Thread: What would you do?

Originally Posted by Nicethaiza

Most guys in TD re fat?...

Sorry for asking..cuz I heard a lot about fat...

Just awaiting the final weighing results now Za.
Will have a full breakdown with graphs, statistical analysis including DOB, geographical locations, sexual orientation.

Please confirm your preferred format.

Happy as always to be at your service.

Originally Posted by Nicethaiza

Most guys in TD re fat?...

Sorry for asking..cuz I heard a lot about fat...

No, we are all ... sorry ... some of us are slim and very handsome so we don't need a TV show to set up a date for us.

Originally Posted by DJ Pat

Well, he's got a fair point. The bloke's quite repulsive.

I actually thought the bearded guy was the ugliest of the two.

Originally Posted by DJ Pat

But it's not like he's gonna be looking at his face as he rides that mangina

Perhaps he prefers some face to face foreplay prior to a mount. <Shudder>

Originally Posted by David48atTD

To the OP ... first dates as movies or a meal ... a definite no no. Coffee/pub drink ... short time please

Word to the D, Yo.

Unless you are on a sure thing a first date should not involve a commitment of over 30 minutes.

Originally Posted by Nicethaiza

ost guys in TD re fat?...

Sorry for asking..cuz I heard a lot about fat...

I am often described as svelte. Smooth as a cloggers rasp me.

(Try translating that into Thai)

Originally Posted by Neverna

What would you do?

I'd just be honest and say, "I'm not feeling it."


Pretty sure it was my final blind date (in Korea).
We met online somehow. She was quite enigmatic about sharing her photo.
She sent a tiny little pic that I could barely make out.

I should've backed out then and there but she was very adamant about meeting
and asked multiple times if I lived alone.

The public spot was a subway station near to where I lived, so I thought, 'fugg it,'
let's see what she's about.

She arrives and is just plain hideous. I couldn't discount her body, though. She was short, tight, decent tits, slim and was basically a spinner. Probably around 22/23.

But that face! She was caked with acne and wore some honkin' bifocals with a short, tomboy cropped haircut.

fuggetaboutit.

I detoured us into a MdDs and offered to buy her lunch. While she attacked her burger set without ceremony only stopping to spit out, "are we going to your apartment after this?' I got on the phone and explained what was going on to a merkin friend whom I knew would fuck a gorilla if he could find a way to hold it down.

He readily agreed to 'take the poor little nympho in,' and I explained to her that I was (afterall) unavailable and that my friend would love to spend the afternoon with her. I let them chat on my phone a little and twenty minutes later, saw her to his door.

They pretty much did it all, including anal - but as time went by she became unable for him to manage. "Just too nympho," he said - which said a lot because he was legendary due to his liberal sexual proclivities.

At one point he was screwing the director, two teachers and several students [all nasty] at our humble, little language school. That, (of course) all came crashing down eventually when the director (who was married) let herself into his apartment one drunken night, after he hadn't answered her calls, and found him in the midst of an orgy with 3 paid hookers. She went on to discover ALL of his other antics. It was quite the witch hunt. She resigned, two teachers were fired and he was transferred to HQ. ha! Just never know...

Originally Posted by Looper

Unless you are on a sure thing a first date should not involve a commitment of over 30 minutes.

Or over $12.

Originally Posted by hick

I got on the phone and explained what was going on to a merkin friend whom I knew would fuck a gorilla if he could find a way to hold it down.

He readily agreed to 'take the poor little nympho in,' and I explained to her that I was (afterall) unavailable and that my friend would love to spend the afternoon with her.

That was nice of you.

Fuck, so Neverna is a poof with a penchant for fat, balding, chocolate-tubers?

Nevernew that.

Har,har.

Good one Seekingass ylum!

Howzabout a dinner-date at your cottage in Pebblecombe Regis?

Har har.

But to the point, would you be a gent and politely finish the meal and then say your good-byes? Or would you be an oik like the jock in the video?

I'm pretty sure I have met your avatar Nev. Looks alarmingly like my first ex. Shudder

^ It's a bloke, your ex?...Heh...Silly coont...

Originally Posted by tomcat

Tip: first dates in public restrooms help determine if second dates are advisable...

tc, are you still active on Grindr ?

Originally Posted by Neverna

But to the point, would you be a gent and politely finish the meal and then say your good-byes? Or would you be an oik like the jock in the video?

Just make some dumb excuse and leave. Sometimes the Thai way is the best way. Face matters to everybody. Not just Thais.

Originally Posted by Looper

Originally Posted by Neverna

But to the point, would you be a gent and politely finish the meal and then say your good-byes? Or would you be an oik like the jock in the video?

Just make some dumb excuse and leave. Sometimes the Thai way is the best way. Face matters to everybody. Not just Thais.

Yeah and so consider the other person's face. You lose none by being politely tolerant for the half hour or so, they lose some by being dishonourably dumped.
You missed the important words there in Nev's quote; "gent", and "oik".
And that's what it comes down to; Do you have manners and consideration for another's feelings or not. The jock cares only for himself and his steak.

Originally Posted by DJ Pat

tc, are you still active on Grindr ?

unfortunately, my account was banned for lascivious posting...

Assuming the date was with a woman, I would enjoy the rest of the meal. I am sure there would be some mutual topic for conversation and she would improve in proportion to the amount of wine consumed.

I can't think of a time when I thought a woman repulsive enough to leave the table.

Originally Posted by Troy

I can't think of a time when I thought a woman repulsive enough to leave the table.

How about the reverse?...

I did a runner from two dates a couple months back

Originally Posted by chassamui

I'm pretty sure I have met your avatar Nev. Looks alarmingly like my first ex. Shudder

She's a model. A stunner, from a certain angle.

Originally Posted by Troy

I can't think of a time when I thought a woman repulsive enough to leave the table in proportion to the amount of wine consumed.

FTFY

Originally Posted by DJ Pat

I did a runner from two dates a couple months back

The women or the bills?

The women who turned up looking nothing or weighing nothing like their profile pics.

A TD member even put me on ignore after reading it

Originally Posted by Neverna

She's a model. A stunner, from a certain angle.

Thanks for that Nev. It's entirely possible that some feeble halfwit might jump to the wrong conclusion.

Originally Posted by chassamui

Both quite repulsive creatures, physically and emotionally. Deliberately cast for comic effect I suspect. Epic fail.
I wouldn't share a public transport grab handle with either of them.

Who do you imagine would be the dolly, and who the butch?
Can you imagine the bald one on all fours with cheeks fully parted, being clawed, mawed, and generally excavated by that sullen leviathan behind him?

Originally Posted by CaptainNemo

being clawed, mawed, and generally excavated

*cough* the correct description is backing and filling...

Re: the OP - what accent was that??? I could hardly understand it. It's not the BBC or Harry Potter type of UK English. I could somehow understand the bald guy, but the fat one, my eyebrows were meeting as I struggled to listen to him.

But anyhoo, in reply to the original question re: bad dates, I would stick it out. Then make excuses (or tell the truth that it's not gonna work), after the date. To do a runner would be rude - no manners at all.

Caveat: if the date was in a cinema & he was groping me, then to heck with manners - I would leave. But then, in the first place, I wouldn't go to a cinema on a first date.

I agree with the others - for a first date, coffee/tea in a public place (e.g. mall) would be good.