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    Thai women - characteristics.

    Best five
    - usually slimmer and more toned than Western women
    - soft facial features
    - usually more compliant
    - fun loving
    - can be less demanding in some ways



    Worst five
    - potential to become seriously psychopathic
    - over possessiveness, clinginess, suspecting, unreasonableness
    - view that they give sex rather than have sex, thus expect to be compensated (either by the hour, or for life)
    - manipulation, gold-digging & sponging
    - general weirdness and irregularity of behaviour

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    - Look act and dress like katoeys
    - goatee
    - thick luscious leg fur
    - durian smell
    - uncouth kinda like a friggin drunk sailor

    can't think of any bad points

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smeg
    Best five
    1 usually slimmer and more toned than Western women
    2 soft facial features
    3 usually more compliant
    4 fun loving
    5 can be less demanding in some ways



    Worst five
    1 potential to become seriously psychopathic
    2 over possessiveness, clinginess, suspecting, unreasonableness
    3 view that they give sex rather than have sex, thus expect to be compensated (either by the hour, or for life)
    4 manipulation, gold-digging & sponging
    5 general weirdness and irregularity of behaviour
    Let's see - how does this relate to my wife (Thai):

    1) a little on the heavy side due to childbirth, but improving nicely. So agree on that one.
    2) Oh yes!
    3) Not really, ready to speak up if she has to - rarely has to.
    4) Yes!
    5) Less demanding than what/who? Don't get that one

    So far 3 out of 5

    Let's have a look at the "worst five":

    1) Nope - been together for close to 5 years - she is as sound as ever (wish I could say the same!)
    2) Nope.
    3) Fortunately no
    4) Absolutely not. In fact, the last couple of times I suggested buying jewellry, she has told me it is too expensive, and that she already has enough. Significantly more frugal than me.
    5) Nah - if anyone is weird in our family it is me.

    So 0 out of 5 there.

    And I do not think my wife is that unique - most of her friends, married or not seem to share many of the same traits.


    Are you sure you are not confusing Thai women with common prostitites? Or perhaps that you are mixing with the wrong type of women?
    Any error in tact, fact or spelling is purely due to transmissional errors...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Whiteshiva
    Are you sure you are not confusing Thai women with common prostitites? Or perhaps that you are mixing with the wrong type of women?
    Yes, Im sure, but as you say, they are pretty common

    I'm attempting to generalise characteristics, which I thought was pretty obvious, but if you want to try to apply them to a single person, your partner, to try to dismiss them rather than suggest your own, then up to you...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smeg
    Quote Originally Posted by Whiteshiva
    Are you sure you are not confusing Thai women with common prostitites? Or perhaps that you are mixing with the wrong type of women?
    Yes, Im sure, but as you say, they are pretty common

    I'm attempting to generalise characteristics, which I thought was pretty obvious, but if you want to try to apply them to a single person, your partner, to try to dismiss them rather than suggest your own, then up to you...
    I was only trying to apply them to the Thai person I know best. Not a very good match, as I've pointed out.

    What is the point in suggesting my own, they would be wrong. Firstly, neither of us have met more than a tiny fraction of the Thai population. Secondly (and here I am speaking for myself), I have met some very nice people here, and one or two assholes. Most people fall somewhere in between. Thirdly, Because I mostly mix with educated Thai people (upper middle class?), and live in the Bangkok suburbs, my experiences will be very different from someone who spends all his time in the Asoke-Nana area mixing with hookers, touts and drunks. Or, say, someone who lives in the country side in a farming community.

    To summon it up, I couldn't give common characterists of the Thai people I know, and even less the 99.9% of the population I have never met.

    .....At least not without appearing to be a complete tosser who didn't know what I was talking about.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Smeg
    Best five
    - usually slimmer and more toned than Western women
    - soft facial features
    - usually more compliant
    - fun loving
    - can be less demanding in some ways



    Worst five
    - potential to become seriously psychopathic
    - over possessiveness, clinginess, suspecting, unreasonableness
    - view that they give sex rather than have sex, thus expect to be compensated (either by the hour, or for life)
    - manipulation, gold-digging & sponging
    - general weirdness and irregularity of behaviour
    Comparing my experience with what appears to have been yours I'd have to agree with #s 1,2 & 4 on the Best list Never met one that was "less demanding" or "more compliant" but they sure have a nicer way of gettng their points across. Usually a bit more patient, will tell you you're wrong then sit back and wait for the "I told you so" opportunity. Then give a nice, private lecture that leaves me with fuck-all to say.

