Marrying a bar gal. Would you? Did you?

**DrAndy** · 05-01-2006, 12:46 PM

yep, but can you be sure she is a virgin!

I once had an exper...

**aging one** · 05-01-2006, 12:49 PM

Trust me on this one Andy, I know it for a fact, and had to put up with it for 16 months.

**DrAndy** · 05-01-2006, 12:55 PM

what, 16 months of her being a virgin!!

blimey AO you are a patient man

**machangezi** · 05-01-2006, 12:59 PM

Patience is a virtue.

**ChiangMai noon** · 05-01-2006, 01:03 PM

^ As is virginity.
Been maried 6 months now and still being denied.

**DrAndy** · 05-01-2006, 01:04 PM

thanks for that Macha

being profound obviously isn't.

**DrAndy** · 05-01-2006, 01:06 PM

OK CMN, it is now clear why you play golf

**aging one** · 05-01-2006, 01:14 PM

Patience is not really a strong enough word. We did have our share of fun as well though buddy.

**ChiangMai noon** · 05-01-2006, 01:15 PM

ahhhh, golf

**Goddess of Whatever** · 05-01-2006, 01:16 PM

Originally Posted by kenkannif

Yeah I'm with Marmers, SK and Dr A. I know of a few happy relationships.

Would a good girl marry someone that had visited a whore in the past is another question

I think old Stickman actually said (not sure if he was referring to p4p though) more Western based (or those that met in the West) Thai/farang relationships break down than Thai based ones.

It's what you make of it.

I'm not a good girl (I'm ok) but .. may I answer this question?

If I really fall for someone, I don't care about his past but sometimes the truth just hurts then I choose not to know about the past, better.

Just my two cents.

**aging one** · 05-01-2006, 01:28 PM

But you do know about his past, he has posted it all over the net for years.

Giggling I am.

**Marmite the Dog** · 05-01-2006, 01:48 PM

Originally Posted by aging one

But you do know about his past, he has posted it all over the net for years.

Giggling I am.

Come on then Pops, dish the dirt. I'm rather intrigued, myself.

**kenkannif** · 05-01-2006, 01:48 PM

Originally Posted by poolcleaner

Originally Posted by kenkannif

Yeah I'm with Marmers, SK and Dr A. I know of a few happy relationships.

Would a good girl marry someone that had visited a whore in the past is another question

I think old Stickman actually said (not sure if he was referring to p4p though) more Western based (or those that met in the West) Thai/farang relationships break down than Thai based ones.

It's what you make of it.

It would be nice if, when these threads appear, someone would actually provide some figures to back up their claims.
How would sticky know? And if he did know what about some proof?

Just what percentage of marriages between Thai/farang breakdown?
And then what percentage of the marriages are to a bargirl/whore/freelancer/escort girly/massage chick/gogo dancer?

IMHO, too many people have a view on this that is more than just an opinion!

Oh and for what it's worth........I don't believe in marriage! (except for the visa!)

Hard to do. Often anecdotal info is the best you can go on.

**danbo** · 06-01-2006, 03:37 AM

I probably would if I felt like it. Things like this always seem to bother others who it nothing to do with rather than the parties involved. If I did I wouldn't take her to the UK mind - I'm a very ugly man and she'd be bound to run off with someone else........Well perhaps I could get away with taking her to the Isle of Wight......I'm pretty much Brad Pitt there......

**Wally Dorian Raffles** · 06-01-2006, 03:54 AM

I once took an expensive cheese platter over to my cousin dave's place, only to have his dog piss on it...

I hope you have a lovely new year danbo, my friend

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**MeMock** · 06-01-2006, 05:11 AM

go to bed wally.

**poolcleaner** · 06-01-2006, 07:10 AM

Originally Posted by danbo

I probably would if I felt like it. Things like this always seem to bother others who it nothing to do with rather than the parties involved. If I did I wouldn't take her to the UK mind - I'm a very ugly man and she'd be bound to run off with someone else........Well perhaps I could get away with taking her to the Isle of Wight......I'm pretty much Brad Pitt there......

