Sinsod for 19y/o ex-virgin girlfriend

[withnallstoke]

Sinsodsad.

Is this prime piece of Isaan meat a bottom virgin?
If so,be carefull of doing her up the ass with your big willy, it could be messy in the long run.

you know that from experience

No.

But i know a man that does.

[Norton]

the other guy is probably so old he can't remember the last time he got an erection

Bullshit. It was only last........Wait it's coming to me now. Ha! Tuesday 19 September 2006 as I watched the coup on TV. Or was it the 1977 coup?

[harrybarracuda]

she also still wants to provide for her lousy mom

Halfway to being stitched up anyway. (a) He's merkin and (b) he hates his future mother in law.

[10851]

Where do you think this pretty little Virgin learned English fluently ?
Working in a Bar and playing the money game with farangs on and of the internet Dude !
Get a clue !
Agree, you should pay up and give her all she wants because you are so young and good looking that you can be a super star model. But none of the pretty girls in real life will love you long time, so you prefer to meet girls on the internet dating sites that you have to pay for

Your parents won't mind, and you don't care taking advantage of them to take care of a Gold Digger and your worthless self.

You popped that cherry already, so let her take the Sugar Daddy's money, and you and she can go to Pattaya where you can live off your pimpin income while she gets banged by all the Bigger cocks than yours

[DrAndy]

You popped that cherry already

you know so much from the rest of your post that I would think that is doubtful too!

[sabaii sabaii]

Fuck this place for a game of soldiers

[crocodilexp]

This thread has some well-meaning advice, but a lot of it is too cynical and close to malicious.

You shouldn't get married at 21/19. Both you and your girl will change over the years. If you really love each other, you can stay together for a few years, then get married. I know Thai couples who dated for up to 12 years before marrying.

While you could scrape by on 30k/month, pressure to feed 2-4 mouths (plus the ever-greedier mother-in-law) will seriously hobble your opportunities in education, work, business development. You have the entrepreneurial spirit and a bright future, don't throw it all away.

For the marriage to work, she needs to be determined to be with you and capable of handling family pressure. She does not seems mature or determined enough to stick with you and make it work. You laid out the future clearly and offered her a lot, even past the point of overextending yourself. You can't do anything more to make those pressures on her go away.

Don't get into the bidding match -- even if you outbid the other guy now, you'll lose in the long term. The greedy mother is a problem that will get worse, not better, with time, unless your GF stands by your side and handles it.

Love is blind, and you may not want to hear this, but walking away is your only option if the girl is not strong enough to stay with you after you offered her what you reasonably could.

[Cujo]

This thread has some well-meaning advice, but a lot of it is too cynical and close to malicious.

You shouldn't get married at 21/19. Both you and your girl will change over the years. If you really love each other, you can stay together for a few years, then get married. I know Thai couples who dated for up to 12 years before marrying.

While you could scrape by on 30k/month, pressure to feed 2-4 mouths (plus the ever-greedier mother-in-law) will seriously hobble your opportunities in education, work, business development. You have the entrepreneurial spirit and a bright future, don't throw it all away.

For the marriage to work, she needs to be determined to be with you and capable of handling family pressure. She does not seems mature or determined enough to stick with you and make it work. You laid out the future clearly and offered her a lot, even past the point of overextending yourself. You can't do anything more to make those pressures on her go away.

Don't get into the bidding match -- even if you outbid the other guy now, you'll lose in the long term. The greedy mother is a problem that will get worse, not better, with time, unless your GF stands by your side and handles it.

Love is blind, and you may not want to hear this, but walking away is your only option if the girl is not strong enough to stay with you after you offered her what you reasonably could.

Are you shitting me. The O.P. is long gone, he was taking the piss, having a joke.

[Sinsodsad]

Are you shitting me. The O.P. is long gone, he was taking the piss, having a joke.

OP? Opening Poster? I am not joking, how many times do I have to say this. This is a situation ongoing as I posted:

"With advice from this topic I told her the study is superior and she should just accept it without sinsod. This made her rather offended, with the next morning full of sorrow and agreeing. However, she currently wants to do something in between, agreeing to my terms saying she wants to study with me, she also still wants to provide for her mom, so she wants him to finish the house, than sell the overly expensive car and use that money for symbolic sinsod, as in one where I don't pay, while getting a more average car instead. I think I'll see how it plays out from a distance, before deciding. Is this still a mistake?"

This thread has some well-meaning advice, but a lot of it is too cynical and close to malicious.

You shouldn't get married at 21/19. Both you and your girl will change over the years. If you really love each other, you can stay together for a few years, then get married. I know Thai couples who dated for up to 12 years before marrying.

While you could scrape by on 30k/month, pressure to feed 2-4 mouths (plus the ever-greedier mother-in-law) will seriously hobble your opportunities in education, work, business development. You have the entrepreneurial spirit and a bright future, don't throw it all away.

