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    Gay Sex or Gay Love ? which is it ?

    Many men seems to be afraid of gay sex or anything related to physical attractions with men, and are quick to define anything with male parts as being gay !!!

    but is it really ? what about male bonding ? a lot of male bonding rituals seems to be more gay than anything and yet are being ignored by the majority of the participants.

    How many closet homos are hidding behind the male bond thing ? certainly a few in the military, so close to erupt sexually than they try to persuade themselves that any "gay" contacts are wrong despite having gone 90% of the path though male bonding.

    This is particularly true in "male dominated" groups like in the military camps, or ships or oil rigs. Since male bonding is a sort of love ritual, that stops short of sexual contacts, but still highly "hormonal", why isn't defined as a gay ritual like gay sex is ?

    and is it just more GAY to be in love with a man or a group of men than it is to have sex with another male ?
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    This should be moved to Issues, as obviously this is a serious topic

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    Q) What would it take to destigmatise homosexuality among US soldiers?

    A) A couple of pints of beer.

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    not really

    i have lots of very good but ugly male friends
    i in no way wish to play the pink oboe with them

    not to mention that two sets of nuts is one to many in any tumble

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    my long silent homoerotic desires have been stirred by this thread.

    please continue.

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    and Chintee

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    You forgot to mention us tough, macho rugby types. I'm mortally offended.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chinthee
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    Yes, I thought it maybe in the wrong forum and butterfly would have to be jailed again

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    i suspect BG with all his vitriolic homophobic rants would almost HAVE to be!

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    What are these acts of male bonding that are faggoty based?

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    ^ I am disgusted by this question. Please include pics.

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    here's a good rant !

    Quote Originally Posted by a sad old git
    Why is it that some refer to ladyboys as "she", do some people forget That they are not she but a fucking queer, "male homosexual", and will never be a she and will die an AIDS infected queer, dick or not, still a queer with their name on a birth cert. as a male live birth. __________________

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gallowspole
    What are these acts of male bonding that are faggoty based?
    Yes please do answer this, the closest to male bonding for me would probably be drinking in a pub/bar???

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    ^QUEER!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gallowspole
    What are these acts of male bonding that are faggoty based?
    Probably best to get an investigative reporter to join a rugby club, who knows what happens when all those guys get naked in the shower together and play pass the soap.

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    ^ Nah, investigative reporters always make their excuses and leave just before the juicy stuff happens.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Butterfly View Post

    This is particularly true in "male dominated" groups like in the military camps, or ships or oil rigs. Since male bonding is a sort of love ritual, that stops short of sexual contacts, but still highly "hormonal", why isn't defined as a gay ritual like gay sex is ?
    Maybe because they aren't turd burglars like the OP.
    Seems like the concept of "friendship" has eluded Butterflyer, quite sad indeed.

    Seems like this thread is another troll destined for MKP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Butterfly View Post
    and is it just more GAY to be in love with a man or a group of men than it is to have sex with another male ?
    Well, being in love with a girl means you want to have sex with her and will do anything to get it.
    Not sure male bonding qualifies as love...

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    i bonked a girl once her name was gay, did,nt seem queer to me at the time!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kingwilly
    Originally Posted by a sad old git Why is it that some refer to ladyboys as "she", do some people forget That they are not she but a fucking queer, "male homosexual", and will never be a she and will die an AIDS infected queer, dick or not, still a queer with their name on a birth cert. as a male live birth.
    Say there turd burgler, did you find something in that post in error?
    IMHO everything in it is factual, how the hell can he be a she if he was born a MALE. that is unless you are kind of limp wristed, which I suspect.

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    Ever heard of "transgender",,, old man?
    Them likes te be called a she, an ye can furk em frontwise.

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    Sex or gay love - neither, it is disgusting - tapping a sweaty dude's stinkin' dirt hole? Nothing appealing about that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by "Bluecat'
    Not sure male bonding qualifies as love...
    I'm sure.....It doesn't.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bluecat
    Well, being in love with a girl means you want to have sex with her and will do anything to get it.
    Wouldn't you do anything for your mates if they ask you ? what kind of friend are you ?

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