Another relationship advice question...

**kingwilly** · 28-03-2008, 11:45 AM

not me, just noticed this on a relationship forum that i was trolling....

my best friend and my girlfriend!!!
hi
a week ago my girlfriend broke up with me, saying that she didnt love me anymore. my best friend told me later that day that he had gone round to her house and they had kissed. i knew that he had liked her for a long time, but i thought he could control himself. i talked to her about it and she said that she started liking my best friend about two weeks before. she told him that she liked him two days before they cheated. i have brought myself to forgive her, but i dont think i can forgive him.

which is worse: cheating on your boy/girlfriend or betraying your best friend like that?

they said that they wouldnt go out together until i was ready, but i know that they are already treating each other as more than friends. he goes round to her house and they hold hands, which seems like relationship-behaviour.

he doesnt seem very apologetic about it, but she has said sorry a lot and i believe her. he, however, has not said sorry to my face, only on msn, and it really upsets me that he doesnt care. after all, why should he? he has got the girl he wanted for so long.

i live in quite a close-knit social circle, so this is really having an impact because i cant just choose not to associate with these people anymore.

your thoughts?

**lom** · 28-03-2008, 12:15 PM

2 days is bit short, they could at least have waited a week.

**kingwilly** · 28-03-2008, 12:19 PM

I've just been banned already!

**Agent_Smith** · 28-03-2008, 01:05 PM

^banned from what?

**kingwilly** · 28-03-2008, 01:07 PM

this one... loveshack.org i think it is...

Originally Posted by kingwilly

just noticed this on a relationship forum that i was trolling....

**friscofrankie** · 28-03-2008, 01:07 PM

Fuckin' KW; trolling teeny-bopper love sites...

**kingwilly** · 28-03-2008, 01:22 PM

^ so answer the question, which is worse: cheating on your boy/girlfriend or betraying your best friend like that?

**Texpat** · 28-03-2008, 01:26 PM

Fuckin' KW; trolling teeny-bopper love sites...

**kingwilly** · 28-03-2008, 01:30 PM

Originally Posted by friscofrankie

Fuckin' KW; trolling teeny-bopper love sites...

Originally Posted by Texpat

Fuckin' KW; trolling teeny-bopper love sites...

Hey, I think Texpat is really just FF !

Proof!

**November Rain** · 28-03-2008, 03:17 PM

Originally Posted by kingwilly

^ so answer the question, which is worse: cheating on your boy/girlfriend or betraying your best friend like that?

They're both bloody awful & if it happened to me I'd cut both out of my life. But, yes, I think the friend's behaviour was worse. Relationships come & go - friends (by that I mean real friends, not just colleagues or acquaintances) are supposed to be there for you (& you for them) for life.

**Marmite the Dog** · 28-03-2008, 03:18 PM

At least they weren't married or anything.

**Dalton** · 28-03-2008, 03:31 PM

^ How romantic...

**blackgang** · 28-03-2008, 05:15 PM

Originally Posted by lom

2 days is bit short, they could at least have waited a week.

So whats the big deal, she has been sucking his dick for 2 weeks.

**kingwilly** · 28-03-2008, 05:20 PM

*sigh*

maybe i do have more morals than most of you lot!

**Wally Dorian Raffles** · 28-03-2008, 06:38 PM

I think the guy who is going around to the other guys house and holding hands with the girl who was kind of going steady like with the other guy should carry the guys books home from school for a whole week, and then, and then, and then, the girl who was seeing the other guy and is now holding hands and stuff with the other guy should treat the first guy to the movies, and the first guy should be able to give a really hard chinese burn to the other guy, and call the girl a slut to her face like!

**Wally Dorian Raffles** · 28-03-2008, 06:43 PM

BTW, KW ....You are supposed to be over or atleast 13 years old to post here you know

**kingwilly** · 28-03-2008, 06:46 PM

feck that lotta yas!

have ya checked out that forum. Its not teenagers, most of them a milf!

anyway i thought it was an intersting dilema,

like now that scampy is single, is it polite for me to line up Sandra???

**Wally Dorian Raffles** · 28-03-2008, 06:55 PM

Of course it's not on to hook up with your friends girl - whether they still be together or not - it's a no go zone.
i have had more than one of my friends girls/ex-girls come on to me, and it sure is an uncomfortable situation - especially if you want to stay friends with both. but no, never. i would like to think that my friends (and most adults) would feel the same .

Willy on the other hand is still in that stage in life where he is finding out about the birds and bees and things, and we should not give the guy a hard time for not knowing the things that are obvious to all of us who are over 13 years old..

**buriramboy** · 02-03-2011, 09:21 PM

^WTF??

**dirtydog** · 02-03-2011, 09:23 PM

^idiot.

**buriramboy** · 02-03-2011, 09:25 PM

Originally Posted by dirtydog

^idiot.

Someone has deleted the post my WTF was in response to, wasn't me who bumped the thread and mr.idiot to you.

**dirtydog** · 02-03-2011, 09:45 PM

Sorry MR IDIOT, it was just some flipper spammer whose post was trashed.

**sunsetter** · 02-03-2011, 11:03 PM

worse bump ever!!!

**Cujo** · 03-03-2011, 09:59 AM

Originally Posted by kingwilly

feck that lotta yas!

have ya checked out that forum. Its not teenagers, most of them a milf!

anyway i thought it was an intersting dilema,

like now that scampy is single, is it polite for me to line up Sandra???

You mean get in the line for Sandra?
Just don't forget your wallet, she's a sure thing.

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