They prefer Katoeys there don't they?

**poolcleaner** · 06-01-2006, 07:11 AM

Originally Posted by Wally Dorian Raffles

I once took an expensive cheese platter over to my cousin dave's place, only to have his dog piss on it...

I hope you have a lovely new year danbo, my friend

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Posted bangkok time 03:54 am.................

Guess who's going to be crap in the classroom later today!

**MeMock** · 06-01-2006, 07:18 AM

Thats if he makes it. I'm only 1 hour ahead of Bkk time and I was already up as he was hopefully going to bed.

**poolcleaner** · 06-01-2006, 07:22 AM

Originally Posted by MeMock

Thats if he makes it. I'm only 1 hour ahead of Bkk time and I was already up as he was hopefully going to bed.

The good thing for Wally is he actually posts from his bed.

**ozman** · 06-01-2006, 07:24 AM

Of all the farang/Thai bg that I have seen, the ones that have brought the lady to Oz seem to be the one's that have lasted. Not sure the reason, but they all seem to be happy here. Then again there is no such thing as the perfect marriage.

**ChiangMai noon** · 06-01-2006, 07:48 AM

All doomed..eventually, may take 9 years but doomed from the outset.

**poolcleaner** · 06-01-2006, 07:52 AM

Originally Posted by ozman

Of all the farang/Thai bg that I have seen, the ones that have brought the lady to Oz seem to be the one's that have lasted. Not sure the reason, but they all seem to be happy here. Then again there is no such thing as the perfect marriage.

The last bits very true.

Of course the OP alludes that the problem lies with bargirls, who really aren't the kind of girl one should marry, and not at all with the farang husband but, and the lack of statistics makes this speculatory, who is to say that men who marry sex workers don't remain faithfull and therefore their loving devoted ex-bargirls have no choice but to leave them?

In fact in the light of the lack of statistcs I'll make up some of my own and proudly boast that...

34% of thai farang marriages, where the girl sold her body, ended in divorce because of the girls infidelity.

46% of thai farang mariages, where the farang was a whore bar regular, ended in divorce because of his continued bar visits.

92% of thai farang marriages, where the farang was an old german, remained happily married in Pattaya.

There you are folks now we have undeniable stats on thai farang unions!

**Whiteshiva** · 06-01-2006, 08:53 AM

Originally Posted by DrAndy

I got to disagree with you on this CMN. You are lumping all bargirls into the one category, and, of course, all sorts of girls become bargirls.

I beg to differ - I'd say many sorts of women (or girls) become bargirls, but looking at the women I know here in LOS, most of them would rather starve than work in a bar - and yes, many of them are from Isan!

Originally Posted by poolcleaner

Of course the OP alludes that the problem lies with bargirls, who really aren't the kind of girl one should marry, and not at all with the farang husband but, and the lack of statistics makes this speculatory, who is to say that men who marry sex workers don't remain faithfull and therefore their loving devoted ex-bargirls have no choice but to leave them?

I think you have hit the nail on the head there Poolie. I have seen several marriages (between farang & bg) go sour because the man seemed to think that he could carry on as before. Sometimes believing she wouldn't find out (yeah, right!).

Then again, I have seen some marriages between farang & bg that have lasted (happily) for years. So never say never, but it is the kind of odds that I personally wouldn't have wanted to bet on. And it is not the type of game a newbie should play.

WS

**DrAndy** · 06-01-2006, 09:03 AM

Originally Posted by Whiteshiva

I beg to differ - I'd say many sorts of women (or girls) become bargirls, but looking at the women I know here in LOS, most of them would rather starve than work in a bar - and yes, many of them are from Isan!
WS

Once again, you are missing my point. I said all sorts become bargirls, but all bargirls are not sex workers. My housemate works in a bar, but she is not for sale.

The two are not synonymous.

As for starving, that is one of the reasons many did start that work. Maybe the women you know have some sort of education and can choose a better job?

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