Ok I'm bored, rained-in today, headache from a budget tooth extarction (272 baht since you asked) . . . so took the time to summarise the key points from a thread on another forum on how to fit in . . .
This all, apparently, that it takes:
Finances
- Be generous around your village. Give (however small or little) to the elderly in the moo-barn. Give to your local temple and school. Help those in dire need and the elderly.
- Buy a big case of "Lao Khao" and bring some "ocean food" with you when you come from Bkk.
- Regularly eat at the local noodle shops
- Never loan money in the village, Thais dont understand the word "loan"
Relationships
- Smile, smile, and go on smiling. Never confront a local. Just smile and politely excuse yourself to leave the scene.
- Wai/sawadee everyone. Thai loves this. If you do this everyday to everyone your life will be so much better and easy. Don't wai other farangs, we shake hands.
- Speak Thai
- Visit people. Take part in the village social life. Attend parties for weddings, funerals, special events, and hold your own when applicable.
Pleased to have been of assistance.
Wowser alert: NB No offence intended