Good internet dating sites not full of scammers

[toddaniels]

Don't try for a looker or analyse too much.

What was that to mean? Don't try for a looker, look for a hooker, but don't anal-ize them too much??

Ride 'em hard, put em away wet, do you?

Why on earth would you "enjoy everyone you meet" or was that meant to be "everyone you meat"?

It is my experience you gotta turn over a whole pile 'o rocks to even find a diamond in the rough.. It you meet 'em and they're a rock, toss 'em out and keep lookin'.

[john1000]

Met a pretty girl on Thailovelinks, very honest and normal..( they do exist in large numbers) and also some intelligent ones who are now good friends.
If you are choosy, you can have a good time and not just a quick shag unless that's what you want.

Melting pots are full of variety. The girls on these sites also have similar thoughts to the replies here.

[thaimeme]

Met a pretty girl on Thailovelinks, very honest and normal..( they do exist in large numbers) and also some intelligent ones who are now good friends.
If you are choosy, you can have a good time and not just a quick shag unless that's what you want.

Melting pots are full of variety. The girls on these sites also have similar thoughts to the replies here.

Normal?
Defined as the same as others?

Wouldn't you prefer a companion that might break herself from the mold of normality?

[Mr Earl]

Why buy the cow when you can simply enjoy a nice glass of buttermilk?

[keekwai]

Why buy the cow when you can simply enjoy a nice glass of buttermilk?

Because I have more money than you?

[toddaniels]

Met a pretty girl on Thailovelinks, very honest and normal..( they do exist in large numbers) and also some intelligent ones who are now good friends. .

Wow! You mean to say on a dating site geared towards thailand which has possibly thousands of thai gurls looking for foreigners, you met managed to meet a "pretty" one? Really got the bar set low don't you?

I think you might be taking some creative license with the word "intelligent" but again if you set the bar on the ground, it's easy for people to get over it without tripping.

I hafta agree with "thaimeme" on this one.

Why in the world would you want what passes for "honest and normal" where thai gurlz are concerned? The mind wobbles at the sheer lunacy of such a statement!

Haven't managed to lose those rose colored glasses yet huh? I got a spare pair if you want 'em that I don't wear anymore

[keekwai]

Haven't managed to lose those rose colored glasses yet huh? I got a spare pair if you want 'em that I don't wear anymore

If he hasn't lost his r/c glasses yet... why would he need your spare pair? How low was the bar when you were pushed over it?

[toddaniels]

Good catch, sorta bollocksed up that response... Can' fool you guyz for even a second! Sharp as tacks you are...

Then again, maybe he wants to double up, wear two pairs for the the real "rosy" effect!

[PlanK]

I hafta agree with "thaimeme" on this one.

Quoted for posterity.
I doubt we'll ever see this posted again in our lifetime!

[keekwai]

Then again, maybe he wants to double up, wear two pairs for the the real "rosy" effect!

That's a thought...didn't think of that!

[Latindancer]

Why in the world would you want what passes for "honest and normal" where thai gurlz are concerned? The mind wobbles at the sheer lunacy of such a statement!

The word "normal" gives my mind vertigo too. It has been overused for so long it's lost it's meaning, and in recent years also acquired various other ADDED meanings from the many contexts it's been used in.

He's not so articulate that he managed to say something more specific. That's cool. We can't all be as articulate as Thegent.


"Honest" is good though. My wife has is honest and straightforward.... a country girl. The heart of a child, but has a good brain and science degree.

And getting back to the subject of this thread : I met her on Dateinasia 5 1/2 years ago, and I very soon knew she was the woman for me....she's a delight to be with.

[ENT]

The word "normal" gives my mind vertigo..

I believe you implicitly.

[9999]

Met mine on Thai Love Links. I chatted with about 200 women, dated about 50, shagged about 20, and hooked up with 1, we have 2 kids now.

The scammers / players / whores etc. are easy to spot. You need to have your finger on the pulse of new sign-ups, and get them before they are inundated. I'd say the ration of normal to non-normal (normal meaning not on the game) is about 10% 'normal', and they go pretty quick.

