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    Strangely, maybe cos I'm getting old, or is it cos we're out bush and the girls don't tart themselves up, or maybe cos I rarely go out, or cos she's great, and we like each other.

    Or we've become boringly settled?

    I don't know.

    It's good but.

    Occasionally one will spot a splendid example of a mountain miss, a delectable yet diminutive darling,

    A spinner from the valley, a stunner from above.

    And look and sigh and think

    "Yup, she's gorgeous.

    But I wouldn't risk what I've got for anything.

    We're cool. We've got a routine.

    She does what she wants. I do what I want.

    Works........

    WTF it could all change in 20 years.



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    Quote Originally Posted by HollyGoodhead
    I would say infidelity never really crosses my mind because I know I would never do anything. I suppose it's down to personality. I'm quite shy but also loyal and believe in being honest
    Yup. My answer, too.

    If there's summat that wrong in a relationship, you end it & then go elsewhere, or you sort it out. Infidelity is for cowards & weaklings. No-one with real balls cheats.

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    Thus far I have real balls, in fact in past relationships (except one in UK when I was 21) I have always been faithful but that doesn't mean I've wanted to move on at some point and ended the relationship for fear of being tied down after being used to new changes and environments from the age of two and a half.

    Anyway, so far so good. Off to meet her at the airport soon.

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    Define infidelity.........
    SO that anyone responding may give genuine advice ..

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    ^ Fucking somebody else.

    That said, a cinema and dinner date would with another woman you had feelings for would hurt a woman who loved you more than she's be hurt if you'd got blown during a massage.

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    ^What was just said is probably true in most cases. Is there an equivalent of that minor infidelity for a woman?

    The older you become, the easier it gets to be faithful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misskit
    Is there an equivalent of that minor infidelity for a woman?
    Nope, just means they are sluts, unless of course it is with me, then of course that would be different

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    Quote Originally Posted by misskit View Post
    ^What was just said is probably true in most cases. Is there an equivalent of that minor infidelity for a woman?

    The older you become, the easier it gets to be faithful.
    Or to put it another way:

    The older you become, the more difficult it is to get laid with somebody young and desirable who isn't a whore and companionship becomes more important than exploration.

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    So what's the job Scamp? Or is it a big secret?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Gentleman Scamp
    Off to meet her at the airport soon
    Take flowers...try not to look guilty.

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    Try flowers and pretend you actually paid for them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Gentleman Scamp
    I have always been faithful but that doesn't mean I've wanted to move on at some point and ended the relationship for fear of being tied down
    That's fine. Far better than cheating.

    Quote Originally Posted by 12Call
    Try flowers and pretend you actually paid for them.
    You mean don't nick 'em from a cemetery or hospital ward?

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    Women are bigger cheaters than men, they have more opportunities and it's easier for them to be tempted. Can't blame them though, if men want you, you need to serve, that's their purpose.

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    Quote Originally Posted by November Rain View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by The Gentleman Scamp
    I have always been faithful but that doesn't mean I've wanted to move on at some point and ended the relationship for fear of being tied down
    That's fine. Far better than cheating.

    Quote Originally Posted by 12Call
    Try flowers and pretend you actually paid for them.
    You mean don't nick 'em from a cemetery or hospital ward?
    I'm sure if Scampy really wanted to impress a Nip, Blake 7 could just wack the price of the weeds on a CC.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Butterfly
    Women are bigger cheaters than men, they have more opportunities
    how can women have more opportunities when men are equally involved???

    Quote Originally Posted by Butterfly
    easier for them to be tempted
    how?

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    ^Thats actually pretty funny coming from butterfly, I heard he likes women and we all know he does blokes and ladyboys, seems he gets the most choices

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    Quote Originally Posted by November Rain View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by HollyGoodhead
    I would say infidelity never really crosses my mind because I know I would never do anything. I suppose it's down to personality. I'm quite shy but also loyal and believe in being honest
    Yup. My answer, too.

    If there's summat that wrong in a relationship, you end it & then go elsewhere, or you sort it out. Infidelity is for cowards & weaklings. No-one with real balls cheats.
    If it were natural for a man to stay faithful to his wife we wouldn't have laws forcing him to do it. I figure people cheat for the same reason a dog licks his balls. Some girls/boys are extremely lucky to have a partner at all. They'd never cheat. Not because they're pillars of goodness or Godliness, because they aren't brave enough to risk gambling away what they have.

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    I'll be seeing her again in 24 hrs and tonight has been like some kind of test. I have bumped into three different Thai girls. One bored office worker I went on an internet date back in January but couldn't be bothered to follow it up. A clothes stall owner with big boobs and a diamond encrusted snaggletooth whom I chatted up at work a couple of times but never got round to meeting for a drink, and an intellectual string bean I was boning for a while back in December yet who failed to divert my obsession with another Japanese girl I was semi involved with last year.

    Suddenly they seem interested in me, now that they know I have a girlfriend and now that they've seen me in my work togs looking all smart. It did help a lot that I had the discipline to drink water tonight, it stopped me smoking also - cigarettes taste like shit when accompanied with water. Anyway, office girl wasn't up for a first night tour of my room but is now flirting and trying to make Snaggletooth jealous and asking if she's my friend etc... It's a bit annoying, I wanted to say, "Oh, so NOW you want to shag me now you have something to compete with and give you some self esteem at someone elses expense", not one of the better Thai traits is it, that one.

    String bean was sincere and just wanted to say hello and ask how I was which was nice, I guess we've been there and done that, but even so there was a twinkle in her eye. But you don't have to shag somebody just because you can, and an empty spaggle sack removes impure thoughts, at least for a while, which is why I've come home sober as a judge after avoiding the temptation of not only three women, but the booze also, and I'm gonna have an early night and bat one off over a foursome with all three of them.

    Just has an sms from Kyoto, she's in a kitchen shop asking me if I still need a pepper grinder.

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    Well, if she reads this thread it's not just pepper she shall be putting in her grinder.

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    Blow jobs don't count.

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    ^ that is so true!!, its sorta like hireing help, just like getting someone in to mow the yard when you don,t want to do it your self..jobs done they pack up and piss off, everyone happy

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