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    Fellow teakdoorians.I wanna ask this question,a question that I cant find the answer to.I love this girl although she never loved me and always lied to me about it.I stoped contacting her since last november and I still cant forget her.she is always on my mind and she controls my mind,body and soul.She did really bad things to me but still I cant forget her.I just cant get her out of my mind despite the fact that she doesn't love me at all and never cared about me.Sometimes I talk to myself when Iam with my friends.They noticed it and laughed at me instead of trying to solve my problem.sometimes when Iam alone I cant stop my tears from sheding and I cant stop thinking about all the painful words she said to me.I cant stop thinking about all the moments I spent with her.Her every word is within me and her every move is in my mind.when she smiled I felt like there is nothing in the world that I want.when she called my name I felt like doing anything.when she was happy I felt happy.Her every move fascinated me.Her every word gave me a new life her smile would make me feel like Iam the luckiest person alive.I felt like doing anything for her.
    Can anyone tell me how to forget her???
    How to get her out of my mind and start a new life???
    How to feel the way I did before???

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    It sounds like you have it very bad for this lady. I am sure you know that you are the only one that can fix this. It sounds like you know that she is not good for you. It depends one what type a person you are . On how you are going to get over her. You can find another women. Or you can tough it out until it is over. Time heals and that is a fact it just does not heal completly.

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    Stop thinking with your heart Mhz, that's what brains are for.
    Connect it, use it.
    Would you really want to have a girlfriend/wife that did not love you ?

    You are young and the world is full of birds.
    Strong love will come to you again.

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    Someone once told me a herat is like a mirror.If it breaks you cant fix it.Even if you fix it the satins will be there.I tried drinking but when I drink alcohol my eyes start functioning like a fokin multi-media projector and all the things come back to me.

    I tried to change my thinking by calling all women bitches but still no result and its not fair cos all women are not like that.sincerely speaking Iam tired of this feeling I wanna get out of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mhz
    If it breaks you cant fix it
    Bollox, don't believe him.
    Time heals broken hearts and the remaining stains does not hurt.

    For some it takes longer time while others, that are so miserably bad at staying alone, jumps directly into a new relation.

    Let it take the time it needs Mhz..

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    Quote Originally Posted by lom
    Quote Originally Posted by Mhz
    If it breaks you cant fix it
    Bollox, don't believe him.
    Time heals broken hearts and the remaining stains does not hurt.

    For some it takes longer time while others, that are so miserably bad at staying alone, jumps directly into a new relation.

    Let it take the time it needs Mhz..
    Thanks lom for replying,it means alot to me.

    Time is a healer but it works fokin slow.

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    In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.

    What can I do???

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    A week spent down soi yodsak would probably help the healing process

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    No DD i dont know why when I do it with a prostitute after finishing I feel so sorry and bad so I just stay away from it.

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    Actually this is the first time that I fell for this girl thats why it is so difficult for me to get over it.

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    I wish I had the answer for you Mhz - it's a shitty feeling and no doubt.

    Just remember that you are the world's most special human being - to yourself at least. Think on that and think on what is best for you. As far as any of us know this is the only go we get at this game - don't throw it away by hankering after 'might have beens'.

    Time really will heal......And there really are plenty more fish in the sea....<- These are cliches because they are true.

    Lay off the booze if it's depressing you.....Drinking is good when you're happy and bad when you're sad.

    And also lay off the arithmetic if it's depressing you
    Back off Margaret, you're on a sugar rush!

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    This is the sort of thing that builds character. It sounds cliche but it's true. Don't beat yourself up too much.

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    You guys dont know how fucked I was when she fucked my heart.I cut my wrist and luckily or may be not my uncle came back soon from office at that day and took me to the hospital where I got 17 stitches and had to pay 20000 to the police for covering the case.I can still see the marks on my wrist and it takes me back to that point.

    Anyways thank you all for replying and caring about it.Its something that was started with in me and I have to solve it by myself.She will always be in my heart and I think I will live with it.I have no complains regarding her may be there was something that I lacked or may be I was not good enough.

