Last edited by tjyflhol; 16-08-2009 at 04:35 PM.
I think you mean this postOriginally Posted by tjyflhol
I no way do I say that you was looking to find underage girls in bars. My answer was specific in the fact the girls will lie about their age if they think it will please a customerQuote:
Originally Posted by tjyflhol
I was offered a 17 yr old girl in a bar several months ago, and I am a farang.
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they can be any age you wish them to be
Last edited by gjbkk; 16-08-2009 at 04:53 PM.
That's why I edited my post Gjbkk, you must have replied at about the same time I was deleting that comment.
Actually if I did think you meant that you would be getting far more hassle from me than simply asking how long you have lived in Thailand.
Gotta disagree with you there.Originally Posted by blackgang
Most girls are selling themselves because they can't support their families on the pittance that most legitimate, low-skilled jobs pay in Thailand.
i,m just wondering, you reckon if i sent the god botherer a e,mail she'd save some of them sheila's for me?
Yeh I recon she would mate, being a good christian an all. But then again she maybe a double muff buffer and saves them for herselfOriginally Posted by nedwalk
Sorry guys, I am not going to cut and paste all of the other posters’ comments but if you have read the thread you will know what I am talking about.
Regarding my comments you can see the gjbkk failed to pull his head in and continued to make offensive posts. (BTW I generally detest violence and also bad language, hence the asterisks).
gjbkk, in subsequent posts you assume I am a religious man...for your information I am an atheist. However, I do have morals. I also do not know you and I am loathe to make presumptions...everything I know about you is based on what you have posted here...your apparent ignorance and disrespect for others.
One of the reasons I left LoS after more than 5 years was because I was sick of meeting “sexpats” both in my professional capacity and my private life. What happens to many is what psychologists call “normalising” where deviant behaviour becomes acceptable as it is all around you. How many of you guys would go into a workplace and openly brag about bedding prostitutes in the West and show such ignorance towards women?
I am no moralist and understand prostitution is not a farang problem (that really is the tip of the iceberg). But guys who partake should IMHO exhibit some degree of respect, decorum and discretion.
I see you are from NI gjbkk. I spent quite some time there 20 years ago. I will probably return to LoS at some point and if you are up to the challenge we could make something good out of this: muay thai gym (Huay Kwang perhaps?), headguards and gloves and we sell tickets to TD members to raise money for Ms. McGee’s charity. I am sure quite a few people would like to see your ignorance jap-slapped and I would be willing to oblige.
(Other readers please don’t misinterpret this: I am a quiet, unassuming guy but with some people rational argument fails).
I greened you for your first post gunslinger and hope you continue to post here, but a word of advice. If keep trying to act the hard man to someone here because they disagree with your opinion, you will quite rightly get lynched here by the other members.
It's not big and it's not clever to play the tough guy act online and you're making yourself look a bit foolish.
I don't think anyone will have much success "saving" these girls until they can
find (provide) an alternate, comparable income for them and their families.
Everyone morals are diff - what you might detest is perfectly fine for another. Morals are subjective.
One of the reasons I left LoS after more than 5 years was because I was sick of meeting “sexpats” both in my professional capacity and my private life.
Well I am glad you admit you have a problem and decided to leave to sort your own issues out.
Why hide it? Just to satisfy your blinkered views. (better to be out in the open where all can see)But guys who partake should IMHO exhibit some degree of respect, decorum and discretion.
nid aur yw popeth melyn
But you dont mind using a retarded kid in fun as a avatar which I think many on this board would find offensive due to being retardedOriginally Posted by Gunslinger
Last edited by Rigger; 16-08-2009 at 08:36 PM.
Hi Dungslinger
Nah, I just worked there for a bit.Originally Posted by Gunslinger
So you worked in a bar thenOriginally Posted by Gunslinger
Yes, and it has to be among consenting adults. I don't go to many places that have signs of "indentured servatitude" or worse.So do any of you guys ever consider ( or care..) those young men or women ( or children..? ) might actually NOT want your fat disgusting, sunburned belly slapping up against them for money ?
Worth noting is that these bad conditions are mostly locals abusing locals.
Still despicable, but that is the case.
^ Most (more than 50%) are hooking for economic reasons, IMO.
In Patters many young ladies go there (often with friends) to send money home, and there is a possibility of getting a "boyfriend" who will cuddle and send money. Sometimes marriage happens and these ladies can see the world. Exception, not the rule, but I've met a couple of ladies that married Westerners.
Prostitution has been around for thousands of years, and will always be around.
There should be parameters of decency with regard to it.
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Exactly! I am a woman who has been living in Thailand for a few years. At least this girl is trying to help in some small way. The ones that want to be helped to get out of the business are going to be helped. True that society needs more jobs, and safety measures for these women such as safe houses. Thailand has many prostitutes that are male, and female, and some are sold into it by their families. Change should start at the top, but it won't because the goverment is part of it, and partaking in it.
Easy for you guys to sit and put down this woman, but be honest with yourself, how many are also, or have been with prostitutes, and have helped this business prosper? Well, look at yourselves before condoning this woman.
Absolutely. The way some of us so called 'civilised' people treat these girls (and guys I guess) is abhorrent. Fair enough if someone decides to prostitute themselves, but they're still people for fuck's sake.Originally Posted by Milkman
^ True. So, true.
^Exactly Bar Girls have my up most respect. I find they are far better people then some supposed top tier professions such as lawyers.
And Bankers ?
My rule of thumb is to provide trust & respect to a person until giving a reason to do otherwise... This has bit me over the years and has caused me to be more cautious, but I refuse to walk around being a cynical bastard all the time...
With 20,000 humans dying a day of starvation & disease I feel the 'missionaries' time in the OP would be better spend on those who are in dire need...
Give a man a match, and he'll be warm for a minute, but set him on fire, and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.
^Burma would be a nice place for her. Oh right that means she be risking her life.
We should start our own stop prostitution campain in Thailand, I think I should get some shirts made up with
STOP PROSTITUTION MARRY A BAR GIRL
Just remember if you can save one it will be all worth it
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