Would you tell them?

[good2bhappy]

I have given this considerable thought and my opinion is that like the ant you should do absolutely nothing

[Ron D]

This would be one to have pictures and plain envelope if not then say nothing

[mrsquirrel]

Suggest he takes out a life insurance policy for a million quid.

Then kill him.

Problems solved. She wins and he doesn't look like a complete knob.

[Norton]

Do absolutely nothing! Unless he is completely oblivious of the obvious tell tale signs of another man living in the house, likely he already knows the situation or has strong suspicion and chooses to ignore it. Nothing to be gained by you telling him.

[blackgang]

Take the pics for evidence, then show to the cnut, if she don't come across with at least a BJ then put the pics in a plain envelope and put it where the dude will find it.

If she comes across, just keep the pic for next time out are horny...


simple..

[darksider]

I can't believe some of the comments on here, so many of you are saying things about what you gain or lose by telling him. So few of you are talking about right or wrong.

If the girl is taking the guy for a ride, you have a moral obligation to stop it happening.

Put yourself in the Swiss guy's shoes. Would you want to know?

The situation shows what is wrong with both Thai and Western society. The greed and avarice of some Thai women and the "somebody else's problem" element of the west.

[good2bhappy]

Put yourself in the Swiss guy's shoes. Would you want to know?

Maybe not
Ignorance is bliss

[Fabian]

wise, ^ IS THAT TRUE? ^^ lots of mugs are lining up for the whole thai wife thing, wonder what the real percentage is of people getting done over in los?

79.8%

[kenmackie]

A Swiss bloke in our village has built a house. It's quite nice. It's for his wife, who lives there permanently, her parents and for him. He shows up about once every 2-3 months, stays a week then goes back to yodel land. Sounds good.
There's a third resident.
His wifes Thai husband. He's in the door 10 minutes after the yodeller has left.
Swiss bloke is decent enough, but he hasn't a clue. We occassionally share a beer and a chat.

Do I tell him?

Of course you tell him
I had a friend 30 years ago that married a "katoy" I told him and we haven't talked much since, but I have no regrets

[good2bhappy]

^ poor fellow wasn't ready to come out.

[kenmackie]

My friend was not or is still not gay
Now has a awife and child in Chang Mai

[Wallalai]

you have a moral obligation to stop it happening.

It's a foreigner, not a close friend. Why a moral obligation. Forget it and go fishing.
If I had to tell all the people I know that their wives are cheating I would be busy for a while.

And don't forget it's Thailand and it's a small village.

[medoraman]

There is now way that he can know you tell him and any good come from it. Been there, done that too many times. It will always turn out badly for you.

The best suggestions I have heard if you wish to do something is either talk about what you have seen anonymous others do either there or on this board, or anonymously send him an email maybe with just pictures. I agree I would want to know as well, but you do not want to be implicated in any way.

[kingwilly]

I can't believe some of the comments on here, so many of you are saying things about what you gain or lose by telling him. So few of you are talking about right or wrong. If the girl is taking the guy for a ride, you have a moral obligation to stop it happening. Put yourself in the Swiss guy's shoes. Would you want to know? The situation shows what is wrong with both Thai and Western society. The greed and avarice of some Thai women and the "somebody else's problem" element of the west.

It's nice when the world is black and white.

[Loy Toy]

From what I have read the OP has suggested that he does not know the whole story and if that is the case he should leave it alone.
We sometimes build a whole lot more into something and for our own entertainment and to build unfounded intrigue.
Human nature I believe you call it.

[Slipstream]

Do the right thing, tip him off/tell him.
You know it makes sense.

[kingwilly]

You know it makes sense.

Nope, more trouble than it is worth.

Fact.

[nidhogg]

If the girl is taking the guy for a ride, you have a moral obligation to stop it happening.

A Moral obligation?? Since when? If we have a moral obligation to alert people to their own stupidity, we are all going to be pretty damn busy.

Put down that ciggie

Only one beer tonight.

Don't spend too long on the internet.

Stop surfing porn.

The only moral obligtion here is for OP to look after his own and his families best interest - and that really, really does not include turning his village into a rats nest of hate.

You all think mrs thai is going to just shrug and say "oh well, it was good while it lasted" - or is going to be looking hell for leather for the bastard who spoiled her very own little fleece the farang party?

Its not exactly an uncommon experience here (sadly), and anyone who is completely oblivious to at least the potentiality of it happening is pretty much getting what is comming to them.

[good2bhappy]

sit down with a beer and make a joke about it.
Leave it to him to connect the funny story with reality
If he clicks and it is true he will think he worked it out for himself

[Marmite the Dog]

Stop surfing porn.

What's wrong with that?!

[nidhogg]

Stop surfing porn.

What's wrong with that?!

Excessive wrist strain.

[Fstop]

sit down with a beer and make a joke about it.
Leave it to him to connect the funny story with reality
If he clicks and it is true he will think he worked it out for himself

That's what I would do. It comes down to personal choice. Not everyone is going to agree on what should be done. Personally, I would tell him, but be quiet about it or subtly slip it into the conversation like the suggestion above. I just hate seeing foreigners being fucked over by Thais in this way, and this is a classic example of a royal fuckover.

[Dick Rangerous]

So... what have you done? Waiting for the outcome of this little soap story now

[jandajoy]

So far, nothing. I've been in the UK for a couple of weeks, back tomorrow. My gut feeling, given advice received here, is not to do too much.
Play it by ear.
You will be kept informed.

[Loy Toy]

^ Have a safe trip back mate