How do i mend a broken heart

[Lady Hawk]

How do you mend a broken heart?
IF your heart is bleeding,if you feel your are guilty but actually you think are not ...what do you do?
If your child turns against you because you are a free spirit and her husband hates you because of that fact what do you do?

What life do you have without the person you have loved for so long unconditionaly for 25 years.

would you let them go?,do you have the right to let them go ?
if you have fought with all your might and nothing has changed,you feel you have bowed down to what to they want..even though it is against every thing you belive.

All you have tried to do is live and love.

Tell me someone for gods sake

How the fuck do i mend a broken heart?

[ChiangMai noon]

^
you alright mate?

[Lady Hawk]

no cmn its a fucked up world and ive let it fuck me up good and proper.

[ChiangMai noon]

^
Problem is their mostly insensititive men people on here.

Broken hearts.
Had a few of them.

I run away and wait for it to go away.
Guess that's why I ended up in Thailand in the end.

[Lady Hawk]

Thats ok just needed to sound of,i think i am used to insensitive men by now its ok cheers mate.
looks like i am running away too seems like a bloody good idea

[Lady Hawk]

fukin ell there's always one crying about something thought i;d have my turn.
What else are friends for??????????????
replys not required but .'
fuck i don't know ...

[Little Chuchok]

Sorry to hear LH.

[Lady Hawk]

Cheers little C
Fucked over completly but hey sorry about the drama,msy be shouldn't have posted emotional stuff.

[NickA]

[flash]

Sounds like things have gotten on top of you, there are no problems without sollutions and as far as love goes its all about compromise(i'm a stubborn bastard and will probably remain a single stubborn bastard)and I can't imagine how tough it would be if I had a child and were in your situation. just try to be patient and hope that she comes around. not much advise to offer but hope things get better for you.

[flash]

^^hawks eat kittens?

[Jet Gorgon]

Sorry to hear about your spot, Lady. Don't be rash. I have a similar got f* scenario, and I was only trying to help folks.

[benbaaa]

I run away and wait for it to go away.

I don't always run away, but I always wait for it to go away. And it does. Always.

[Sir Burr]

I know this is not much consolation, but, when things look black, I always remember the quote "This too will pass".

[kingwilly]

jees - sorry to hear that LH. sometimes it goes away and sometimes it dont, thoughts are with y, take it easy mate.

[Mr Earl]

"Time heals all wounds"

It sounds trite but it's true.

But these kind of issues with your kids are different.

My kids also disapprove of what I do. It eats at you!
I guess the only consolation is that I'm a lot less miserable living here than I would be back in farangland.
I try to stay positive and help those around me now.
That's about all a person can do I guess.

[Thetyim]

would you let them go?,do you have the right to let them go ?

Yes you do. You have a life to lead as well.
You have tried all you can to make things right.
It hasn't worked.

Just because you carry on with your life does not mean that you love her any less. You will always be her mother and nothing and no-one can take that away from you.

[keda]

Be aware that perceptions are distorted and you're at your most vulnerable when down, so if you need to fill that space for the one that got away do it with a pet, jogging or cluedo but not the first guy that comes along.

[Whiteshiva]

How the fuck do i mend a broken heart?

You don't. It mends itself, it just takes some time.

One day you will probably be laughing when you think about this moment and how you felt.

Remember that whatever bad befalls you, if it doesn't kill you, it will end up making you stronger.

Best wishes,

WS

[watterinja]

How do you mend a broken heart?
IF your heart is bleeding,if you feel your are guilty but actually you think are not ...what do you do?
If your child turns against you because you are a free spirit and her husband hates you because of that fact what do you do?

What life do you have without the person you have loved for so long unconditionaly for 25 years.

Continue loving her unconditionally. That is the essence of 'unconditional' love.

would you let them go?,do you have the right to let them go ?
if you have fought with all your might and nothing has changed,you feel you have bowed down to what to they want..even though it is against every thing you belive.

All you have tried to do is live and love.

Tell me someone for gods sake

How the fuck do i mend a broken heart?

Only time, only time.

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[Spin]

revenge?

[phunphin]

seek counciling...after my divorce I was a mess so with a little persuasion I went and got counciling, it got my head straight and helped me get rid of my anger.

[robin]

LH, if it's any consolation, not only lost love is a heartbreaker.
I nursed my wife 24/7 for 5 years before she died, that can break your heart too.
Counselling, booze, none of it worked for me.
So I bolted off to Thailand where there's any amount of company for a man alone (albeit mostly superficial and paid for) which did help me.
So on the plus side, it's maybe easier for a man to find consolation.
On the downside, men tend to grieve a lot longer than women.
If it's any help at all, speaking from experience, hearts mend by themselves, for some people quickly, for others very slowly.
But they all mend in time.

[Agent_Smith]

Sad when yer kid disowns ya. Be patient, she'll come around eventually.

Best wishes.

[Sir Burr]

Sad when yer kid disowns ya. Be patient, she'll come around eventually.

Best wishes.

Ladyhawk,

I'm a child from a very, very messy divorce where one parent poisoned my mind against the other.
As Agent_Smith says, it may take a while and some growing up to do, but, your child will eventually see through the bullshit.