    On the worst list:
    Never had one go Psyco on me but I've heard stories. Usually involving a lady involved in the "Entertainment" fields. But then the Western women I've had the good fortune to be with tended to go ballistic on me quite often. Yellin' screamin. gettin all confrontational and shit. The ol' lady now. Gives me a Hummmm. And I know I've crossed some line. Usually she's right but when she's wrong? She don't throw dishes or yell and scream.

    Seen a bit of the possesivness though. Usualy mild jealousy, course being a white-boy Thai ladies from all walks of life are interested in us. Women here are attracted to white boys, not necessarily for money either. I have a few willing to take care of me, the reality is, there are lots of Thai ladies that will attempt to steal a man they deem desirable or attractive. The jealousies are founded in some real base. Lot a dudes fromthe west hardly ever got laid back home find it difficult to resist all them sweet sexy women.
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    Ah yes the "sex for remuneration" thing. That's just fuckin way out wrong. In fact I'd venture to say this can be seen in western women a hell of lot more often. Hell even the bar girls that get paid seem to go after a decent lookin' fella, fuck his brains out and expect nothin but to get a nut. The women I've met and had sex with were some of the sexiest most sensuous women I've ever had the pleasure of making love with.

    It is "making love" or "having sex with." not "giving sex." Well, if you're a "two pump charlie" the girls may feel shorted a bit then they may be "giving sex," let's face if she get's no joy becasue you're o and off in a second why would she keep fuckin you? But by and large if you are a decent lover you'll be inundated with opportunities.

    Manipulative; AH Yeah, the inscrutable asian woman... what sweet manipulation this really harks back to the previous (best) list doesn't it? Are they less demanding or more manipulative? More compliant? Thai women seem to be better able to get along and direct a fella While not overly meticulous in their approach to manipulation they seem to be able to smile with that soft brown twinkle in their eye and cajole a dude into being a bit less of a pig at times I gotta admit.

    Gold diggin'?? Nope I am constanly being told I need to spend money on new colthes, the ol' lady's lookin for a new camera for me right now While she still wears hand-me-downs from her older sister. I took her to the mall to by some new clothes she looks, she says how pretty then tells me it's too expensive. She doesn't want jewelry and I can't get her to give up them ugly old clothes if I gotta pay money for new ones.

    She's very happy with little or no extra money. When I was in Fiji I had my pay transfered into my bank ac**** here. gave her the ATM card eight months she ahd a full balance sheet of all expenses (al pre-approved by me) of 6000 baht over those eight months. All that money all went to gettin my kid on his feet when he moved here from BKK.

    She get's paid she keeps her allowance of 2K for the month hands me the rest. She tells me "You pay for everything anyway" some months when, I've had no income for a few, we get by on her salary I have never once heard a complaint. never once been told, "But I give you all the money!" she puts the money in my hand After 30 months of this I guess I could fighure I'm being set up, right?
    General wierdness
    Smeg you may just have a fuckin' point. Fuckin women are wierd the world over though, ain;t they? I mean there must be a reason they control all the pussy! Then there's the (gerenal) lack of purely intellectual pursuits. Watching a movie that tickles the mind but suffers from a dearth of car chases, gratuitous violence or slapstick comedy bores the living shit out of her and I get some funny stares when I laugh out loud at things; but then, thinking back on it I rarely found wilder folks interested in intellectual pursuits back home either. Very difficult to find folks that are fun to be around and intellectual as well. Not academic but intellect. There were a few there are a few here too.

    Course you get on the subject of Thai politics and marketing she's all a twinkle. con;t fuckin shut her up. She thinks marketing is selling your product though, I try and tell her that it is also findng out what product will sell, she get's bored again.

