Smart casual dress, showered and shaved. A bit of smelly stuff on, a fun attitude and a pocket full of money is all anyone needs to have a good time.
I have heard that some of the girls prefer the older blokes because the young studs go at it too hard. Perhaps the reason why so many Pattaya girls have bandy legs?:)
I know an old whoremonger in his 70s who has a band of regulars beating a path to his door. Very popular in the gogos he frequents as well. He is short and well, lets say well rounded, and not an overpayer either. But he is very popular with the girls because he is kind, gentle and likes a bit of fun. Being an established expat probably helps his cause as he is a known quantity to the girls by now.
I was 40 when I first visited Pattaya and being a bit shy and reserved I didn't attract all that much attention from the girls. At 50, after a few more visits I had worked out the game plan. Girls just want to have sanuk! Nursing a beer in the corner with a frown on your face ain't going to get you much attention whether you are 20 or 60. But a friendly outgoing fun attitude will do the trick every time, provided you have the basic grooming factors covered.