Not every old farang with young Thai girl is a pervert

[Marmite the Dog]

I am in that situation, she is 37 and I am 58. I am very happy and I met her at Carrefour not some damn bar.

Was it before she started her shift?

[kk boy]

Why Rascal, do you look down on those that have worked a bar ?

[Mr Earl]

^Bar girls can gems.

[FarangRed]

I have had some good friends that have worked the bars after they have finished

[Rascal]

when I was young during the war over here, that pussy was good. But you get hooked and these girl's do not make good wives in most cases.

[Rascal]

NO I will not be suckered into discussing this much with you. No she worked everyday, rode the bus 3/4 hrs a day. I met her family and it is not like that or has it ever been. Now I am sorry. I set my self as a better than thou, cause we all are the same flesh and blood. We are the same mostly. Just that
I been there, know better thats it.

[Lorenzo]

That really pisses me off though that people (Thai or Farang) make assumptions about some shit they know nothing about.

you no like thailand style

[Dreadlord]

NO I will not be suckered into discussing this much with you.

Too late !

[SubicHasher]

I am 59 and my wife is 37, can't say that I ever think too much about the age difference except in the context of her career/working life and how it will effect us when I am retired. (me seeing her off to work as I get ready to go fishin!)

[FarangRed]

^or doing the house work

[MeMock]

Lot of posts here, so kind off skitting through them. Seems to be a common theme though, with a lot of self justification taking place. This particular thread isn't uncommon, and maybe says more about the need of Farang to self justify their lives than anything else (maybe?).

Bottom line, if you feel more self consciousness in your situation than pride in walking beside the woman in your life, then you've made the wrong choice.

And self justification would matter why ?

Sure, if your in the West (America) being seen with someone that is 50 years YOUNGER than you is looked upon as pervish or she is a money hungry whore.

And in Thailand it isn't?

Culture? How many 70 year old Thai men do you see walking down the street with their 20 year old wife?

How many?

None. Stop kidding yourself.

[FarangRed]

most Thai guys don't live until 70 because they have had to many mia noi's

[the dogcatcher]

I met Laosy in boots.
I think they were real leather.

[FarangRed]

Thigh length?

[HollyGoodhead]

Can you not just do a poll or something then we can decide for ourselves.

[Bower]

As only a visitor to Thailand, i have never been the victim of vicious comments but i have seen it. Most are from decaying Western women accompanied by their envious husbands.

[Rascal]

Why Rascal, do you look down on those that have worked a bar ?

I just know at my age they would never be my choice. They want money only and not really love you, probably ever. IMHO

[Marmite the Dog]

I just know at my age they would never be my choice. They want money only and not really love you, probably ever. IMHO

But a woman half the age of an old git only wants love and not money, right?

[FlyFree]

^She seeketh wisdom and guidance in a troubled world, is what she seeketh.

[Travelmate]

I just know at my age they would never be my choice. They want money only and not really love you, probably ever. IMHO

But a woman half the age of an old git only wants love and not money, right?

Plus the git being the 4 times the weight and size. eh Marmers.

[Marmite the Dog]

I just know at my age they would never be my choice. They want money only and not really love you, probably ever. IMHO

But a woman half the age of an old git only wants love and not money, right?

Plus the git being the 4 times the weight and size. eh Marmers.

No point trying hammer a large nail with a small hammer, is there?

Even though in my case it's more like trying to drive home a penny tack with a sledgehammer...

[Rascal]

I just know at my age they would never be my choice. They want money only and not really love you, probably ever. IMHO

But a woman half the age of an old git only wants love and not money, right?

to say it applies to all cases it does not. That would be idiotic to suggest that. I am saying in most cases that is what they want. Your money!

[Aussie Tigger]

Only way to handle any of the comments is to ignore them as hard as that may be to do. Back in Australia you can feel the looks from the older women who see you with your younger wife or partner.Small price to pay though to have a younger lady who makes you feel younger and alive in the process.In North East Thailand the looks are complimentary with the women in particular envious that the lady on your arm is not them.There are however many depraved farangs in Thailand an South East Asia who have contributed to the way newcomers perceive any older man with a younger partner. Not a nice feel though I know to be walking hand in hand with your 11 year old step daughter who is proud as punch to be with her farang Dad and have someone talk down or about you.

[Aussie Tigger]

it annoys the crap out of me to read ignorant comments referring to thai younger women in general.As we know all farangs are not out of the same mold.
of course thai women hook up with a farang for a better life,what women in a western country would not do the same if placed in the same socio economic situation. it is us farangs on once a year holidays who bs to them that forces them to lie to survive.After we have gone they are still there trying to survive and support the oldies at home back in the province.Sure there are some hard as nails women who have seen it all and will screw you and lie. But there are also many thai women if given the chance and feel secure who will repay you ten times over in love and care.It may take you a few attempts to find one like this but believe me they are there. So please dont generalise with negativity. By the way westerners have roughly a 50% divorce rate and they are not forced into marriage to survive.

[the dogcatcher]

women in a western country would not do the same if placed in the same socio economic situation.
They do it when they are not as well.
Whores, one and all.