Thread: Abandoning Thai kids

Originally Posted by Shanks

So your kid's from a broken home,

Yes the brakes failed!

your ex then went on to have two more kids that are now from a broken home.

It happens a lot in Thailand, brake failure that is.

And you're here making jokes about it on a forum. You should be real proud of yourself.

Only about you

Originally Posted by buriramboy

How about she lets him take the kids back to the UK, then she follows and says he kidnapped them etc etc. get the press involved and fuk him up proper.

The guy is abandoning the kids too so that's not happening

Originally Posted by Stinky

Originally Posted by buriramboy

How about she lets him take the kids back to the UK, then she follows and says he kidnapped them etc etc. get the press involved and fuk him up proper.

The guy is abandoning the kids too so that's not happening

She's going to have to think outside the box and do something inventive as basically once the guy is back in the UK there is next to fuk all she can do. He ain't playing by the rules of common decency so why should she?

Originally Posted by hazz

unfortunatly thiland is not on the remo list so there is not reciplical arrangment to enforce support orders between thailand and the UK. So its down to thai laws covering unmarried couples... I suspect the outlook in grim.... given that freedom in thailand seems to revolve around the freedom to avoid ones responsibilities and behave like a selfish cnut


I suspect backmail is the only option. being leverage that might get him to do the right thing.... has he done anything legally gray or worse....

I don't know about any wrong doings he might have been up to but it a long shot as he already earns a decent living so has no need to thieve and his drug of choice is booze.

Just get her to get legal advice now, he's fucked they won't let him sell home with kids involved,if she don't have a legal right to home they have.

Originally Posted by buriramboy

She's going to have to think outside the box and do something inventive as basically once the guy is back in the UK there is next to fuk all she can do. He ain't playing by the rules of common decency so why should she?

She doesn't have it in her to get up to anything like dishonest, she's a very decent woman, or naive depending on your viewpoint .

Originally Posted by hazz

unfortunatly thiland is not on the remo list so there is not reciplical arrangment to enforce support orders between thailand and the UK. So its down to thai laws covering unmarried couples... I suspect the outlook in grim.... given that freedom in thailand seems to revolve around the freedom to avoid ones responsibilities and behave like a selfish cnut

He will be living in the UK . So the REMO ruling will not apply .
Get his address in the UK and apply for child maintenance through the UK Courts .

Originally Posted by Fluke

Originally Posted by hazz

unfortunatly thiland is not on the remo list so there is not reciplical arrangment to enforce support orders between thailand and the UK. So its down to thai laws covering unmarried couples... I suspect the outlook in grim.... given that freedom in thailand seems to revolve around the freedom to avoid ones responsibilities and behave like a selfish cnut

He will be living in the UK . So the REMO ruling will not apply .
Get his address in the UK and apply for child maintenance through the UK Courts .

its a reciprocal agreement between countries agreeing to enforce eachothers court orders in their own country. Its what the R is for.... reciprical.

So if thailand was a signatory you would be able to enforce a thai court decision in the uk and have the uk government help enforce it.

Tell her to ring the number in link.

Its the attorney generals office.

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Originally Posted by hazz

Originally Posted by Fluke

Originally Posted by hazz

unfortunatly thiland is not on the remo list so there is not reciplical arrangment to enforce support orders between thailand and the UK. So its down to thai laws covering unmarried couples... I suspect the outlook in grim.... given that freedom in thailand seems to revolve around the freedom to avoid ones responsibilities and behave like a selfish cnut

He will be living in the UK . So the REMO ruling will not apply .
Get his address in the UK and apply for child maintenance through the UK Courts .

its a reciprocal agreement between countries agreeing to enforce eachothers court orders in their own country. Its what the R is for.... reciprical.

So if thailand was a signatory you would be able to enforce a thai court decision in the uk and have the uk government help enforce it.

Yes, but if She went through the UK Courts and got a ruling there in the UK , REMO wouldnt be necessary

Originally Posted by Horatio Hornblower

Tell her to ring the number in link.

Its the attorney generals office.

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Thanks H I'll do that

https://www.gov.uk/child-maintenance...ives-in-the-uk

Originally Posted by Fluke

Yes, but if She went through the UK Courts and got a ruling there in the UK , REMO wouldnt be necessary

She can do this as a foriegn national?

^^that might be an option too. but somewhat hard given the cost of uk lawyers and the know your client laws they have to work with.

Just one more thing stinky, make sure its him making the threats,I've heard of many Thai women make threats about leaving there kids.

Not easy, she has to appear in person.

Originally Posted by Stinky

Originally Posted by Fluke

Yes, but if She went through the UK Courts and got a ruling there in the UK , REMO wouldnt be necessary

She can do this as a foriegn national?

Originally Posted by Horatio Hornblower

Just one more thing stinky, make sure its him making the threats,I've heard of many Thai women make threats about leaving there kids.

It's him alright H, this has been coming for a long time I just never thought he'd abandon his kids. Some people aren't wired right.

Originally Posted by Stinky

Originally Posted by Fluke

Yes, but if She went through the UK Courts and got a ruling there in the UK , REMO wouldnt be necessary

She can do this as a foriegn national?

Yes . A freind was in a similar situation and I E-mailed the UK Child support agency and they replied saying that I need his home address and NI number

Originally Posted by Fluke

Yes . A freind was in a similar situation and I E-mailed the UK Child support agency and they replied saying that I need his home address and NI number

Sounds promising, thx

Stinky,you may want to have a google on Joe the turkey farmer, while ago now, but the UK sent out DHSS people to Thailand to look for assets.
Can't remember the sad saga to well, but UK family courts were dealing with maintenance as the kids were citizens by birth.
Think the mother took them to the UK and social services took over.
Worth a look, from menory went poorly for the father.

Originally Posted by jamescollister

Stinky,you may want to have a google on Joe the turkey farmer, while ago now, but the UK sent out DHSS people to Thailand to look for assets.
Can't remember the sad saga to well, but UK family courts were dealing with maintenance as the kids were citizens by birth.
Think the mother took them to the UK and social services took over.
Worth a look, from menory went poorly for the father.

Thx bud I'll have a look

Child Support for Illegitimate Child

When a child is born out of marriage, the biological father of the child is not bound by law to pay for the financial support unless the legitimation of the child in Thailand issue is brought to the court; then the court will decide such issues concerning legitimation, child custody, and child support in the same case.




I Am Residing Aboard And If I Do Not Comply With The Court Order, Will I Be Enforced To Pay For The Child Support?

Yes. If you have the property in Thailand, the court will order to seize your property and have them sold on the auction; then the proceeds from the auction will be paid for the child support. However, if you do not have any property in Thailand, Thai court will work cooperatively with the court where your property is located to seize your property and sell them for the child support payments.

Originally Posted by Stinky

My ex has called me in some distress, apparently her boyfriend of three years is selling the house and coming back to Blighty.

This is the part that interests me.

Now we all know us farang can not own a house and land but we can gain a Usufruct which gives us legal rights to occupy and use the house and land.

My question being, if I as the owner of the usufruct want to sell the house who the fuck would actually want to buy it ?

No Thai would Buy it I imagine and it would be a hard sell trying to get some shitty arse farang to buy it.

If I was this girl I would be telling him to fuk off and just stay put in the house.

Short of that I would get the local boys to top him and just bury him down the back somewhere.

Can't see how he can hold her to anything regards this house. ???

Very interesting situation though, be nice to see how it all pans out.

Not taking sides though as she could be a complete coont and him also.

Just a very interesting situation.

Thai versus farang, Who will win ?