my best friend and my girlfriend!!!
hi
a week ago my girlfriend broke up with me, saying that she didnt love me anymore. my best friend told me later that day that he had gone round to her house and they had kissed. i knew that he had liked her for a long time, but i thought he could control himself. i talked to her about it and she said that she started liking my best friend about two weeks before. she told him that she liked him two days before they cheated. i have brought myself to forgive her, but i dont think i can forgive him.
which is worse: cheating on your boy/girlfriend or
betraying your best friend like that?
they said that they wouldnt go out together until i was ready, but i know that they are already treating each other as more than friends. he goes round to her house and they hold hands, which seems like relationship-behaviour.
he doesnt seem very apologetic about it, but she has said sorry a lot and i believe her. he, however, has not said sorry to my face, only on msn, and it really upsets me that he doesnt care. after all, why should he? he has got the girl he wanted for so long.
i live in quite a close-knit social circle, so this is really having an impact because i cant just choose not to associate with these people anymore.
your thoughts?