Meeting a girl from a dating site; should i expect to pay?

[Nicethaiza]

Ohh I misunderstand then hehe..I think he is hiring her for 2 weeks

[NZdick1983]

Need more dets... did she offer to stay with you?

If she did, (to my moral compass) you are exempt from covering her wages during your 2 week fuck-fest, oops...'holiday'.

If you invited her, then that's a different story... you should ask her if she can take holiday leave (paid)... if it's unpaid, you may (at your discretion/generosity) compensate your fuck-buddy (or not) up to you.

Ask yourself.. would you pay an online chat girl (in your country) to spend time with you? you don't have to carry the burden of Thai culture on your shoulders... you can ignore 'some' of their social norms, just as they ignore some of ours.

If Dickie can Man-Up, so can you bro... hold my hand, make your own rules, don't follow the sheep... up to you!

baaaaa baaaaaa

[fred flintstone]

if ya gotta ask....

[Dragonfly]

I think if meet up and a girl lose her salary for 2 weeks for stay with him... better paid for it too he he

typical bargirl logic, well done

[NZdick1983]

typical bargirl logic, well done

[Domine Rex]

Great advice guys. I honestly think i will make sure i am willing to pay and if she asks i will. I am already going to pay for all expensives etc. She said tonight she can take 3 days off work and has weekends off. So she wont be with me full 2 weeks. When im not with her i will go to phuket and explore a bit

[Nicethaiza]

Great advice guys. I honestly think i will make sure i am willing to pay and if she asks i will. I am already going to pay for all expensives etc. She said tonight she can take 3 days off work and has weekends off. So she wont be with me full 2 weeks. When im not with her i will go to phuket and explore a bit

I bet a girl from BKK sure...many farang from dating site I have to read always come to met girl from BKK and after fly to phuket to explore and maybe after you meet and you like her you will invite her to phuket to stay with you too lol...

[Nicethaiza]

typical bargirl logic, well done

Or maybe I work at bar that why I can think like this and have too much free time

haha

[Nicethaiza]

typical bargirl logic, well done

Hey Monkey I paid you 200 baht for 2 weeks come and stay with me he he

and you cant meet anyone only me 555+

[NZdick1983]

^explore a clit... a bit... heh

By all means, be a gentleman (snigger) and pay for her expenses. If you don't like her in person, it's going to be a long 2 weeks though.

[Nicethaiza]

And I see many after paid for everything then after talk about girls...they not good this good that...cuz have to paid for her...bla bla bla ...so if you know before have just decide...cuz maybe after you she have to meet others too

[Domine Rex]

She also said she gets paid vacation but i will still have money if she asks

[Dragonfly]

typical bargirl logic, well done

Hey Monkey I paid you 200 baht for 2 weeks come and stay with me he he

and you cant meet anyone only me 555+

it depends what she is looking for ? a quick job or a love story,

[Dragonfly]

She also said she gets paid vacation but i will still have money if she asks

if she is a pain in the ass, kick her out, and buy a new one

plenty of fish in the sea here, no time for drama

[david44]

If you don't like her in person, it's going to be a long 2 weeks though

Though shorter than marriage .

I'm sure you'll have your ups and downs.

I you like to go Dutch perhaps ask her to cover your loss of earnings and half the flights/

I always ask my partner for a performance bonus, it never happens but worth a shot eh.

You may discover on strolling around bangkok that there may be more than one single lady left

[Nicethaiza]

it depends what she is looking for ? a quick job or a love story,

Only Domine Rex can answer this question cuz we talk about his story and dont know any details only just he asked about meet and have to paid for everything or not...

[Nicethaiza]

She also said she gets paid vacation but i will still have money if she asks

Yeah in thailand can have 6 days holidays and still get paid

follow your heart if you want to meet just meet

dont take anything serious if you dont like her or

she dont like her just talk and leave haha

if you talk about stay with her for 2 weeks

I am sure you like her ...

[MikeyLikesU]

No. Do not pay.

After a dinner date, tell her that she should pay...
Just mention the fact that, if you paid, then she might feel obligated to have sex with you. That would, indeed, be not becoming of a gentleman.

[Nicethaiza]

if you paid, then she might feel obligated to have sex with you

You have this experience before?

[baldrick]

HAve you chatted to her via video chat ? what is her level of english ? maybe you would be better of not lining up a GF before you come


and will you try and grab her by the pussy ?

[Nicethaiza]

Maybe he can speak thai ...

[david44]

Amor vincit Omnia said the Wife of Bath in the Cvnterbury Tail

I believe the Latin phrae Amor vincit Omnia Cave e ate emptier or was is ATM

[thaimeme]

^ Exactly, david...Well said...

Show her who's boss...Heh...

Indeed...

As she probably already knows whose boss....and would be in most circumstances...heh.

[Neverna]

She also said she gets paid vacation

By all means pay for dinner, drinks and entertainment costs, etc, if you wish, but by no means pay her money just for being with you. That would be treating her like a whore, and she may be offended by that.

[david44]

Old Hands recommend a small low value necklace upon greeting.
As you put it around her neck check for the Adams apple , some Thai "ladies" have hidden extra talents.