Ask Fluke, he's an expert in this sort of stuff and he's of similar intellect to yourself. Bonus.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chico
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Ask Fluke, he's an expert in this sort of stuff and he's of similar intellect to yourself. Bonus.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chico
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Originally Posted by JPPR2
I don't think it matters who you marry and what background the spouse comes from divorce is divorce wherever you live, I've been in this relationship for 15yrs and made a couple of mistakes that I've regretted though have two beautiful kids whom I love and cherish and will do anything now to get them away from this dysfunctional arrangement I've had the last few years.
I haven't wanted to take the kids away from their mother, and have tried everything possible to make her see sense.
Over the weekend my son opened up to me about what goes on here, when I'm not here(which I've always guessed but he hasn't told me before because of the consequences that would follow.
I have a six yr old that will no doubt go through the same, once she disagrees with the mother.
Women are women wherever they come from whether they're educated or not, It's not Men hating women its men who don't wish to understand some and their madness.
Emotional blackmail doesn't go down well with me.
IMHO it does matter where you met, her back ground and her education. I have found here that it is far to easy to find and marry a beautiful gal with zero life experience and limited education. They only know so much and relationships are not an area where they will be able to bring much sanity and balance. Most that I know failed here were due to demographics and age gap which is why I asked.Quote:
Originally Posted by ChicoJPPR ThanksQuote:
Originally Posted by JPPR2
I don't think it matters who you marry and what background the spouse comes from divorce is divorce wherever you live, I've been in this relationship for 15yrs and made a couple of mistakes that I've regretted though have two beautiful kids whom I love and cherish and will do anything now to get them away from this dysfunctional arrangement I've had the last few years.
I haven't wanted to take the kids away from their mother, and have tried everything possible to make her see sense.
Over the weekend my son opened up to me about what goes on here, when I'm not here(which I've always guessed but he hasn't told me before because of the consequences that would follow.
I have a six yr old that will no doubt go through the same, once she disagrees with the mother.
Women are women wherever they come from whether they're educated or not, It's not Men hating women its men who don't wish to understand some and their madness.
Emotional blackmail doesn't go down well with me.
But to your point women are women anywhere in the world and like all relationships they take work and clearly a ton of patience (Especially here with the cultural differences and the Thai thought process on many things :) ). 15 years was a good run. I was married for 21 back in the states and have beautiful daughters who are now grown and on their own. My ex and I just became different people. Know one tells you that when you say "I do" in your mid 20's. Marriage vows are unrealistic.
To your other point, staying in a bad relationship is not healthy and only ends up being a mess and a spiteful/hateful exit and for some they can never let go and it eats them up. I know a few guys in the states that have been divorced 10 years and still regularly complain and blame their Ex...
Again good luck. Time to move on
One things for sure I blame myself in thinking things would change and yes your correct time to move on.
Well I got snipped at 40 because I was done. I got the permanent version. they have one that with some light surgery can be reversed. I wanted none of that. And funny as it goes, about 5 years into our marriage my wife started on about kids and I said NEXXXXXXT. Not going to happen. She asked who will we pass on the Land and house we have too? I said I do not care. I will be dead.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pragmatic
True that LOL,Quote:
Originally Posted by Pragmatic
But the key here is to take your time. So many land, the first gal they meet, they marry. Then they move to some rural area and wonder later how it all went so wrong...:).
Good try by JPRR, but if Chico were ever going to grasp your seemingly 'common sense' ground rules then surely he would have done so by now.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chico
Hang on...shit, Chico, post 127...have you actually learned how to quote a post and then respond to it?
Good luck Chico. Hope it all works out in the end for you and the children.
Reasoned, as Farang usually stand little chance in Thai courts in these types of matters. And then, it's all about someone benefiting. Thainess.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pragmatic
Aside all this, Chico seems so smugly confident that the Mother is gonna give up her children solely to him, while he whisk them back to the UK.
That ain't gonna happen, Chico - regardless of your fantasies.
Did you type that yourself? (Just asking. No offence meant :))Quote:
Originally Posted by Chico
Anyway, good luck with getting a divorce but it seems you need a new approach or you won't get one because you've been after a divorce for almost 2 years. I think you need to see a lawyer to find out if you can divorce your wife without her consent - or tell her you're shagging someone else and after the shit dies down, she might demand a divorce from you.
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So if I understand your son has told you your wife is shagging someone else when you're not there, that's grounds for divorce, you can even sue the bloke shagging your wife presuming you know who he is. Threat of court action for that and the shame it will bring might make her sign the divorce, flip side is she might have you killed.
