Thread: The Most Endearing Thing About Your Present Partner

We fell in love when he was 17 and I was 13, but we were too naive to take it anywhere, tried again just as I was going to unversity and he was going into the Army (Thailand/Vietnam era) and couldn't make it happen then either. I never forgot him, and we reconnected and married last year.

I always feared the intensity of both our emotions and sexuality, pushing away because of it. It was all-consuming, and I didn't know what to do with that, afraid of the loss of control and the loss of my self. Now that total connection is what I love most -- the intimacy can be so complete and yet we separate and become our own persons quite easily. He inspires me. Thirty-five years after the last time I saw him, he thrills me.

He tells great stories from a half-lifetime without me and laughs at mine.
I love that his children and grandchild have become a family with my son and parents and that we both respect the other parents of those children.

All in all, if our previous lives were what it took to prepare us for the richness of what we have today, I certainly could never beat myself up for mistakes made when young. I'm not sure we would have made it together then anyway.

Originally Posted by gulfcoast

We fell in love when he was 17 and I was 13

funny how values change as we get older...

he's 4 years older than you...but at 17 I cannot imagine looking at a 13 year old with any personal; interest...

by the time you got to 21 you'd not have too much of a problem with a 17 yr old...

now I'm nearing 60 God forbid that I should have as my companion one who is almost as old as me!!!...

but it's still the same 4 years eh...

good luck to you GC...it makes a good story to read...

Originally Posted by klongmaster

now I'm nearing 60 God forbid that I should have as my companion one who is almost as old as me

fukking hell Klongie.
I thought you were my sort of age.

^55???

Originally Posted by ChiangMai noon

fukking hell Klongie. I thought you were my sort of age.

What !!
You mean you are not 60 too ?

/me runs

Mark

Originally Posted by NickA

^55???

shut it.

Originally Posted by Katana

What !!
You mean you are not 60 too ?

/me runs

Mark

shut it.

well CMN if I averaged the ages of my wife & I then I would only be 45....

Thats one way of looking at it!

Originally Posted by ceburat

Many of you people here may think that I am crazy or hen pecked - so be it if you do. However, I think the greatest woman a man can have for a wife is a christian woman. A real christian, one who serves God even before she serves you. Never lies, cheats, steals and always looks out for your best interest. As for children--they are the greatest thing on this earth and my choice/type of wife, IMO, would make the best mother for them.

That's the line they spin you - doesn't work out that way, in most cases.

Could you imagine being married to a frigid Kerux for 20 years?

Originally Posted by Anonymous Coward

I'm the luckiest bastard alive.

No you're not. My girl always wakes up horny and affectionate.

Originally Posted by benbaaa

Originally Posted by Anonymous Coward

I'm the luckiest bastard alive.

No you're not. My girl always wakes up horny and affectionate.

and aint that a good thing - cos i usually go to bed drunk and unable to perform....

I really can't take the "drama", so the lack of it is endearing.

Originally Posted by kingwillyhggtb

cos i usually go to bed drunk and unable to perform....

Oh, I don't know, you do a pretty nifty Benny Hill and a not too rusty Frank Spencer (with beret) whilst juggling bananas.

Of course, you fuck like an elephant with a mouses cock, but that's something completely different.

^ Is it wise to post pictures of your missus?