spotlight

[maba7]

so i went to the spotlight last night and honestly i thought the barmaids were cuter than the dancers. so are barmaids fair game for bar fines? or are they just there to serve drinks?

[Smug Farang Bore]

Where is it?
Is it a dive or a bit posh like.
How old are they?
Do they have a good command of the English.
Are there numbers pinned to them?

Do they know you?
Did they ask you for a drink?
Did you buy them a drink?
Were they drinking?

Uniform or their own clothes?

Were other customers talking to them?
Were their Thai boyfriends waiting out side for them?

Was there a woman behind the bar watching you?

Why didn't you ask one out for dinner/ or date?



Need to know a bit more here but there are signs you can spot...!

[BaitongBoy]

Yes, I know what nemesis means...

[Smug Farang Bore]

Manifested by....

[benbaaa]

I'm not sure why the op is asking us, when clearly he should have asked the girls themselves.

[Ratchaburi]

Socal will be along soon to answer the Ops question

[bushwacker]

I'm thinking that if you were not brave enough to ask a barmaid but thought the best strategy was to ask us ... then you did the right thing in finishing your beer and going home.

[Aussie Tigger]

If you are in doubt just ask the gilrs nicely if they go with customers,no harm done.

[jons557]

My experience and the stories I've heard: dancer, bargirl, waitress, hostess, whatever- every one of them will go home with you for your money. Caaaarefuuuuul!

[Smug Farang Bore]

As has been said, just ask in a reasonable way but many already have boyfriends/sponcers and are being well taken care of.

No need for your 1000bt thumble when jonny oil man is dropping her 100k a month.


Still no Harm in askin.

[maba7]

i walked past there last night and i saw the girl sat outside, i looked at her and smiled and i got no smile and no "welcome"

i think that answered my question

[Jack meoff]

From- Posted by werewolf | Blog

I’ve found two go go bars in town, Foxy Lady and Spotlight. If there are others I haven’t seen them. They are both small, but decent quality places. Foxy Lady had one beautiful girl and a lot of average ones. The night I was there the beauty had a customer already, and he barfined her. I bought drinks for another girl, but it turned out that I hated her. She got lipstick all over my brand new shirt, she bit me, kept grabbing my cock, playing with my nipples and she tried to dance sexily, but in reality just assaulted me with her ass, pushing my stool backwards several feet as she tried to turn me on with her dance moves.

Spotlight was much the same. There was a service girl at Spotlight that caught my attention. I couldn’t get her to go with me on my first night there. I went back last night and was chatting her up, and was at the point where I was suggesting going out together. She was being a bit coy. I went to the toilet, and when I returned, she apologized because in the two minutes I’d been gone she’d been barfined by the other guy who’d been chatting her up. Now I know why she was being coy… he was a lot better looking than me. Not to worry. You never lose your girl, just your place in line. I’ll go back and get her tonight.

(Late edit: I got back to spotlight on Sunday and was successful. Here’s what I wrote in an email to Smitty tonight:
(I pulled the service girl from Spotlight tonight… the kind I like… 37 kilos with a great smile and fantastic attitude.
It was probably the best fuck I’ve had in years! I think she enjoyed it too — she asked me to come back tomorrow and take her out again.
I’m seeing Chiang Mai a lot more positively now!

[mingmong]

Old Mate took the Cashier Home many years ago, bin Happy since, He now hitting 7o,

been good for both em!

[AussieSteve]

Just ask her, or ask one of the bar girls. Im sure shes been asked hundreds of times in the past!!

[ozthai]

I have been to spotlight many times and also Foxy. There is another one that i forgot the name of. It is crappier louder and bigger than the other 2. I have seen many guys ask out the ladies from the bar as well as the dancers. I have no personal experience as I go there with my girlfriend. If you dont like the dancers in either leave it for a couple of months and there will be new ones.

[maba7]

From- Posted by werewolf | Blog

I’ve found two go go bars in town, Foxy Lady and Spotlight. If there are others I haven’t seen them. They are both small, but decent quality places. Foxy Lady had one beautiful girl and a lot of average ones. The night I was there the beauty had a customer already, and he barfined her. I bought drinks for another girl, but it turned out that I hated her. She got lipstick all over my brand new shirt, she bit me, kept grabbing my cock, playing with my nipples and she tried to dance sexily, but in reality just assaulted me with her ass, pushing my stool backwards several feet as she tried to turn me on with her dance moves.

Spotlight was much the same. There was a service girl at Spotlight that caught my attention. I couldn’t get her to go with me on my first night there. I went back last night and was chatting her up, and was at the point where I was suggesting going out together. She was being a bit coy. I went to the toilet, and when I returned, she apologized because in the two minutes I’d been gone she’d been barfined by the other guy who’d been chatting her up. Now I know why she was being coy… he was a lot better looking than me. Not to worry. You never lose your girl, just your place in line. I’ll go back and get her tonight.

(Late edit: I got back to spotlight on Sunday and was successful. Here’s what I wrote in an email to Smitty tonight:
(I pulled the service girl from Spotlight tonight… the kind I like… 37 kilos with a great smile and fantastic attitude.
It was probably the best fuck I’ve had in years! I think she enjoyed it too — she asked me to come back tomorrow and take her out again.
I’m seeing Chiang Mai a lot more positively now!

good advice, thanks

[jons557]

^ "I think she enjoyed it too — she asked me to come back tomorrow and take her out again"

-Of course she enjoyed it- You gave her money and she wanted more of it the next day. Are you new?

[Jack meoff]

^ The comment was taken from a blog (written by another party) you Idiot.

[jons557]

^I understand that, it's funny nonetheless, you fool!

[Jack meoff]

I understand that

Are you new?

So who are you asking thiko?