Khonwan, similar story, wife' no farmer, but a school teacher, the only thing I had ever grown were tomatoes before.
Kids are young, will see what happens over the years, but we have already done the Australia bit, kids born there. Wife has no interest in returning to live and do the dreaded work.
Like you I have been taking less and less responsibility in the day to today running of the plantations and factory. Wife is gaining confidence dealing with the buyers and workers, even threatening her older brother with the sack if he didn't do as told, She has to learn, if or when I die the family will want it divided out among them, after all Thai girls do as daddy says. Jim