Or even someone already living in the US?Originally Posted by Davis Knowlton
Don't be so optimist ... you are funding a trip that will inevitably bankrupt you.Originally Posted by mgclp5
Of course it won't, she's completely corrupted already.Originally Posted by mgclp5
be sure and marry her in the US so she can collect half your money and alimony on the way out
Don't scare him off, this has the makings of a great thread for us to read about afterward !
^Actually, I was joking about the Korean chicks. It's just that this total loser has already done threads about failing with Filipina and Thai women, and now he's about to fail again with an Indonesian. I was just kind of thinking ahead for him since he is running out of countries to be a loser in in SEA. Thought he might think about North Asia, maybe his luck will change.
Perhaps the real losers are the ones stupid enough to actually marry one?
Sehari-hari membaca forum mabuk?
We talked about marriage. I didn't propose.
For all you sober, sane posters that are interested, she has 2 major advantage compared to me when I when I go to her country.
1. Speaks fluent English
2. Has relations living in the USA
Both of these, of course, make it easier to leave you if she is just looking for a way out of Thailand. Better to find a girl who doesn't speak English so she will have a difficult time communicating with others. Best bet is to find one who doesn't speak English and chain her to the bed with just enough length to get to the bathroom and kitchen. You'll be better off if you do that. You're pretty much fucked when dealing with females; and not in a good way most of the time.
Just kidding. I think.
"he who thinks he knows, does not know; he who thinks he does not know, knows." Lao Tzu
Originally Posted by mgclp5Fookin not much difference, mate.Originally Posted by mgclp5
Of course I'd like be married if I knew for sure it would work. I'm a one woman man. I told her I'd never marry her or any girl in the USA again. I think every man on this forum knows you are "fucked" if married to any woman in USA. I am looking into an Indo marriage. I would't do that for at least a year. I'm waiting to get a vasectomy. She is Catholic not Muslim and that is a plus. I've had women that couldnt speak english well. I really felt a bit more secure. But gives me a nasty headache and often is just plain boring.
This visit to USA will be the partial test of her her character.
Ya women. They are all psycho. Some more than others. Money = love. The universal equation. No matter what country they are from.
I had a philippine gf. Wonderful girl. But when I knew what her motive was. I dumped her, she married an american man 15 yrs older than her, filed for divorce only 3 months into her marriage. She called me in USA and said she missed me and wanted me back. I of course didn't want anything to do with her. I sympathize with the unfortunate old man.
Congrats on the vasectomy plan - excellent choice!
Should get a lobotomy to go with it.
Good idea, then why even consider marriage?
And if you’re hell bent on doing it (one day) ask her how she would feel about signing a prenuptial (watch her face ). Make sure the prenupt states that the property that each of you had before your marriage stays with that person when the divorce occurs (attach documents showing what you/she own/s). Make sure there is a statement that states any property (that you or her owned before you got married) that has increased in value stays with that person.
Keep it fair,……..same for you and same for her. It will stand up in court. If she came into the marriage with a toothbrush,.she leaves with a toothbrush (same goes with you).
Speak a divorce attorney before you get married.
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
Are you also Catholic, otherwise you cannot get married in Indonesia.Originally Posted by mgclp5
Actually, ALL mixed race couples have to sign a prenup being marrying in Indonesia, otherwise she will lose her right to own land in Indonesia.Originally Posted by S Landreth
Yup. I have 3 kids. Time I started having fun.
It will be interesting watching her attitude turn nasty and insolent. Unless she is one in a million, I'm expecting the worst because US is the sanctuary for women. They can get away with murder here. I can't wait to see the effect it has on her.
Interesting topic to discuss, I would love to give some of my opinion, being Asian I'm always proud to be who I am..but different people with diff mind.
Instead follow what you think its right for you, ending with divorced after couple of months married, never can be easy way..I've been single parent almost 9 yrs and stay by my own without asking for help..and kind selected person who I want to end up my life with..
think twice, before too late for you, mostly Asian could adapt with the culture it might take time for her ..
I wish you all the best for your future, honestly you have to make up your mind if this what you want..all is in your hand..
Catholic, yes.
I'm American.. But my father is Javanese.
Prenup, I agree..
>>Should get a lobotomy to go with it.<<
Hmmm... Done much for you?
>>It's just that this total loser has already done threads about failing with Filipina and Thai women, and now he's about to fail again with an Indonesian. I was just kind of thinking ahead for him since he is running out of countries to be a loser in in SEA.<<
Dude I told you in the bar I'm strait so quit stalking me ok? Where is the moderator around here?
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