    Yeah, wierd as fuck, but I love her, respect her and trust her. Hard to find in any one; let alone, someone that makes you wanna fuck yourself silly with every day..
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    ^ um yes - what he said!

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    Quote Originally Posted by friscofrankie
    Ah yes the "sex for remuneration" thing. That's just fuckin way out wrong. In fact I'd venture to say this can be seen in western women a hell of lot more often. Hell even the bar girls that get paid seem to go after a decent lookin' fella, fuck his brains out and expect nothin but to get a nut. The women I've met and had sex with were some of the sexiest most sensuous women I've ever had the pleasure of making love with.
    Great post FF, but on the above, I have to disagree. Thai women will generally go for a butt ugly wealthy guy, Thai or foreign, over a better looking poor guy. Just look at the cute babes often seen hanging off the arm of the 150kg Thai freak holding the keys to the benz daddy bought him.

    I had a conversation with an office girl the other day. She stated that bad Thai women will have sex for money, and good Thai women expect the man to take of them forever. No mention of wanting to meet a guy just to enjoy some purely physical & mental no-strings pleasure, which does happen quite often in clubs back in the West

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    Smeg - you are over looking a major point here

    Quote Originally Posted by whitesiva
    Are you sure you are not confusing Thai women with common prostitites? Or perhaps that you are mixing with the wrong type of women?

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    ^And you are overlooking my reply already made to that mate

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smeg
    Quote Originally Posted by Whiteshiva
    Are you sure you are not confusing Thai women with common prostitites? Or perhaps that you are mixing with the wrong type of women?
    Yes, Im sure, but as you say, they are pretty common

    I'm attempting to generalise characteristics, which I thought was pretty obvious, but if you want to try to apply them to a single person, your partner, to try to dismiss them rather than suggest your own, then up to you...
    OK spell it out for me - cos i still dont understand how this copmment is a decent reply to Whiteshiva's or FF......

    they're saying - your OP relates to hookers not thai girls

    you're saying - but i'm generalizing & i think that thai girl=hooker so thats ok?

    is that a fair summary?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kingwillyhggtb
    you're saying - but i'm generalizing & i think that thai girl=hooker so thats ok?

    is that a fair summary?
    Not really. Its the other way round

    Thai hookers are Thai women, not beings from outer space, and as such have the same wants and needs as other Thai women. However, they use different methods to get it (due to either not being able to find a man longterm, or being mentally deranged)

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    Quote Originally Posted by friscofrankie
    ... Fuckin women are wierd the world over though, ain;t they? I mean there must be a reason they control all the pussy!..
    I have been a whore my entire life. Dated, lived with, slept with, hated and loved women.

    Asian women are no different than any other women in the world.

    My wife is a woman. I am a man.

    Sometimes, I love her and sometimes i want to kill her.

    *wife's response*

    Sometimes, I love him and sometimes i want to kill him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smeg
    No mention of wanting to meet a guy just to enjoy some purely physical & mental no-strings pleasure, which does happen quite often in clubs back in the West
    Rarely met a woman that would openly admit she's just lookin for good sex. But belive me They are in the majority Funny how this POst Office girl never mentioned "Love" makes you wonder abut her personal out look. Fuck man My kid at 25 goes to clubs and gets his brains fucked up on a regular basis.
    Tells me the girls aren;t lookin for "MR. Right" just happy with "Mr Right-now"

    Hell,I'm 54 fuckin ears old, and the beautiful women in the 30's and 40's lookin for love, pleasure and a good time are abundant. Much more so than in the west. These ladies have careers, money and nice trim bodies. Fuckin 18 - 25 years old girls? Out for a good time or a buck no class immature. Yes there are exceptions, but not that many. Fuckin kids willbe fuckin kids.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smeg
    Quote Originally Posted by kingwillyhggtb
    you're saying - but i'm generalizing & i think that thai girl=hooker so thats ok?

    is that a fair summary?
    Not really. Its the other way round

    Thai hookers are Thai women, not beings from outer space, and as such have the same wants and needs as other Thai women. However, they use different methods to get it (due to either not being able to find a man longterm, or being mentally deranged)
    I pretty much agree with that.

