I thought I had grown up for my midlife period, responsible corporate citizen I was, Armani suits, tailored shirts, 4 door exective sedan, Commodore of the local yacht club, as superficial as the best of them. After 30 years of this I looked around at my freinds, fvck me we had all become boring clones of one another.
Around that time I took a few days off work to go sailing by myslf and ended running into a guy in with a similar yacht to mine so rowed over to chat with him, talking a couple of bottles of red under my arm.
He was an interesting sort of Wild haired character. Essentaiily built the yacht himself and just spent his time sailing around the south pacific waters with nothing but a couple of local honeys for company. I thought, well shag me silly, he am I working my arse off with an expensive boat and very little time to sail it. So I tossed it all in, wife house the whole shooting box, ditched the lot.
I had a Thai GF who I had previously met in Malaysia and we just went sailing for a couple of years.
Got bored with all that and her ^ so sold up and moved over here, not just for the girls but the whole thing seemed to be the intune with what I wanted which the opposite of my previous life.
Now I feel really grown up.