Read this on another forum. Must admit it is frustrating.
What the heck is going on with this racist culture? What we can and can’t say, how we say it and when is becoming increasingly frustrating. I don’t know about you, but I’m totally confused, and not only that, I feel terribly uncomfortable when talking to, or referring to a person of another origin.
Adjectives can be wonderful things. We use them to describe allsorts of objects that surrounds us in our daily lives. The use of adjectives makes one item stand out from another. “Whose is that car over there?” Which one? The man said. “The long red one”. I really don’t understand how one can be so offended with the use of colour. Yet it’s ok to refer to a person as white, for example: Which person are you talking about? Not the white one. Ha-ha, now I get it!
There are certain situations when the use of colour is acceptable; when ‘you’ personally have a friend of another origin who is not white! I have a friend who’s not white and I recall one day talking about two guys we saw that were jogging. I referred to the guy having a weird hairstyle, and my friend asked me to point the individual out that I was referring to as they both had weird styles. One had an afro that wasn’t white, the other multi-coloured Mohican. I did point the individual out and in this case I used the colour opposite to white. He wasn’t offended in the slightest. However, while out with my white friend, who also had a friend that wasn’t white but I didn’t know him, was very offended when I compared 2 girls’ asses. He asked which one I thought was sexy, and I pointed out the woman who wasn’t white but I used the colour opposite. Although he didn’t say anything, he did give me a nasty look for using a bad adjective.
Have times become so bad when you feel uncomfortable about using this adjective to describe fluffy cats, bin bags and everything else that uses this adjective?
Whom can we turn to for answers? Are we or the governments responsible for this segregation? It seems to me that instead of gelling people together from different origins, the governments are insistent on keeping us separated. There is of course the past to consider, but is this not a lesson we should have learned by now? Surely the way to bridge these differences is not to create a situation where we feel we’re treading on egg-shells all the time. I love my black car, my black LCD flat screen, I look great in black and most of all I love sweet black ass. What’s the problem?