The Missus signed the marriage papers in Chiangrai as she was about to give birth to her son eleven years ago and the guy (Thai 55) absconded. She has never received any monies from him during this time (11 years). We're settled and trying to resolve this matter with a divorce so I was wondering if anyone has had experience in a situation like this. Basically, we want his name (the son) to revert back to his mother's through a divorce(passport and our marriage). We've been getting quotes as high as 80k for the procedure and as low as 5k. A bit of background about this "guy":he spent 21 years in England ,had two kids bolted, another child in BKK bolted and then the last with her. She found out later about his past after they were business partners. Any help on this matter would be appreciated. Cheers.