Whatever you get it's not permanent. You still produce sperm from your testicles irrespective what procedure one has done. Instead of doing/attempting reversals they just extract the sperm from your testicles with a hypodermic needle and do the IVF route these days. We did ours in BKK.Quote:
Originally Posted by JPPR2
^ Jeez, that's a narrow minded assumption.
Mine was the mother beats the kids or is cruel in some way.
Well, he's recently posted that his family is 'fucked up', so presumably he was brought up in a family where adultery was a frequent occurrence.
Presumably, it was a triggering factor in his own criminal record for harassment of his first wife's divorce lawyer.
Anyway, this is all 'by the by', I suppose, but behavioural patterns such as this do tend to recur, so buriramboy's reading of the situation is understandable, to an extent.
Here's Jeff again with his usual nonsense.Quote:
Originally Posted by thaimemeReasoned, as Farang usually stand little chance in Thai courts in these types of matters. And then, it's all about someone benefiting. Thainess.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pragmatic
Aside all this, Chico seems so smugly confident that the Mother is gonna give up her children solely to him, while he whisk them back to the UK.
That ain't gonna happen, Chico - regardless of your fantasies.
Jeff how about some of your professional legal documents you've no doubt studied regarding Thai law regarding custody or are you just giving your normal bullshit spiel.
No doubt we won't be seeing you on this thread again.:chitown:
Christ you are one boring tedious cvnt. Presumably comes from being an old potless TEFLer with a life full of regret.Quote:
Originally Posted by cyrille
Pure nonsense, created from mythological proportion.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chico
Born of a patriarchal-misogynist introspection.
You, and others, will never be right if travelling down this same imaginary path.
Sad soul, as you have kindred brethren.
BB best to let him just keeping looking like the total prick he is,must be pretty sad being a tefler with nothing to show for his 60 odd years. we should start a crowd funding for him for his book shop.Quote:
Originally Posted by buriramboyChrist you are one boring tedious cvnt. Presumably comes from being an old potless TEFLer with a life full of regret.Quote:
Originally Posted by cyrille
Must be shit living in his BF's tin shack.:)
Hope this helps Chico?
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CHILD CUSTODY AGREED BY MUTUAL CONSENT
Thailand Child custody for married spouses
If the parents divorce in Thailand by mutual consent or the uncontested divorce, and the divorce has the child custody in Thailand involves the parents can enter into a divorce agreement concerning how the custody shall be shared between them. In addition, the agreement can also include the visitation of the child and the child support. However, in order for the agreement on the child custody to be valid, it has to be signed by two witnesses and registered with the district office at the time of registering the divorce.
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CHILD CUSTODY DECIDED BY THE COURT
Child custody in Thailandfor a married spouse
If divorce is granted by the court’s judgment or contested divorce, the judge in the divorce case will decide who should be granted the child custody; otherwise, the judge can appoint a third person as a guardian in place of parents if such order is for the happiness and interest of the child. Nevertheless, the judge can also, at the time of divorce or later, takes away the custody if a parent given the rights of custody is incompetent, misconduct, or has abused his or her parental power. Either a parent without custody or the public prosecutor on the child’s behalf can file a petition to change the custody at any time.
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Originally Posted by buriramboy
Jeez some of you guys have vivid imaginations, no one's mentioned she's shagging anyone and if she was I'd be happy for her.:)
Jeff still waiting for the scholar of law to provide me with the law relating to custody and why a farang won't get custody.:)
Or find her a BF, any takers.?:)Quote:
Originally Posted by NevernaDid you type that yourself? (Just asking. No offence meant :))Quote:
Originally Posted by Chico
Anyway, good luck with getting a divorce but it seems you need a new approach or you won't get one because you've been after a divorce for almost 2 years. I think you need to see a lawyer to find out if you can divorce your wife without her consent - or tell her you're shagging someone else and after the shit dies down, she might demand a divorce from you.
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Cold Pizza and Fluke spring to mind. :)
I doubt they'd be able to handle the drama.:)
What happened to Jeff
Jeff I'll help you along, when a child reaches 15 yrs old they have the right to choose which parent they wish to stay with.
So if could just help me along with my 6yr old daughter, as you're such a mind of information(or is that Bullshit) it must be a simple task for you.:chitown:
What should truly be disturbing is the illusion that Jacko considers the idea of his children being better off, in the long run, in his stead.
Oh dear.
Nothing but destruction.