Thread: Thais helping thais to rip off farang scum

Originally Posted by ray23

Yep, stuff happens and they don't need any lessons. But you seem an intelligent person and had to know it was a possiblity. Sometimes we all make decesion's in life we regret. To be honest sometimes I think the emotional risk out weighs the financial ones. But just cause you where a white hat doesn't always make you a hero in everyone eyes. To some it makes you a fool and they are more then willing to take advantage of you.

Truly sorry for your loss, but just like us you threw the dice unfortunaltley you crapped out. By the way if you have found he magic answer to a relationship let me know I sure as heck haven't found it

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Well said Ray and right on point. In fact the the heartbreak was far worse than the "wallet break."

Actually things are pretty cool right now...

Oh trust me I got my own t-shirt.

I hear ya bro'...

Ok if here you is a good cry in the beer and true but remember no one held a gun to my head. I was responsible and did l all to myself.

I had a real mail order bride form the P.I. had a 14 year marriage and two beautiful daughters, Due to accident I got my retirement early. Learned a specil;ized trade that could do adn a g home p operted business, with three years in it. Making good money. One more year and would have had to ahve employees and I would have been sitting home calling the shots and making very good money.

Men are not the only one who have the middle age crazies. Within a mattre of a few months I lost my family, n my home the busiiness, and was hosptialized. All that I had worked for my entire life was destroyed. Ended up in the hospital over it. Still paying a $150- buck months until I'm 65.

But I was the lucky one she has completly destoyed three other men since then.

The rela sad part one my kids aftre years of private school opted not to attend college. They are both in real shakey realtionships. The ex was hit by the financial crisis trying to make the easy money. So she is about to lose her ill gotten gains. Yes is there is some justice there. But remember my kids are right in the middle of it. So I'm not happy about it.

What was the real loss, trust. I sit around felt sorry for myself for a period of time. Found a new way to mak good money, that didn't require a completly clear mine do do. Cause I didn't have one. Heck man ther was on way but up from there. sio kicked myself in the but and go busy. Went back to dating. I was bigger user walking on two feet. I was getting as much as I wanted anytime I wanted it. By the way this was in the stares I wasn't paying for it. Lots of ladies around that need affection. But they always had baggage. The amazing thing is couldn't see my own, I had so much it would taken a truck to move it. But it was always them.

I actually met a very succesful lady a CFO for a company, beautiful and Asian. That fell deeply in love with and her with me, darned if I know why. Scared the living hell out of me. Here she was a loving kind person, who would have done anything for me. But I just could not trust. She kept trying to work this crap through I finally had a friend tell her I was Gay and there was nothign I could about it. Pretty sick stuff.

It took a fwe years here before I could find a lady that I would trust and there w lot shakey stuff going on. Not becaue of her but becasue of me. Well we have been together for abou five years now, We are buying a house have all we need and most of what we want. She handles the household budget and I have my own.

Will end up getting burnt? Man if someone could predict that acurately they could make a fortune.

In the end what I finally had to understand was I had control of my life, I put myself there and no one else. If I wanted success I had to be willing to risk and accept failure if that happens.

So I could sit and dwell on this cry in my beer and just keep reliving it. Or I can move on contiue this adventure called life. I've done that it wa the right decesion for me.

Originally Posted by ray23

Ok if here you is a good cry in the beer and true but remember no one held a gun to my head. I was responsible and did l all to myself.

I had a real mail order bride form the P.I. had a 14 year marriage and two beautiful daughters, Due to accident I got my retirement early. Learned a specil;ized trade that could do adn a g home p operted business, with three years in it. Making good money. One more year and would have had to ahve employees and I would have been sitting home calling the shots and making very good money.

Men are not the only one who have the middle age crazies. Within a mattre of a few months I lost my family, n my home the busiiness, and was hosptialized. All that I had worked for my entire life was destroyed. Ended up in the hospital over it. Still paying a $150- buck months until I'm 65.

But I was the lucky one she has completly destoyed three other men since then.

The rela sad part one my kids aftre years of private school opted not to attend college. They are both in real shakey realtionships. The ex was hit by the financial crisis trying to make the easy money. So she is about to lose her ill gotten gains. Yes is there is some justice there. But remember my kids are right in the middle of it. So I'm not happy about it.

What was the real loss, trust. I sit around felt sorry for myself for a period of time. Found a new way to mak good money, that didn't require a completly clear mine do do. Cause I didn't have one. Heck man ther was on way but up from there. sio kicked myself in the but and go busy. Went back to dating. I was bigger user walking on two feet. I was getting as much as I wanted anytime I wanted it. By the way this was in the stares I wasn't paying for it. Lots of ladies around that need affection. But they always had baggage. The amazing thing is couldn't see my own, I had so much it would taken a truck to move it. But it was always them.

I actually met a very succesful lady a CFO for a company, beautiful and Asian. That fell deeply in love with and her with me, darned if I know why. Scared the living hell out of me. Here she was a loving kind person, who would have done anything for me. But I just could not trust. She kept trying to work this crap through I finally had a friend tell her I was Gay and there was nothign I could about it. Pretty sick stuff.

It took a fwe years here before I could find a lady that I would trust and there w lot shakey stuff going on. Not becaue of her but becasue of me. Well we have been together for abou five years now, We are buying a house have all we need and most of what we want. She handles the household budget and I have my own.

Will end up getting burnt? Man if someone could predict that acurately they could make a fortune.

In the end what I finally had to understand was I had control of my life, I put myself there and no one else. If I wanted success I had to be willing to risk and accept failure if that happens.

So I could sit and dwell on this cry in my beer and just keep reliving it. Or I can move on contiue this adventure called life. I've done that it wa the right decesion for me.

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I did cry in my beer for about one year. Well not really probably about six months.

Interesting so many similarities in our experience.

I did meet a beautiful Phillapina here in San Diego 20 years younger. Gorgeous, suck and f[at]ck of a lifetime, clean the house from top to bottom.

Bottom line we just broke up. She want's to get married.

I DON'T THINK SO!!!

Poor pepino. Whaaaaaaaa

God these young chicks are killin' me

Oh it's not all that of an unusual story, just different players different place. Glad to hear you are moving on. Takes years to get the trust back.

Sorry. I don't trust that advice...

Not advice just a wild guess LOL

I am scared now.

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If you are the German who recently sent my ladyfriend's best friend ThB 57,000 for the airfare to Germany you have no reason to be scared.

Her boyfriend has a new motorsai and she hasn't got enough left for the flight.

Originally Posted by Fabian

I am scared now.

DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE GET MARRIED.

REALLY THERE'S NO REASON TO.

Not in todays world, really...

Originally Posted by ray23

By the way if you have found he magic answer to a relationship let me know I sure as heck haven't found it

Treat them mean, keep them keen - you have to bring a balance of compassion in there though!

Pepino sounds like a good plan to me, but wasn't for me.

Reaper that seems to work.

Originally Posted by Reaper

Originally Posted by ray23

By the way if you have found he magic answer to a relationship let me know I sure as heck haven't found it

Treat them mean, keep them keen - you have to bring a balance of compassion in there though!

I treated her like a focking queen and adored her. Silly me. Should have roughed her up a bit I guess?

Nah not for me.

I 'll tell you though these young Asian chicks here in San Diego are FOCKIN' KILLIN' ME!!!

Fillipinas, Thais, Koreans this place is loaded. Have to give my little girl from Vera Cruz honorable mention.

Viva Mexico and Asia too of course. Are they are all sex crazed focking nymphos!

I'm not just a piece of meat ya know.

I do have feelings...