I don't want any confusion about this, this a definetly a RANT
Things have gotten so bad around the house with people not listening it resulting in major problems.
I'll just give two examples. We were having painting done to get drop cloths down masking tape to be used was five times a day reminder. It was like following kids around finger painting. Even with that one brillant individual climbs in the a new well kept pickup with paint on thier back of thier shirt, result one ruined car seat.
Still yet start another room they don't put the drop clothes down.
There are four of us in the house in the daytime, the wife and I, the aunt and the housekeeper who has worked fro is for three years. She is normally a jewel.
Ok I've had been having to follow people around like they are children. So I sit down with them Saturday count them that four days ago. I have a very Jai Yen talk with them all explaining that being ignored when I say something had gotten very old. As nicely as one could posssibly do asked to understand that when I tell them something I have reasons and want my directions followed.
About a month ago after Auntie had been told dozen of times not to let the dogs out to watch when she opens and closes the gate. She lets one out and he chews up a neighbors dog, fortunatley it was in the street, Honestly the dog is major pest and got what it had coming. So I'm up on my soap box with everyone for days watch the damn gate.
So what happens today house keeper lets the dog out, he heads right for the other dog who had been tormenting him for two years and this time he goes right into the peoples yard and chews him a new ass.
How do I find out wife comes in a panic and at the top of her lungs you got to go tell the neighbor sorry. After I recovered from the shock. I was real curious why I would be apologizing to neighbor, hadn't even been out of the office.
Then I get housekeeper let the dog out and he had a fight with the other dog. Lets see I didn't a damn thing wrong and I'm going to apologize. No something doesn't equate here, told her to tell the houskeeper to go apologize.
I got a shirt on went over and found out what happened and told the lady to take obnoxiuos asshole dog to the vet and bring me the bill.
I also made it very clear that the next time someone let the dog cause they are to lazy to look before they opened a gate they were going home including Auntie.
Now here it is guys no one wants to listen till there is a problem then they have ceated and then I'm expected to solve it IE: me aplogize.
Now if something happens, goes wrong cause you didn't know somehting that is a mistake.
But if you ahve been told a 100 times and you do it anyway, that my friends is stupid behavoir.
They are all consoling the the houskeeper cause she got yelled at this time, probably the first time in three years. She has got big tears running down the cheeks the whole nine yards Why becuase the lady who she apologized had not talked nice to her at some point.
Well so what nice people or not if your wrong your wrong and there is no doubt that she was wrong.
I have honestly hit me limit on picking up the peices for Thai's that assume because you are a farrang you don't know anything, Not one of them would have a darn thing without this stupid guys help.
I'm afraid I have reached my limit on this one.
Rant over wished I drank.