Originally Posted by
quimbian corholla
It's an interesting question.
My Mrs and I don't go at it anything like as frequently as we used to, but not because of a lack of affection or attraction, the sound of her laugh is still music to my ears and the sight of her each morning is still beautiful to behold in my eyes even if her hair is rumpled and she looks over tired.
I put it down to work stresses, tiredness and the effects of ageing and hormones dropping off on both our sides. I don't really care to view pr0n and I have never had a massage of any kind in the 14 years I have lived here and been married to her.
We are cool with our situation, it works for us. There is a lot more to marriage than sex and money imho. If that's what you want then stick with the happy ending massages.