If you're after a keeper, I would not go with an old profile (of course this is not 100% protection), and give them the first night test. Try shag them on the first date and if they agree, they fail the test (but you still get laid).

Plenty of sluts but why do the small talk thing? They don't like it and yes they are proper women not westernised so coming onto men is not in their nature, you gotta take the initiative even with the sluts. If they don't reply to your skype asking how they are feeling until the next day, you are probably boring them.

I met up with a lady off TF last week just for old time's sake. She was clearly on the game, the convo went like this in the chat:

me: Hi
her: Hi :-)
me: what you doing this afternoon
her: watch tv
me: want to come get drunk?
her: I don't drink
me: want to come watch me get drunk?
her: OK if you in city I can come meet you close loi kro
me: ok, give me your number, I'll go somewhere and call you
her: xxxxxxxxxx

Met her at about 4 PM at a classy bar on Loi Kroh, Chiang Mai.

She rocks up dripping in gold and orders herself a beer (after saying she doesnt drink). She then goes on to rave about her (ex) French bf who she owns a guest house with, but she keeps busting him using the spare rooms to shag other women.

So she got online for revenge, and was up for it, but I was clear from the start that this was just a friendly drink, and that I'm taken. She was cool with that, and expressed her frustration at men constantly wanting have sex with her. I told her if for whatever reason I wanted to shag someone else I'd just pay 1500 TB for one of those, and motioned to all the whores starting to gather on the street. She agreed and commented on why other guys don't get it, then continued on her self absorbed rant about her frog bf.

Pretty sexy gal for 36, pretty good english, but made a point of telling me she never worked in a bar but was into english from a young age

[toddaniels]

Reminds me of a time way back, sitting in the Nana Hotel smoking section with the old timers. There were gurls lined up on both sides of the parking lot and one of 'em looked sorta "half thai".

One old guy remarked, "That whore looks like she's got some farang in her."

To which I replied, "She probably has some farang in her at least two or three times a day!"

Ahhh those were the dayz! Sadly, most of those regulars at Nana Hotel are all dead now, or migrated to the Philippines where whores speak something that resembles english enough to converse with them.

Okay, one last one.

A brit I know took a deaf go-go gurl from one of the go-go bars in NEP. His thinking was he'd cut out the small talk takin' a deaf one.. She was gone from the club less than 10 minutes, but the brit never came back.. I called him the next day and asked, "WTF happened to you guy, the gurl came right back?.' He said it was like fuckin' a dolphin, with the sounds she made!

[Iceman123]

.she's a delight to be with.

I agree

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[keekwai]

I chatted with about 200 women, dated about 50, shagged about 20, and hooked up with 1

"Extreme Window Shopping"

[Norman55]

I tried thaiflirting.com, no spammers, a lot of girls, not so much farangs, very easy to find a girl...

[mrshipper]

date in asia

has always worked well for me over the years. Free, although less girls than there used to be.

[BaitongBoy]

Do they deliver, mrshipper?...Or is that where you come in?...

[moylo]

Another site that has been around for over 10 years is Thaigirlsingle.com I know it's free for sure. Has some adverts though.

[Horatio Hornblower]

Not sure why anyone needs dating sites in Thailand, go to malls or were theres a lot of women smile say hello and have a chat.

[keekwai]

The methodical process we used to meet women was the same on each dating site. We did not have inferior results on the bottom-10 sites because we didn’t put forth the same amount of effort or use the same strategies. We had inferior results because the sites are…inferior.

Or the applicant was inferior and the local Thai lasses surmised that you were a total wanker and decided to decline responding.....maybe...

[Horatio Hornblower]

Oh someones a wanker for smiling and saying Hello,well aren't you Mr Socialble.

[keekwai]

Oh! I see. The "hello" brigade on dating sites. The most ignored message in all of internet dating history.

Buy a whore... it's easier..