For the marriage to work, she needs to be determined to be with you and capable of handling family pressure. She does not seems mature or determined enough to stick with you and make it work. You laid out the future clearly and offered her a lot, even past the point of overextending yourself. You can't do anything more to make those pressures on her go away.

Don't get into the bidding match -- even if you outbid the other guy now, you'll lose in the long term. The greedy mother is a problem that will get worse, not better, with time, unless your GF stands by your side and handles it.

Love is blind, and you may not want to hear this, but walking away is your only option if the girl is not strong enough to stay with you after you offered her what you reasonably could.

Thanks for the helpful, in-depth comment. I cannot go into a bidding match, I made this very clear to her and (so far) she has accepted that. As stated above. She is naive, as I am sure I am as well at times, but she is not stupid. I explained her the basis of "Farang" economy (over the course of days actually), and she understands the value of the study (international business). She is sooner afraid I will leave her in Europe during the study for another girl, which although I do not plan on is a bit understandable as worry considering we're young. Just as I have no family safety-net in Asia, she doesn't in mainland Europe. However would something happen, I would help her finish the study.

The reason I am watching from a distance now is because it may provide enough for the mother to be OK for a while. It definitely should, and her daughter thinks the same.

If it works out, we go study in Belgium. This is my best offer. I did not however tell her exact numbers, just a estimate of costs, and that we have enough and I made her talk to my parents often as I do understand for better or for worse you get serious with more than a girl in Thailand, also a family. So I made her know my family too.

[superman]

If it works out, we go study in Belgium.

Her English is supposedly not great, I assume. So how the fcuk is she suddenly going to understand some Flemish tutor ? Plus, what qualifications does she have here that would give her an automatic place in a Belgium collage ? Have you applied for a visa yet ? If not, what makes you think you'll get one ?

[Sinsodsad]

If it works out, we go study in Belgium.

Her English is supposedly not great, I assume. So how the fcuk is she suddenly going to understand some Flemish tutor ? Plus, what qualifications does she have here that would give her an automatic place in a Belgium collage ? Have you applied for a visa yet ? If not, what makes you think you'll get one ?

"High School" is Matayom 6, "College" I looked it up with Nuffic in NL, it is a equal to 2 years UoAS/Hogeschool.

When we first met her English was quite good, I saw her grades at high school for English, all excellent. She studied English quite seriously in the past, and since we met she greatly improved. I send her a book on going from regular English to a academic level, which she studied. If needed, she will take 1 extra year of 5th year HAVO at a int college, which should make it enough.

The study is 100% in English.

[OhOh]

she gets banged by all the Bigger cocks than yours

Is there one bigger than XXXL?

Pictures and be banned.

[Butterfly]

When we first met her English was quite good,

oh oh bad news, definitely an ex-virgin, even before she met you

post a pic of her, can tell from her face if she is a player or not, you can send by PM instead

[Cujo]

If you're for real and you're still involved with this girl after all this then you're a complete fool and deserve the reaming you're about to get.
Much like the victims of the Nigerian scams generally don't get much sympathy.
Just keep us informed so in a year or two when you come crying back we can laugh at you.'

[blue]

What subjects will you both be studying in Belgium ?

[OhOh]

post a pic of her, can tell from her face if she is a player or no

Any tattoos? We have experts who can tell which part of Issan she is from.

you can send by PM instead

Which of course he will keep strictly private.

[Loy Toy]

She is naive

I think she is light years in front of you regarding real life experiences and she certainly is not naive.

as I am sure I am as well at times

That's exactly what she is hopping for.

but she is not stupid

Neither is her mum, they make a good team.

I still suspect you are a well known troll but I have responded just in case your telling the truth.

[TizMe]

I saw her grades at high school for English, all excellent.

My wife's nephew has "excellent" English grades from University...







He can't speak more than a few simple words.

[jizzybloke]

Where are the pictures??

[DrAndy]

I explained her the basis of "Farang" economy

blimey, you must be very well educated

She studied English quite seriously in the past, and since we met she greatly improved.

maybe that should be "she has greatly improved"

I send her a book on going from regular English to a academic level, which she studied.

maybe that should be "I sent her" and "an academic"

I hope you will not be teaching her English!

[Aussie Tigger]

If you are genuine then time to grow up and get in the real world.Take your ego and move on well away from this situation as it is No Win.

[OhOh]

I hope you will not be teaching her English!

Isn't this guy a Belgian by nationality?

[bobo746]

I am very good looking, to the point I can be a photomodel if I wished so. Let me put this out here, cause in my oppinion this means I should have a fair amount of value for her.

Your not canadian are you ??

[superman]

When we first met her English was quite good, I saw her grades at high school for English, all excellent.

So you can read Thai ?

[harrybarracuda]

I thought he was good looking enough to be a "Photomodel" (Milletts catalogue?). How come he hasn't got a stunning caucasian girlfriend?