Sitting in a bar in Amsterdam around 1990. had a conversation with an Irisman with cerebal palsey. He gave me his life story, growing up with a house full of siblings in a poor family and being treated like a simpleton. Against the odds, he eventually got an education and graduated university. His story which he told without any hint of playing the victim, was quite inspiring. I admired what he achieved in life with the hand he was dealt.