I once met a guy in Pattaya who swore he hated middle class and hi-so Thai women because ''they are full of it''. I looked at him, viewed his attire and thought it was a bold statement, given his shoddy appearance and weight. Then his 'GF' walks along, some bargirl with tattoos and short skirt. He said they were going to dinner at Casa Pascal. No wonder farang men get such a bad name in Thailand.
Many men, given the chance, would easily prefer educated, prettier Thai females than the Isarn monkeys that pollute Pattaya, but many of these men prefer the easy option of frequent sex with several of these girls of the night, over something more meaningful.
Ok, some of the middle / higher class Thai women can be higher maitenence, but wouldn't the prospect of better sex, decent conversation and her own car be a better prospect?
Then there are many farang men who will take nothing other than Thai females. ''All Thai women are beautiful'' they say to all who'll listen, they say it within earshot of farang women deliberately. That statement usually reads as ''I've shagged a procession of Thai hookers and they were slim, firm and younger looking'' And it's not just other men who think that. Farang women will assume you're a sexual deviant regardless.
What's more desirable? Marrying an Isarn monkey and watching her squat bashing a pestle and mortar to make som tam every day in some god forsaken Isarn backwater, or a genuine relationship that makes you feel real love?