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    Quote Originally Posted by Looper View Post
    Do you know which way he walks to work Wally?

    Scout out the pedestrian crossings and rent a Landcruiser with bull bars for the day and remove the plates.
    Ha! I would never do that, but I have wondered about him dying in an accident - which is not a nice thing to think, i know. She even said that the big earthquake is coming and you never know! ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wally Dorian Raffles View Post
    I actually met her about 2 weeks ago for the first time in about 10 years
    Did you at least get a shag?


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    There is actually only one way forward for you, Wally. You just don't realize it yet.

    You cannot commit suicide because how would she feel then ? And if you really love her, how could you do that to her ?

    You must give up the cigarettes, stay off the alcohol, and become healthy again. Do it slowly, or do it cold turkey....up to you. That will give you mental balance...trust me. Then remain friends with her, and find someone else. Er....HOW many million available women are there in Japan ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Latindancer View Post
    There is actually only one way forward for you, Wally. You just don't realize it yet.

    You cannot commit suicide because how would she feel then ? And if you really love her, how could you do that to her ?

    You must give up the cigarettes, stay off the alcohol, and become healthy again. Do it slowly, or do it cold turkey....up to you. That will give you mental balance...trust me. Then remain friends with her, and find someone else. Er....HOW many million available women are there in Japan ?
    Folloing your failed attempt to elicit sympathy from members of an obscure forum, you should perhaps consider the lack of credibility you have, in giving any advice to another poster struggling with relationship difficulties.

    The only positive in your advice would be not recommending suicide.

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    Fuck off, Switch, you slimy little turd. It's good advice I am giving, and along the exact same lines as a few other people have given.


    Wally....sometimes people just have to pull themselves up out of the mire.

    However you yourself don't have to. You have many people to give you a helping hand up.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by raycarey
    wally, go seek professional help from a psychiatrist, psychologist or counselor.

    that's the best advice you're going to get on this thread because no one here is qualified to help someone with the issues you're dealing with.
    This.

    Venting is fine but this is not the forum to get advice or help from. To borrow the phrase: 'consider the source'.

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    ^^...this thread is beginning to ooze...

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    Many men are just suckers when it comes to women, so many of them deserve what they get imho. I've seen cousins and friends give money to women who lives overseas and get totally screwed over. .. I've seen it all really.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wally Dorian Raffles View Post
    i never stop thinking about her. i sent her an email yesterday - asking if she has told me that she still loves me was true - or if she was just trying to make me feel better because i am depressed. she is very honest - she told me that she has been honest. but we did not marry, so there is not much we can do about that now. she says she does not get much love from her family. she says that she feels my love and it gives her strength. the more i correspond with her, the more l realize just how big my fuck up was.
    Quote Originally Posted by Wally Dorian Raffles View Post
    she is instigating our next meeting. last time i saw her i sang love songs i wrote for her years ago. we were always very romantic.

    i write her fairy tale love stories. i write her love poems.

    after all of these years i still miss her dearly.
    In like Flynn, mate!

    Classic cry for help.

    You need to write her a love song and love poem before the next meeting!

    I predict a Happy Ending!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Latindancer View Post
    Fuck off, Switch, you slimy little turd. It's good advice I am giving,



    No, really.

    Brilliantly good advice



    How long did that $5,000 last?

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    Trolling in a thread like this ? A bit low even for you....

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarilynMonroe View Post
    . I've seen it all really
    Tell us again the story of when you had to stop 2 gerbils fighting and you had to do it by touch because you were unable to see them

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarilynMonroe View Post
    I've seen it all really.
    For once, an MM claim that is not difficult to believe.

    Any Bangladeshi blokes exposed themselves via FaceTime to you lately? "LOL"


    Quote Originally Posted by Latindancer View Post
    Trolling in a thread like this ? A bit low even for you....
    Hard to resist with material like this though...

    Quote Originally Posted by Wally Dorian Raffles View Post
    i write her fairy tale love stories.

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    ^ I'm not ashamed of my sensitive side, cyrille. Or my creative side. Flame away. It doesn't bother me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by baldrick View Post
    Tell us again the story of when you had to stop 2 gerbils fighting and you had to do it by touch because you were unable to see them
    Ha..I should have said, I have heard it all.
    Seen a lot too.. :0

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wally Dorian Raffles View Post
    ^ I'm not ashamed of my sensitive side, cyrille. Or my creative side. Flame away. It doesn't bother me.
    Don't you think you need to move on? Like when I think about my first love from 20 years ago, I think how I have changed since then I'm sure he has as well. You perhaps remember how she made you feel in more ways than one, but if you've been drugged up for that long, you perhaps can find someone else that can make you feel like that again. You first have to focus on yourself as many people have said. Focus on getting clean, feeling good and doing things you want and then maybe other things will fall into place. Have you have serious counselling? I know about childhood trauma.. background is in psychology and have worked as a counsellor with kids for many years. It is normal for you to have trust issues and afraid to get close to people.. you just have to recognize your issues and work through them, be kind to yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarilynMonroe View Post
    You perhaps remember how she made you feel in more ways than one, but if you've been drugged up for that long, you perhaps can find someone else that can make you feel like that again.
    ...or perhaps similar drugs...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarilynMonroe View Post
    I think about my first love from 20 years ago
    When you were...25?


    Quote Originally Posted by MarilynMonroe View Post
    I know about childhood trauma..
    Of course...all of your students experience it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cyrille
    When you were...25?
    Maybe she meant kilograms.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Dillinger View Post
    Jeez. You sound like Headhunter and his old dog.

    Move on and find a new bitch like he did
    over the past 57yrs.i have had MANYtrue loves,
    a red setter.
    a ccocker spanial,
    many greyhounds.
    my past love of 2yrs.ago was SAM my husky
    now the latest is a loverly bitch MOLLY.
    LOVE ME LOVE MY DOG.HH.

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    Wow - this dog you were so devoted to and whose death you posted about for 18 months was...a husky?

    In Isaan, Thailand.

    Wow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tomcat View Post
    ...or perhaps similar drugs...
    lol.. this reminds me of the song, " I Want a New Drug" by Huey Lewis and the News..who for a fact I saw in concert a long time ago. Fits pefect!


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    Quote Originally Posted by MarilynMonroe View Post
    lol.. this reminds me of the song, " I Want a New Drug" by Huey Lewis and the News..who for a fact I saw in concert a long time ago. Fits pefect!
    No it does not. The last thing Wally needs to do is start self medicating again... Damn...

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    ^I didn't mean literally, its just a song. comparing the drug to being in love.. you'd know if you actually listened to the song.
    If you read what i wrote a few times, I encouraged him to get clean. Get a grip, ao.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wally Dorian Raffles View Post
    Only now that I am sober and clean and have clarity can I see how unwell it made me.
    Quote Originally Posted by Wally Dorian Raffles View Post
    she has 3 kids and a life with her family that she is content with
    OK - this will sound harsh but deservedly so...

    "unwell its made me" "she is content with"


    Just what gives you the right to damage four strangers lives? The three kids and the husband. What the hell did they do to deserve your interference in their lives? as for your long lost love - leave her alone.

    How do you justify to yourself the collateral damage your drug abuse caused and continues to cause?

    You are a drug addict and an alcoholic, you know it. Fix your problem and leave others out of it.

    Get a grip. Walk, no run away. Leave this family alone. They did nothing to deserve your interference in their lives.

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