    Lets see what happens and hope for the best.
    Last edited by Mhz; 01-05-2006 at 02:18 AM.

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    Go out on the pull and shag your way around town for a while. You'll have a good laugh and you'll soon forget about her. No bird is worth getting as worked up over as you obviously are over this one.

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    Help, I need somebody,
    Help, not just anybody,
    Help, you know I need someone, help.

    When I was younger, so much younger than today,
    I never needed anybody's help in any way.
    But now these days are gone, I'm not so self assured,
    Now I find I've changed my mind and opened up the doors.

    Help me if you can, I'm feeling down
    And I do appreciate you being round.
    Help me, get my feet back on the ground,
    Won't you please, please help me?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mhz
    You guys dont know how fucked I was when she fucked my heart.I cut my wrist and luckily or may be not my uncle came back soon from office at that day and took me to the hospital where I got 17 stitches and had to pay 20000 to the police for covering the case.I can still see the marks on my wrist and it takes me back to that point.

    Anyways thank you all for replying and caring about it.Its something that was started with in me and I have to solve it by myself.She will always be in my heart and I think I will live with it.I have no complains regarding her may be there was something that I lacked or may be I was not good enough.

    Lets see what happens and hope for the best.
    You need help mate any one that did what you did over a women has a few screws loose in your head. Get help as you are most unstable

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    My first wife dies in a car accident, one miniute she was there then next dead, meaningless sex and alchaol works pretty well...eventually the time thing (which really does work) will kick in.

    Sliting your wrists is not an attempt at suicide, just an expression of you own pain, been sitting by the railway track nursing a bottle of whiskey before, trains are definatly the way to go suicide wise...although they are a bit slow here, so probably guns or tall buildings would be better
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    You need PROFFESSIONAL help, you can't get that here. People might feel for you and give the obligatory "Don't take it so hard" thing but you need to talk to someone that can down to the basis of your problem. Love is hard to find and it has to be a 2 way street or it's all for naught. You can't get satisfaction from a one way love scenario. Go get some REAL help.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rigger
    Quote Originally Posted by Mhz
    You guys dont know how fucked I was when she fucked my heart.I cut my wrist and luckily or may be not my uncle came back soon from office at that day and took me to the hospital where I got 17 stitches and had to pay 20000 to the police for covering the case.I can still see the marks on my wrist and it takes me back to that point.

    Anyways thank you all for replying and caring about it.Its something that was started with in me and I have to solve it by myself.She will always be in my heart and I think I will live with it.I have no complains regarding her may be there was something that I lacked or may be I was not good enough.

    Lets see what happens and hope for the best.
    You need help mate any one that did what you did over a women has a few screws loose in your head. Get help as you are most unstable
    Isn't falling in love enough for you to guess that there are some nuts loose in my head???

    Anyways fuck it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mhz
    Fellow teakdoorians.I wanna ask this question,a question that I cant find the answer to.I love this girl although she never loved me and always lied to me about it.I stoped contacting her since last november and I still cant forget her.she is always on my mind and she controls my mind,body and soul.She did really bad things to me but still I cant forget her.I just cant get her out of my mind despite the fact that she doesn't love me at all and never cared about me.
    You need to get out of pattaya

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    No matter how bad you feel now it will not last.


    Nothing ever does............except danbo's foot odour.
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    cry me a river....

    love is overrated ... and if she never liked you ? then it was hardly real love. infactuation mayb but not love - that's a two way process!

    go and write some poofy poetry or something, or be a man and stop moaning.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kingwillyhggtb
    cry me a river....

    love is overrated ... and if she never liked you ? then it was hardly real love. infactuation mayb but not love - that's a two way process!

    go and write some poofy poetry or something, or be a man and stop moaning.
    Iam a man kingwilly.Any doubts???

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    Red face

    If you are still feeling all crook about her after all this time, then you should seek some professional help from a GOOD professional.Lifes to short to be feeling like a bagfull of arseholes for a long length of time.Fix it properly!

    either that or harden up.

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    I think I will go for harden up.

    BTW I like your AVATAR.

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