AI as you and I have discussed, you can't farm remotely, it's boots on the ground.
Another thing overlooked often is a Thai girl is raised to believe she owes her parents a debt and that's a debt for life.
They gave her life, feed her and in some cases educated them, that means they owe. Any success in there future, they have to shsre, farang, Thai or just good job.
Culture is different, especially Issan and you just have to navigate through it or move back to the west.
Does my head in at times, but I'm a child of the Protestant work ethic, not of Buddha and live in the moment. Jim