No-one likes a grass, Mum.

[harrybarracuda]

Cornish student who stole family yacht jailed after mother presses charges

Annabel Sloley says decision to report son Oliver for joyride in £10,000 yacht was horrible, 'but you have to do what is right'

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  Oliver Sloley had to be towed back to Newlyn harbour in Cornwall after his costly joyride in the family yacht. Photograph: Matt Cardy/Getty Images
  
  
  
  
  A student who stole his family's £10,000 yacht and needed to be rescued by a lifeboat crew has been jailed for nine months after his mother reported him to police.
  Oliver Sloley, 22, and a friend got into difficulty off the coast of Cornwall in the nine-metre (30ft) vessel. Lifeboat crews found him after he fired a flare and he was towed to shore, where he faced the wrath of his mother.
  Sloley, who was in his second year studying geology at Plymouth University, was jailed for nine months at Truro crown court after admitting taking the yacht without consent and a string of other charges.
  Speaking after his conviction, Sloley's mother, Annabel, 47, of Penzance, Cornwall, said she felt duty-bound to go to the police but described the decision to do so as "horrible". "That's the only way I can describe it, absolute hell," she said. "It's not what you want as a parent but have to do what you feel is right.
  "It's not even the fact it was my boat, it was the fact the lifeboat crew got involved and spent three hours searching for them when they should be saving people's lives who have got in difficulty through no fault of their own."
  Mrs Sloley was away for the weekend when her son took the boat from its moorings at Restronguet, near Falmouth, south Cornwall, last August despite the engine being faulty.
  Sloley and the friend – neither of whom had any sailing experience or lifejackets – managed to sail several miles along the coast and navigate around the treacherous Lizard peninsula. They got into a difficulty a few hours later and called for help but were unable to read their global positioning system and tell rescuers where they were.
  A lifeboat located them when they fired a flare and the yacht was towed back into Newlyn harbour. The boat, which had been in the family for seven years, was in a state of disrepair at the time and has now been sold.
  Mrs Sloley added: "The Lizard is not a place to play. Had someone fallen in it could have been very different. I was not in Cornwall at the time and it was quite a shock to be told your son has stolen your boat and had to be rescued.
  "I know it was August, the sun was shining and the wind may have died down but there is no excuse. Taking him to court was very difficult. It was horrible, but I am of the mind that once my mind is made up then that's it."
  Asked about her relationship with her son, she added: "We are fine about it. It's been dragging on for 14 months so we've got used to it. We will be fine. He has accepted he was in the wrong and that's it as far as we're concerned. I told him 'sorry mate, but I'm going to have to report this'. He accepted it, what else could he do?"
  When the boat was brought ashore two stolen outboards and two fuel tanks were found on board, for which he pleaded guilty to two counts of receiving stolen goods. He also admitted stealing two cheques from his mother and making off without payment for food and drink from four pubs in Cornwall.
  Philip Lee, prosecuting, told Monday's hearing: "The last thing Mrs Sloley wanted to do was to see her son prosecuted, but as a sensible mother she felt it right to make a complaint."
  Joss Ticehurst, defending, said: "He has wasted his future to a very great extent."
  Sentencing him, Judge Christopher Elwen said: "For some reason best known to yourself you decided to wreck your life, and possibly your prospects for the future. The most serious thing you did was to take your mother's boat to sea without her permission and as a result of your inexperience the Penlee lifeboat had to be launched and you had to be rescued."
  
  
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[Cujo]

What a bitch, but he sounds like a complete twat.

[Begbie]

Sounds like some drink had been taken.

[taxexile]

two stolen outboards and two fuel tanks were found on board, for which he pleaded guilty to two counts of receiving stolen goods. He also admitted stealing two cheques from his mother and making off without payment for food and drink from four pubs in Cornwall.

he deserves punishment.

parental tough love was the right way to go.
although she must ask herself as the parent why he did these things.

Asked about her relationship with her son, she added: "We are fine about it. It's been dragging on for 14 months so we've got used to it. We will be fine. He has accepted he was in the wrong and that's it as far as we're concerned.

[harrybarracuda]

I doubt they will be fine when he comes out a "changed" man.

[alwarner]

She sounds like a sweetheart doesn't she? I bet she goes to visit him, brings him things, asks how he's finding it. Is he OK? She probably writes to him, tells him how his relatives are, that "we're all thinking about you". Everyone says hi. Oblivious to the fact that her son now hates her. The very thought of her fills him with violent intent. A certain song will come on the radio and remind him of her and rage will sweep through his torso. He fills his days with thoughts of revenge, myriad deaths for Mummy. Mummy is going to have to watch her back for the rest of her life, and she's completely unaware, probably enjoying her new fame as the local martyr.

Or is that just me?