Thread: Nagging Thai wife

Originally Posted by David48atTD

If you legally divorced in Thailand ... you are legally divorced in the USA/England/NZ etc.

Know from personal experience that that's correct....at least as far as the USA is concerned.

Originally Posted by David48atTD

If you legally married in the USA/England/NZ etc ... you are legally married in Thailand

...not so: Thailand does not recognize my US marriage...

Originally Posted by tomcat

...not so: Thailand does not recognize my US marriage...

Sorry TC. I should have considered the alternative

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^ Was she walking past and told you to delete that?

Originally Posted by YourDaddy

Since the marriage it has been a constant nag..... do wrong this, do wrong that.

Has she bashed you upside the head lately?

Mine could nag for Thailand if they had an Olympic sport in it. My solution is to have boots wax earplugs in most of the time and pretend my hearing is a lot worse than it is. She has even nagged before about me cutting the grass, wrong time of day, cleaning the car, what for, and paying the bills early.

Originally Posted by David48atTD

I should have considered the alternative

Fucking blokes?

My wife doesn't nag me at all. If anything, I nag her because her English is so atrocious and she's incapable of remembering the simplest things about it...like verbs, tenses, putting "s" after plural words, or inverting subject and verb in a sentence when asking a question. Even after living here in Oz for 5 years and studying English 3 days a week for the first 2 years.

She reminds me of how a Buddhist monk once described Thai women to me : "lovely people, but not much upstairs. But really....the nicest women you could meet !". The thing is though, she does have some brains....just not for language.

Nagging and whinging, from your beloved, should be the least of one's concern.

Farang very special - the ultimate special spouse, without faults or blemishes.

^Has anyone in the history of the internet ever said so much without saying anything?.

FOJ.

Originally Posted by Luigi

^ Was she walking past and told you to delete that?

I do what she says with no protest when she's right, or wrong.

Originally Posted by Dragonfly94

Mine could nag for Thailand if they had an Olympic sport in it. My solution is to have boots wax earplugs in most of the time and pretend my hearing is a lot worse than it is. She has even nagged before about me cutting the grass, wrong time of day, cleaning the car, what for, and paying the bills early.

I piss too loud at night.

Originally Posted by jabir

I piss too loud at night.

I wash me hands in the kitchen sink.

Originally Posted by jabir

I do what she says with no protest when she's right, or wrong.

Is there any connection between this and your eighteen months posting as a muslim fundamentalist?

10-11 months without the presence of said Thai better half can only be a plus.

Originally Posted by HuangLao

10-11 months without the presence of said Thai better half can only be a plus.

It's refreshing to see you actually posting something as a real person, jeff.

Would you care to expand?

It could be argued by a harsher critic than myself that your comment doesn't make any sense, or at least is completely disconnected from anything, which amounts to pretty much the same thing.

Originally Posted by OhOh

Nagging is communication, it's usually something you/they were to do, but have not, hence is considered a blemish on your/their performance. Try to remember all the times what you/they thought you both had agreed as a plan of action but it, for whatever reason, wasn't completed, eh?

Important stuff write it down, in a diary, as a saved memo on your "device". Check your to-do list daily and you'll be surprised that the "nagging" decreases. Suggest, politely, your partner does similar. Make a spreadsheet, agree green stars for completion as agreed, yellow stars awaiting completion, red stars when way, way overdue. Compare on a weekly/monthly interval. Whoever gets the most greens decides where the restaurant meal is to be and the other half pays. Turn it into a positive competition. Once both over the weight red line change the reward to spa visits.

Nagging is far better than silence or being ignored.

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Green stars are acceptable to me. Public announcements only twist the knife deeper into the less able. Leading, in some cases, to financial/emotional ruin.

Your welcome.

Examining oneself, firstly, can only lead to a well-healed and positive existence.

Oh well.

I tried.

We're back to poorly remembered phrases and meaninglessness.

On the other hand.....
The boorishly splendid Farang husband.


Perfectly legitimate.

Originally Posted by Pragmatic

I wash me hands in the kitchen sink.

I piss in the sink

Originally Posted by cyrille

Oh well.

I tried.

We're back to poorly remembered phrases and meaninglessness.

You'd make a perfect nagging housewife Sybill, clutching the milk bottles standing on the well polished step gossiping to Mrs Snubbles at number 12 about that strumpet little miss Sunshine at number 7.

While you're pissing in her sink in your wife-beater?