Thread: Changing age for marriage to foreigner?

Originally Posted by Bakah1986

Let me go back a little ways here. When I had originally met her she didnt tell me she had a husband. Who she is still married to though seperated. She did not tell me she had a son whom she had when she was "15" (quite common yes) these factors combined with the potential age issue create a shitstorm in my head, and I often think that I could do much better for myself.

I agree. Misrepresenting age is one thing; the rest of it is another thing completely.

She seems to have lied from dot one.

Personally Bakah, I would exit the relationship while you have the opportunity. Telling white lies is a Thai thing that everyone does, but these are not small omissions or little white lies, they are significant. It you can not half-way believe or trust what your partner says, it is not worth the effort.

I divorced my US wife because she was a pathological liar, so just trying to save you some major angst.

Originally Posted by Bakah1986

Perhaps I just have mear noi on the brain

Looks like youve met your match

Sum nam fukkin na.

I agree with Rick and Davis. Bail out now or suffer a lifetime of grief. You can't trust anything she says.

Originally Posted by Bakah1986

I often think that I could do much better for myself.

Correct. You can. You're in Thailand, remember ?

Originally Posted by misskit

I agree with Rick and Davis. Bail out now or suffer a lifetime of grief. You can't trust anything she says.

Agreed, I hope your losses aren't too great.

Yes she did lie from day one. I don't know if I'm overly sympathetic to her struggle but I can kind of sympathize with not wanting to own up to all that right away. (It didn't take me long to find out.)
However the lying is something I take much more seriously. I would like a woman within my age range -5 or 7 years is ok too, that I can start a family with one day perhaps.

Originally Posted by Bakah1986

This is a quote. Pardon the English.
"Believe me Hun.. It happen lots off ppls do this.. But they not gonna show it. Because is cots to jail the person who do this I never see him just passed the paper to my uncle friends and cots me 50.000bath "

Did she ask you to supply the 50,000 baht?

There are millions to choose from in Thailand, and some are actually worth spending some time with. Time to move on since they all have a story to tell.

Originally Posted by Bakah1986

Niskit has it. My 33 year old issan is actually 43.

I would demand a refund

Not as if it appears to be an issue in this particular instance i do believe there are issues surrounding pensions for surviving spouses if there is a large age gap in certain countries

Don't worry, I'm sure she loves you.



Kidding of course.

Dump the lying tramp and get some self respect.

^
Give him one of yours ya greedy cvnt.

Oh, and we need pics before we can give you the full verdict

I wonder how old she'll tell the next farang she is? Bakah1986, can you ask her to keep us updated please?

Originally Posted by Neo

Just got to ask Bakah, how old are you?

Originally Posted by Pragmatic

I wonder how old she'll tell the next farang she is? Bakah1986, can you ask her to keep us updated please?

Oh yeah, the clue is in the name.. cheers Prag, on my first cup of tea of the day here

Originally Posted by Neo

Oh, and we need pics before we can give you the full verdict

Originally Posted by Bettyboo

^ I posted one for you already; are you never satisfied???

Pictures from your black book fantasy top ten don't count Betsy... do you mind if I call you Betsy..?

Originally Posted by Bettyboo

There's always a silver lining...

They make the lining out of silver..? No wonder it aint cheap

Get out now Bakah. She has lied to you so much already. You will never trust her. And believe me, she will not change.

Thanks for all the relevant input. I am currently residing in Canada, and haven't invested too much financially. She has a house and land built by the old farang in Thailand so perhaps she will find her way back to him. That would probably be her best case outcome. As for posting a pic I think I will save her face for the time being.
Now the mission is beginning to find a mear noi(s). Not sure when my next trip to the los will be, but all the temptation I passed up last time well...

I'd go for a Gik rather than a Mia Noi. There's a difference. The shags the same but the costings are different.

Baka it is only in Cambodia that an age restriction is law stopping young women marrying older non Cambodians.
Not in Thailand.

All seems a bit strange to me, ID card has a citizen number, stays for life, so no matter what your call yourself, or how old you say you are, that number says who you are.

Sounds like she is legally married and has come up with a story to try and cover it up.
Thais make up story's all the time, if they don't know something, they invent a tale, Amphor weddings are on computer now, so she would get pinged as already married, any passport issued will have her age as per the ID card.

Tread carefully, don't pay kickbacks to get things done, as the documents won't whole up in the national data base for passports, or visas.

Tell her to get a divorce, if she really wants to hook up with you, or just run, starting off with lies, is no way to begin.

Originally Posted by Bakah1986

I would like a woman within my age range -5 or 7 years is ok too, that I can start a family with one day perhaps.

Ok, so that's the key, even if you were to forgive her lies, she would not match what you're looking for.

Only one option: leave her.