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    compliment

    If you make some comment about other woman, does your wife (gf) get upset?

    I mean strong comment.

    My boyfriend forget to say compliment to me (but other men do), but often he says some strong comment about woman "Oh she SO hot!!" and said as though he gonna faint.

    I think its not very nice.

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    You're right, it's not very nice.

    I think it's reasonable for you to expect him to have a little more respect for your feelings.

    Maybe you should talk to him about it.

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    I think you should tell him how great looking some random guys are and see what thinks of that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peta
    My boyfriend forget to say compliment to me (but other men do), but often he says some strong comment about woman "Oh she SO hot!!" and said as though he gonna faint.

    It's a sign of immaturity, unfortunately it may be with him for life.

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    Thank you. I dont want to make problem with him. But makes me sad. So nice to know other men think its not good to.

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    Your boyfriend sounds like a bit of a twat really, you should put him on a sex embargo until he learns whats good for him.

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    He sounds immature, I never make comment about other women other than to say, she has an ass almost as good as yours, but then I'm pussy whipped.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peta
    I think its not very nice.
    why are you so insecure ?

    sometimes it doesn't mean much, he is just thinking aloud, at least he is open about it

    you would rather see him stay quiet and imagine things instead or better, do things behind your back ? the more quiet he is when he sees a hot woman, the more likely he is fucking around

    yes men are pigs, never forget that

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    What it actually means is that your relationship is over, but he is trying to end it by proxy.

    He wants you to do the decent thing and fall on your sword and leave him for someone else who cares about you more.

    Unfortunately you will always be left with that yearning for the man who rejected you.

    Take love while it lasts, give love when you are able, and your world will be without care.

    Time to move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Butterfly View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Peta
    I think its not very nice.
    why are you so insecure ?

    sometimes it doesn't mean much, he is just thinking aloud, at least he is open about it

    you would rather see him stay quiet and imagine things instead or better, do things behind your back ? the more quiet he is when he sees a hot woman, the more likely he is fucking around

    yes men are pigs, never forget that
    Most Thai girls are insecure when it comes to their man, her wally boyfriend should know that and stop be such a twat, he's probably only doing it to bolster his own flagging ego and seeing her insecurities come out would do that just fine.
    I would have never said that in front of any of the Thai girls I have dated, its just not received in the same way that a western girl would take it.

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    Flirt with another men...

    See what happens..

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    No, no, no, not right.

    If you were an insecure man how would you make an equally insecure woman feel self conscious if she already knows she isn't because she is receiving compliments from other men?

    Tell her she's ugly? She already knows she isn't.

    Threaten her with violence? Now that is more realistic.

    Time to move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sdigit View Post
    Your boyfriend sounds like a bit of a twat really, you should put him on a sex embargo until he learns whats good for him.
    That is dumping her and chase the hotties he complimented ?

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    I agree with Michael.

    I would never comment about another woman using such terms as "Oh she SO hot!!" unless I was trying to push the woman I was with away.

    No sense, no feelings and obviously doesn't have the love for you that you deserve Peta.

    I would suggest that you have a break away from him and see whether he can come to his senses or you may even find someone else who can show you some respect.

    Good luck.

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    I think can not stay with my boyfriend. Dont feel happy.

    He is always meeting up with new girls. He tells me. Its not secret. He says he likes to meet up for talking. Not more. But i think if you have girfriend you should not always be looking for new girls to talk to. I said nothing for long time but making me unhappy. I feel like i am not good enough and he for looking another. Maybe not. Dont know. But it how i think now.

    Dont understand. He took months to try get me to be more than friend. Compliment. Try hard. Then when we together he talk about other women meet other women. Stupid man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peta
    He took months to try get me to be more than friend.
    Lot's of men like this. They are addicted to the chase more than the catch. Cut your losses. Pack your bags, leave and ignore his apologies and promises he won't do it again because he probably will.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loy Toy
    I would never comment about another woman using such terms as "Oh she SO hot!!" unless I was trying to push the woman I was with away.
    the other possibility is that he wants you to agree, and then make a threesome

    very civilised

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peta
    He took months to try get me to be more than friend. Compliment. Try hard. Then when we together he talk about other women meet other women. Stupid man
    just sit on his face, that should stop him talking

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    Tell boyfriend you are pregnant, then true man will show. he will run away or be loyal to you and stay with you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peta
    He took months to try get me to be more than friend.
    that just shows that you must be an annoying bitch, the problem is with you, not him

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    I've had thai two gfs that openly commented on other girls when we were out together, they were not bisexual or anything and both used described how they like to "look and compare" at other girls. If I ever suggested that we go out to one place in Khon Kaen, Rad pub that has a room with loads of dancers....including a shower cubicle...they were both like "yeah yeah yeah, lets go" .....it was great. Fact was once we got there, i would focus more on the footy on the big screen.

    As for Peta's boyfriend, he just sounds like a wanker who should be tossed aside like a piece of trash.

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    Peta write's like a farang pretending to be a Thai girl ...




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    Quote Originally Posted by Spin
    Rad pub that has a room with loads of dancers....including a shower cubicle...they were both like "yeah yeah yeah, lets go" .....it was great. Fact was once we got there, i would focus more on the footy on the big screen.
    what even when they do the soapy thing and bend over in the shower ?. Always thought you were a bit gay spin .
    but have to agree that Peta boyfriend sounds like a ass wipe.

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    Too many good men around to waste your time with a jerk, Peta. Go out and find one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rigger
    what even when they do the soapy thing and bend over in the shower ?.
    I make a special effort for that, I'll be somewhere near trying to record it on a mobile phone or something without security seeing me.
    Last edited by Spin; 22-12-2010 at 11:24 AM.

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