Originally Posted by
rickschoppers
I would go speak to both of the professors that taught the classes where she received the F as a final grade. Often times they will know what causes a student to fail.
not so sure about that. freshman classes are usually big and talking to the professor is about as effective as....
the biggest distraction is at home. her apartment or wherever. she simply isnt spending time studying. the biggest question is: what is she actually doing? it's gotta be something. either something bad or she just doesnt want to study and just wants to work, and play adult for a while, which is a real thing.
the academics bit is the easiest thing, once you've put your mind to it.
college professors dont want to talk to parents and often they dont even know student names. if you asked to see if she attended classes, many will say they don't even take attendance. and those who do, might give you an answer but are unlikely to have any decent info on your kid. go talk to her neighbors and if you can, see what she's up to online. follow her around (i know that sounds like stalking), but if she did well in high school and i failing out her first year, there is something going on. best guess is, 1. boys, 2. partying, 3. both, or 4. self obsession and lack of desire to learn, no matter how much she tells dad she wants to "be in college".
undergrad isnt that hard. go to class. do your work to a minimum degree of effort and you pass. F's are because one of the said reasons aren't being done.