Every girl in Asia, EH?Originally Posted by Nicethaiza
Every girl in Asia, EH?Originally Posted by Nicethaiza
Many of the Japanese girls are doing okay.
According to xhamster.com at least.
Have poll and ask thai girls for make sure hahaOriginally Posted by Warrior
isn't that why men have wife in the first place ?Originally Posted by Luigi
wife = maid + sex
^^^ Good for 20 seconds twice a day, any way.
20 second..very fast...
she has to pay...so that she can return in good standing.Originally Posted by Thai3
She just sent me the photos of the family home up north. I think 5 baht a year will keep that place going.
I think that her bar does a a 10 grand hold on the girls - heard it from others in the bar.
Shes not long started work there, poor English etc.
Yes, I agree its silly to expect her, or any of them the be happy in the UK for years on time. We agreed she could go home to see family, every 3 months.
to have a fling with someone like that in thailand is one thing. you can always walk away.
taking her back home?...facepalm. what a mess.
Dude you are taking me back 25+years.... Go for it. Only 10,000 pounds a year to fly her home 4 times a year and give her a little spending money to "take care of mom and dad".Originally Posted by Hensen
And buy the beer of the Thai guy that will be filling in, literally, for you.Originally Posted by aging one
Female=$$$$$$$$$$$$ you mean.
Henson ... assmuing you are on the level and most likely a generation older then me ... we can have a Father Son chat.
First off ... great that you've had some the best sex of your live in Pattaya.
I actually like Pattaya ... I don't see it as the cess-pit that many ascribe it as.
But, that doesn't mean I could live there ... but I still enjoy the buzz of visiting.
About taking your squeeze back to the UK ... the obstacles you have to overcome will be substantial.
Forget the BHT 5,000 a week question ... that's just a mere speck of dust.
So, in no particular order ...VISA, VISA, VISA, VISA ... it's not as easy as you might think..
Food ... never underestimate the importance of Thai Food for a Thai.
Don't think what gets served in a UK Thai Restaurant is what she wants ... particularly if she is from Isaan.
Ever eaten Chicken Feet?
Spicy Green Papaya Salad with stinky rotting crab?
Cultural Compatibility
Interpersonal Compatibility
Genuine Friendship
You can take the Girl of Thailand ... but you can't take the Thainess out of the Girl. Do you understand 'Thainess'?
You can take the Girl of the Bar ... but only sometimes can you take the Bar out of the Girl.
The list goes on, and on and ...
I've done it successfully. My Thai Lassie (not a Bar Girl) and I have been together 5+ years.
We have children together and she lives in the West with me.
It's works for us ... but then again, I lived here, on and off for many years.
I've had the opportunity to observe Thainess at different levels.
At the Farm where I am now in Central Thailand, I live with my partners Mother, Father, her siblings, their 4 children, their various partners, her retarded cousin, 3 cats and two dogs ... all in the same house.
There used to 3 dogs but a neighbouring dog pack came by and killed one of them. Oh, while we are the subject of dogs, there used to be a brother and sister dog, neither was de-sexed, and, yes, they had a litter of puppies ... didn't worry the farm at all ...
Thirty metres away, her Aunt and bf (15 years younger then the Aunt and brother to my partners's sibling's bf), Aunts grandchildren who are currently in the FarmHouse as sucking up my WiFi, the ageing Grandmother and, within a few hundred metres another 5 Aunts and Uncles and their various partners (except the one in Jail for low level drug dealing) and their children.
I see Thainess at most levels on a daily basis.
My Advice:- Have your fun NOW, but walk away.
Keep in contact.
Came back for another holiday next year.
If you have to ... BHT 10,000 a month is heaps, unless the car is on HP. Is the car older then 5 years?
Re the Bar Fine ... BHT 10,000 owed to the Bar is most likely bullshit unless she's under 20 and fresh from the Farm and the Mumasun paid the fee to her parents.
I'd guess that your lady is on the wrong side of 30, maybe the wrong side of 35 and there is close to a zero chance that she was paid a retainer/deposit to work the Bar.
How most bars usually work is ...
The Lady comes of her own accord, there is no sign on fee.
She gets paid circa BHT 8,000 - 12,000 a month as a basic salary.
Her bar fine gets paid to the bar, she doesn't get to see any of it.
She also would have a quota of 'Lady Drinks' which must be bought for her each month. Somewhere 30 - 50 I've heard.
The above working conditions are a general guide and not applicable to all Bars.
The Coyote girls, the hot dancers, might be on better packages. I know the ones in Bangkok are. They usually rotate through the night doing different shifts at Bars owned by the same owner.
Meet her Family, make some photos together, then, after a few months apply for a the UK equivalent of a Tourist Visa for her.
IMHO
Pretty big clue dave.Originally Posted by David48atTD
Very sound advice David48. You should write a book which could be mandatory reading for all males before visiting Thailand. It would save huge amounts of money and heartache, not to mention some balcony swan dives.
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