Originally Posted by
keda
Originally Posted by
Sir Burr
The missus and her family are dead keen for me to visit in the village. I've managed to make half-arse convincing excuses for the past four years. When I did go there, I was treated like a king, but, the boredom just crushes me in a few hours. It's a shame, but, if I'm honest, I'd have to say I hate it.
Dunno how you guys do it, living in the boonies. To me it's the closest you can get to a living death.
About the only thing that keeps me sane is my mystery tours, usually within a 15-20km radius of the village, the equivalent of enjoying a round of golf not just for the golf but to get me out of Pty.
Also hit a wall with my boook, which will probably never be finished but it's something to relieve the mind from the tedium of life in the jungle.
Oh, and sometimes I do get off on silence.
The story of you and Kim is quite poignant. It reads well!
Don't give up on the book. It's worth persisting even if you don't ever put it between paper covers. Posting it on the web, possibly opening a Blogspot account may get you a much bigger readership than conventional publishing. Getting a book printed here is relatively easy... it's getting it distributed and sold that's more chancy.
Anyway I empathise with many of your experiences having served more than five years in a remote village south of you in Surin, the story of which is in my own recent book, MY THAI GIRL AND I.
It was a huge job to complete it and in many ways the real pleasure is my blog at
Thai Girl which I can update with photos whenever I feel like it. Posting a story is just so immediate and satisfying. Getting a book out is slow and agonising. Doing the design and type setting we sat at a computer for over a week.
Anyway hang in there. Writing could be your salvation as it has been mine.
Andrew