How Long, After You Popped One Out?

**barbaro** · 28-01-2009, 04:06 PM

Deoderant, noodles, and hair washing....now we turn to a new topic for members.

Many couple have children. There are many physical and mental changes that take place during and after giving birth (aka, popping out out).

How long did it take you and you partner to get busy again.

Over to members....

Sex after baby: Getting busy ... or not

Dr. Ian Kerner and Heidi Raykeil on intimacy challenges new parents face verting a mid-life crisis 'down there'
Why does age slow him down? Can age cause shrinage? And is her man's British upbringing causing their too-polite exchanges in the bedroom? Sexploration answers your queries.

TODAY books

Jan. 27, 2009

Sex matters ... a lot. But for parents of a baby, nights can be sleepless and sexless. In their book "Love in the Time of Colic," sex therapist Ian Kerner and author Heidi Raykeil write about the struggles new parents face when trying to be intimate with each other again. An excerpt.

Welcome to the jungle

Lights. Camera ... Action?

Picture this: Mom and dad crawl into bed after finally getting the baby to sleep. For the moment, the little one is in the crib, and as much as they’d like to believe he’ll stay that way, they know it’s only a matter of time. For mom’s part, she just wants to read a few sentences of the same paragraph of the same novel she’s been mulling over and over and then close her eyes and snatch a few moments of precious sleep.

Dad, meanwhile, has other plans: he sidles on over, gently pushes away the novel and presses his body (and hard-on) against her. You’ve got to be kidding me, she thinks to herself. How can he even think of sex? There’s no way this is going to happen.

But tonight he’s determined; he won’t take her subtle back-turn as an answer. He knows he has a tiny window of time and has to act fast: maybe, just maybe, he’ll get some action: charity-sex ... hell, at this point anything other than his own hand would do. So she kisses him back, at first out of a sense of obligation. But soon, as she starts to remember long lost grown-up sensations, she does it because (what’s this) she kind of wants to! The force of his hunger puts her in touch with appetites of her own. (Maybe this guy isn’t so bad after all.) For a few precious moments they are back to being a couple — not just co-parents — with no thoughts other than each other. There is no world outside of this bedroom, no world outside of their touch.
Until the crying begins.

Link: Sex after baby: Getting busy ... or not - Relationships - MSNBC.com

**reinvented** · 28-01-2009, 04:12 PM

not long

a week or two
though babies make it less frequent its true, though back at the wicket a fair bit lately

**Nawty** · 28-01-2009, 04:16 PM

A month I think......but blowjobs were offerd as replacement.

**Itchy** · 28-01-2009, 04:39 PM

Are you referring to being back at it with the Mrs, or will back at it in general do?

I ask because I know a guy who was caught coming out of the short time rooms at TQ2 in Pattaya on the very afternoon after his wife had just 'popped one out'.

**The Fresh Prince** · 28-01-2009, 04:42 PM

I've not got any kids yet so can't answer. But I was wondering how close to the end were you when you stopped having sex?

**barbaro** · 28-01-2009, 04:42 PM

Originally Posted by Itchy

Are you referring to being back at it with the Mrs, or will back at it in general do?

I ask because I know a guy who was caught coming out of the short time rooms at TQ2 in Pattaya on the very afternoon after his wife had just 'popped one out'.

I should have clarified.

Good points.

This topic is exclusively dedicated to when a hubby and wife started banging each other. Hooker don't count at this time.

**MeMock** · 28-01-2009, 04:49 PM

DD is gonna love this thread.

**reinvented** · 28-01-2009, 04:50 PM

Originally Posted by The Fresh Prince

I've not got any kids yet so can't answer. But I was wondering how close to the end were you when you stopped having sex?

night before
doctor recommended it as the jizz gets the kids exit lights on

**The Fresh Prince** · 28-01-2009, 04:55 PM

I was just chatting with a mate who's wife is gonna drop anyday now and she won't let him near her pussy coz she says it hurts too much.

**filch** · 28-01-2009, 05:09 PM

Originally Posted by The Fresh Prince

I was just chatting with a mate who's wife is gonna drop anyday now and she won't let him near her pussy coz she says it hurts too much.

It's not who I think it is, is it?

**The Fresh Prince** · 28-01-2009, 05:12 PM

Yep.....

**barbaro** · 28-01-2009, 05:13 PM

Originally Posted by The Fresh Prince

I was just chatting with a mate who's wife is gonna drop anyday now and she won't let him near her pussy coz she says it hurts too much.

I bet.

**Nawty** · 28-01-2009, 05:16 PM

About a month prior also....start to worry about the old saying of poking its eye out.

**Loy Toy** · 28-01-2009, 05:35 PM

^ Long and thin gets right in and as the old saying goes hey naughty?

Re OP question I can't remember exactly but from memory I left it up to my missus to initiate and when she felt comfortable.

**filch** · 28-01-2009, 05:37 PM

Originally Posted by The Fresh Prince

Yep.....

Haha - guess he'll never be out of the 'soapies' now.

**slimboyfat** · 28-01-2009, 08:04 PM

My wife had a caesarian on for each birth.

So I had to wait for that wound to heal before I was allowed back in the axe wound

**nevets** · 29-01-2009, 11:45 AM

Its all down to if she is comfortable with it or not either before or after. If it hearts then she wont, i was told of no medical reason other than stitches or op, and then we are back to it hearting.

**Rural Surin** · 29-01-2009, 11:50 AM

Originally Posted by Loy Toy

^ Long and thin gets right in and as the old saying goes hey naughty?

Re OP question I can't remember exactly but from memory I left it up to my missus to initiate and when she felt comfortable.

What a sensitive guy.

**kingwilly** · 29-01-2009, 11:52 AM

fallacy. penis goes into vagina, not through the cervix into the uterus.

Originally Posted by Milkman

I bet.

Originally Posted by Nawty

About a month prior also....start to worry about the old saying of poking its eye out.

**barbaro** · 29-01-2009, 12:16 PM

Originally Posted by kingwilly

fallacy. penis goes into vagina, not through the cervix into the uterus.

Originally Posted by Milkman

I bet.

Originally Posted by Nawty

About a month prior also....start to worry about the old saying of poking its eye out.

Well, she said her pussy hurt.

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