without by choice. She is a looker, but trades more on her personality. She has often given me a lift home from the pub after i have been watching late footy and has offered a freebie if i am interested.
Nice girls both of them, working in a business which few farangs understand or appreciate culturally.

As I've said, exceptions exist (I know of several)....but I'd also add, someone falling in love with such people as the ones you cite is in serious trouble, as the love wont be reciprocated. Business is business. It isn't love and the male involved maybe alone in such fanciful notions. I've certainly witnessed such scenarios many times (the latest a friend from a Soi Cowboy bar, Tilac bar, who had some guy take care of her, financially of course, but when I asked her if she liked him, she screwed her nose up and said "no". So he's got her out of the bar and is paying for it, but she is just biding her time, supporting her family and saving money for the day she can leave).

Originally Posted by chassamui

Nice girls both of them, working in a business which few farangs understand or appreciate culturally.

I have also experienced good friendships over the years with girls from similar backgrounds mate.

I must also admit that my perception and overiding opinions with regard to bar girls changed and after living here for a number of years.

Having said that the majority I would not touch with a barge pole and when considering a long term relationship but there has been the odd exception to my rule.

Originally Posted by StrontiumDog

but I'd also add, someone falling in love with such people as the ones you cite is in serious trouble

I think it depends on the girl. My money oriented pro friend would be hard work for anyone who did not understand her principle motivation. She is cyurrently dating married french pilot.
My other friend, i could easily see her pulling a mark and settling down.
I do take your point about these girls being a minority.

Originally Posted by Loy Toy

Originally Posted by chassamui

Nice girls both of them, working in a business which few farangs understand or appreciate culturally.

I have also experienced good friendships over the years with girls from similar backgrounds mate.

I must also admit that my perception and overiding opinions with regard to bar girls changed and after living here for a number of years.

Having said that the majority I would not touch with a barge pole and when considering a long term relationship but there has been the odd exception to my rule.

If a bloke goes into a bar with his hand on his dick he will get what he deserves.
I really enjoyed talking to these girls with no business in mind, and as we are still friends with no financial links, i assume they do too. Outside of work they are pretty normal people just like everyone else.

Originally Posted by StrontiumDog

Are you aware of what a forensic psychologist does?

Thank heavens I am not.
Please spare us any explaination attempt.

Don't worry, I will never make any effort in anything on your behalf. You seem like a highly unpleasant troll....

Originally Posted by StrontiumDog

Don't worry, I will never make any effort in anything on your behalf. You seem like a highly unpleasant troll....

At least I don't brag about being a forensic asshole

Originally Posted by StrontiumDog

I think I know more about this than you, so I will excuse your ignorance (again).

OK and I will excuse your arrogance and ignorance

Originally Posted by StrontiumDog

I've certainly witnessed such scenarios many times (the latest a friend from a Soi Cowboy bar, Tilac bar, who had some guy take care of her, financially of course, but when I asked her if she liked him, she screwed her nose up and said "no". So he's got her out of the bar and is paying for it, but she is just biding her time, supporting her family and saving money for the day she can leave).

just keep repeating your own personal experience and ignore the rest of the world

Originally Posted by chassamui

Outside of work they are pretty normal people just like everyone else.

good heavens, no?

really?

normal people?

bit hard for the bigoted to understand mate!

Originally Posted by wefearourdespot

At least I don't brag about being a forensic asshole

he didn't do that, did he?

I thought he merely mentioned it several times to lend force to his argument that he knew more than anyone else

now, what do I do that will prove me right?

Using both your nicks now are we? Talking to yourself?

I used my profession to back up my comments. You'd hardly take the comments of an accountant seriously, when discussing personality development.

I seem to have provoked a little....I wonder why?

Originally Posted by kingwilly

bit hard for the bigoted to understand mate!

Helps them with compartmentalizing their guilt. Classic scenario.

Originally Posted by StrontiumDog

I seem to have provoked a little....I wonder why?

Generally being an obnoxious arrogant idiot stirs up nearby people a bit.

Originally Posted by StrontiumDog

Using both your nicks now are we? Talking to yourself?

for a forensic psychologist, you should know better

or are you just a poser?

Originally Posted by StrontiumDog

I used my profession to back up my comments. You'd hardly take the comments of an accountant seriously, when discussing personality development.

aha, so you are an accountant, makes sense