Thread: Marrying a bar gal. Would you? Did you?

Originally Posted by ChiangMai noon

mmm, lovely

Those are nice noms. Kind of pointy like...

Dr Andy....you are on a very distinguished road..

Did you see the last Miss Universe pageant ? I thought Miss Canada and Miss Puerto Rico were pretty hot. All the South American ladies were hotties for the most part.

Miss Guam won a Miss Universe several years back ... ever had one from Turkey ?

Originally Posted by ChiangMai noon

Dr Andy....you are on a very distinguished road..

yeah, dunno how that happened. never mind, it can all change in a bats wink

Originally Posted by Storekeeper

Did you see the last Miss Universe pageant ?

I did indeed and Miss canada was a right dog, all plastic smiles and funny nose.
The judges must have similarly crap taste to you SK.
Doggy taste.

nothing wrong with a funny nose!!

most Isaan girls have "plug-in" noses, and I love them

Originally Posted by ChiangMai noon

Originally Posted by Storekeeper

Did you see the last Miss Universe pageant ?

I did indeed and Miss canada was a right dog, all plastic smiles and funny nose.
The judges must have similarly crap taste to you SK.
Doggy taste.

What can I say to that ? Oh well, I guess the pug nosed Isarn girls are your cup of tea

And most of the South American girls had had tons of plastic surgery. Seems to be the norm for Latin American chicks.

See what i mean.

Pug nosed and Plug in nose are the same thing ?

I don't know about the South American ladies but Miss Canada is the real deal. And all natural.

well, as they both sit on the same faces, yes

never mind, just answer the poll

would you, or did you marry a bargirl?

Originally Posted by DrAndy

would you, or did you marry a bargirl?

No. But I don't feel the same as the rest of you about those who do. And being the twisted person that you know I am I also believe ALL women will cheat in the right place, at the right time , with the right person. So, as far as I'm concerned anybody who marries a non-BG has no better guarantee of fidelity.

Did you ... or any of you ... verify that your Thai lady wasn't actually freelancing on some level ?

Originally Posted by SK

Did you ... or any of you ... verify that your Thai lady wasn't actually freelancing on some level ?

yes....

Originally Posted by Storekeeper

Originally Posted by DrAndy

would you, or did you marry a bargirl?

No. But I don't feel the same as the rest of you about those who do. And being the twisted person that you know I am I also believe ALL women will cheat in the right place, at the right time , with the right person. So, as far as I'm concerned anybody who marries a non-BG has no better guarantee of fidelity.

Did you ... or any of you ... verify that your Thai lady wasn't actually freelancing on some level ?

wow, you really think we all think the same, and only you have the originality to think as you do?

actually, I, and I am sure many others, agree with you on that. Bargirls and nonBgs can all cheat, as has been seen time and again.
What you don't say, and what I believe, is that both can also be as faithful and loving as you could wish.

so, no generalisations are possible, or should be made.

as for your last question, how many levels are there??

Isn't that Miss Universe's pic CMN (Ms. Canada)? ..... and yeah she's a Russian!

Originally Posted by DrAndy

wow, you really think we all think the same, and only you have the originality to think as you do?

actually, I, and I am sure many others, agree with you on that. Bargirls and nonBgs can all cheat, as has been seen time and again.
What you don't say, and what I believe, is that both can also be as faithful and loving as you could wish.

so, no generalisations are possible, or should be made.

as for your last question, how many levels are there??

You sure are sensitive aren't you ? But, aside from that I do agree with you about the faithful and loving potential of a BG.

Did your lovely lady freelance ?

yes, I have a bullshit sensor built in StoreK

what lovely lady are you referring to?

Originally Posted by Storekeeper

I also believe ALL women will cheat in the right place, at the right time , with the right person. So, as far as I'm concerned anybody who marries a non-BG has no better guarantee of fidelity.

Originally Posted by Marmite the Dog

Originally Posted by ChiangMai noon

There is no hope for a bar girl marriage, none at all and I have yet to be proven wrong on that score. Bar girls are there to be shagged once if that's your cuppa tea.

How long do they have to be together before you consider the relationship a success?

If you can make it through Snaff's 99 Ways to Impress Your Girlfriend and she hasn't run away howling, then I would say that's a successful relationship...

Originally Posted by kenkannif

Yeah I'm with Marmers, SK and Dr A. I know of a few happy relationships.

Would a good girl marry someone that had visited a whore in the past is another question

I think old Stickman actually said (not sure if he was referring to p4p though) more Western based (or those that met in the West) Thai/farang relationships break down than Thai based ones.

It's what you make of it.

It would be nice if, when these threads appear, someone would actually provide some figures to back up their claims.
How would sticky know? And if he did know what about some proof?

Just what percentage of marriages between Thai/farang breakdown?
And then what percentage of the marriages are to a bargirl/whore/freelancer/escort girly/massage chick/gogo dancer?

IMHO, too many people have a view on this that is more than just an opinion!

Oh and for what it's worth........I don't believe in marriage! (except for the visa!)

True Poolie. It is just the general statements that get me though.

I know bargirls who are married, and all sides happy in the relationships, but I have no idea of the numbers...maybe I know the only three!

I also know several who are married and living in UK but who are not very happy, but are waiting to escape. Met their husbands who are crap.

If you marry a virgin you can be pretty sure she hasnt been used up.