    Although the reason for being a whore are certainly not so simplistic.
    Go into any Thai enterprise/office/school and you'll find a host of women in their 20's, 30's, 40's and 50's who haven't been able to find a man.
    And they're not all deranged.
    Sometimes some of the girls I meet give me the impression that they're partly on the game for love/affection etc. This usually lasts until the money negotiations bit.

    I also think that in saying 'Thai' women; it would be prudent to acknowledge that most women from the north or north-east will make up the majority of prostitutes we meet. Unless you rich fokkers are upstairs at Posiedon mixing it with the white girls.
    There is a massive difference between a Thai girl and a provincial girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by poolcleaner
    There is a massive difference between a Thai girl and a provincial girl.
    I think it's all that living out in the countryside watching animals mating, they see that as normal behaviour and it makes the transition to being a prostitute so much easier, obviously it is normal behaviour for animals to mate, but you dont get to see that sort of thing in London.

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    I don't know about this "sex for money" and "sex for a husband" issue.

    For starters, I think it is fairly common practice throughout Asia, not just Thailand, to look for money in a long term partner over other considerations. Possibly applies throughout all the world other than middle-class western society.

    It is also quite logical. The role of a woman in these parts has always been defined by motherhood. It is only natural that a future mother should, as a priority, look for a partner who can best provide for future offspring...and of course themselves as they age. Most Asian weddings involve wives 10 or more years younger than the husband. All fair enough to me...

    It is really only in the last 60 or so years that middle class westerners have indulged by marrying for more romantic bases. That has probably only arisen as a consequence of improved living standards in the west leaving mothers less concerned about the welfare of future children. That, and overpowering cultural images (Hollywood) of romance. But even having said that, it is still extremely rare in the west for people to marry much outside their socioeconomic class.

    But sex is quite different from marriage. Sure, someone here or anywhere else may use sex as a tool to atract that 'better' partner...but as living standards here increase, and social norms 'vary' then the ability to go out for a romp for the fun of it increases...

    (Although its a bit naive to think that even 100 years ago, a 25 year old babe who marries 50 year old sack of shit doesn't look for a bit of fun with a buff young guy on the side...if they thought this jeopardise their future.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtydog
    Quote Originally Posted by poolcleaner
    There is a massive difference between a Thai girl and a provincial girl.
    I think it's all that living out in the countryside watching animals mating, they see that as normal behaviour and it makes the transition to being a prostitute so much easier, obviously it is normal behaviour for animals to mate, but you dont get to see that sort of thing in London.
    Theory holds water for sure but where do all those London birds see animals snorting cocaine to make that such a natural act?

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    obviously it is normal behaviour for animals to mate, but you dont get to see that sort of thing in London.
    From the majority of English women I've met I can see why...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smeg
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    Thai hookers are Thai women, not beings from outer space, and as such have the same wants and needs as other Thai women. However, they use different methods to get it (due to either not being able to find a man longterm, or being mentally deranged)
    Thai hookers, just like other hookers, are in the business of making money through sex, nothing to do with any 'Thai' characteristics.
    Making money as a prostitute does not imply someone is deranged or can't find a longterm partner, either.

    dimwit!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smeg
    Thai hookers are Thai women, not beings from outer space, and as such have the same wants and needs as other Thai women.
    British pedophiles are British men, so they have the same wants and needs as other British men.

    Now look back at your post - do you still think it is a valid statement?

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    Quote Originally Posted by poolcleaner
    There is a massive difference between a Thai girl and a provincial girl
    Care to elaborate ? I don't really know any BKK girls, the one's here seem pretty normal

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    all germans are fat and arrogant

    all japanese have small dicks

    all aussies are drunks and uncoath

    all americans are loud and obnoxious

    all .......

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    Quote Originally Posted by kingwillyhggtb
    all germans are fat and arrogant

    all japanese have small dicks

    all aussies are drunks and uncoath

    all americans are loud and obnoxious

    all .......
    That's true. And your point is?

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    all aussies are drunks and uncoath
    Few Aussies have the capacity to spell and the Welsh are very well hung in general.

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