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    Quote Originally Posted by CSFFan View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by thaimeme
    Apparently, most of the ignorant fucks seem to be dead set on absolutes without the ease of alternative thoughts.
    seemingly from a married ignorant fuck who went through the sinsod ordeal himself....

    Missing the bigger [even a basic] picture - translates as: haven't a clue.

    What passes for intelligent rationale is quite vacant.
    To be expected.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicethaiza View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Dilllinger Sinsot View Post

    i didnt pay any Sinsot, Za, so you are wrong
    show me your pics from wedding heeh

    Dil?

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    I would not tell him, I like when stupid people get cheated, this is just what they deserve !

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    Paid no sin sod but fuck knows how much they have had since the wedding

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicethaiza
    Have to pay sin sod if want to marry...so the guy from where?
    Bullshit

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    When I married my wife, who had been married before with a kid, I paid 300k and some gold as sin sod.
    The outlaws took out the price of the Thai wedding (about 60k) and returned the rest and the wife had some shit looking gold.
    Everybody happy.

    Although she does get fucked off when I forget to go home for a day/night, and also when i phone her at 3 am asking for a lift home, as i just discovered. Fukking trollied
    I would post pictures but life's too short.

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    My personal experience is that a 'sin sot' is not required, not should be asked for.

    But some sort of ceremony is appropriate. The term, in English, I believe is pronounced a 'smaar'.

    In Thai ... สมา

    Translates a 'Samaritans'

    Maybe Nicethaiza knows this term?


    The one I had experience with, between two Thais was 1 Baht gold, pigs head and bowls of fruit. There might have been some cash ... can't remember.

    The woman had never been technically married but 2 kids and he was a motorcycle taxi rider.

    We are Central Thailand and there maybe regional variances.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slick View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Nicethaiza
    Have to pay sin sod if want to marry...so the guy from where?
    Bullshit
    If you not believe...up to you lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Luigi View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Nicethaiza View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Dilllinger Sinsot View Post

    i didnt pay any Sinsot, Za, so you are wrong
    show me your pics from wedding heeh

    Dil?

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    Yes dill pics

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    Quote Originally Posted by David48atTD
    We are Central Thailand and there maybe regional variances.
    If the families/groom have fok all, nothing is paid, specially when she has kids, got nought to do with region.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chico View Post
    Met a guy recently that is asking questions about sin sod, I'm in two minds whether to tell him because his bride to be has been married before and has two kids to her ex, that he shouldn't pay.

    Seems the parents are asking for 300,000 baht.

    He hasn't mentioned if anything comes back to him though I seriously doubt it.

    Not met the woman so don't know anything about her.

    Would you tell him its a rip.?
    Rip for sure.

    Previously married with two kids.

    Who would want in-laws like this?

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    Ordeal nah got all mine back and paid off the parents debts and got all the land.

    Pretty shrewd move I thought.

    How about you.?

    Quote Originally Posted by CSFFan View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by thaimeme
    Apparently, most of the ignorant fucks seem to be dead set on absolutes without the ease of alternative thoughts.
    seemingly from a married ignorant fuck who went through the sinsod ordeal himself....

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    it's still a big deal with most Thai families, I forked out 200k, got 100 back and most of the rest went on the wedding, I think they made a bit out of it but they never got anything since. It makes me smile when Johnny foreigner boasts he paid nowt on forums, when you know they married a whore from Pattaya or Bkk who had a few thousand through her, and left her with at least one kid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stroller View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by David48atTD
    We are Central Thailand and there maybe regional variances.
    If the families/groom have fok all, nothing is paid, specially when she has kids, got nought to do with region.
    I believe every negotiation is different, though there are some identifiable trends.

    My experience is different to yours as this was between two Thais, one of those is a future SiL.

    He's a Motorcycle taxi guy, lives at home with his parents (whose house I assume is theirs) so not brimming with cash.

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    In the "West," apparently "sin sod" is paid "big time" after the marriage is over...

    Your "mileage" will vary...

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    Jeff I can only presume you prefer same sex arrangements so did you pay for the Katoey.?

    Quote Originally Posted by thaimeme View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by CSFFan View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by thaimeme
    Apparently, most of the ignorant fucks seem to be dead set on absolutes without the ease of alternative thoughts.
    seemingly from a married ignorant fuck who went through the sinsod ordeal himself....

    Missing the bigger [even a basic] picture - translates as: haven't a clue.

    What passes for intelligent rationale is quite vacant.
    To be expected.



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    My thai friend have to lived with her husband for 5 years ...then get married

    after...the guy pay sin sod around 60,000 baht and 1 baht gold and they together

    only 3 month after married then get divorce ...she told me money for sin sod they have to borrow

    from someone else...

    In thai many couple find sin sod together bofore marry not always guys have to

    pay...the parent say if want to marry just help each other to find the

    money...I mean the couple

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    My mate - who speaks Thai well, more or less told them to piss off. He's been with his GF for a few years who both work and can fend for themsleves. Early on they made it clear, but during a family meeting the ML to be asked for gold. He told them where to go and fortunately has a fiance who sticks by him. It was only the mother who was raging. The FL apparently stood by the decision.

    I didn't pay. The FL thanked me during his wedding speech for building him a new shithouse!
    You bullied, you laughed, you lied, you lost!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thai3 View Post
    it's still a big deal with most Thai families, I forked out 200k, got 100 back and most of the rest went on the wedding, I think they made a bit out of it but they never got anything since. It makes me smile when Johnny foreigner boasts he paid nowt on forums, when you know they married a whore from Pattaya or Bkk who had a few thousand through her, and left her with at least one kid.
    There are plenty of women from families who wouldn't dream of asking for sinsot but the prospective wife doesn't come from that sort of background or anything like it.

    It 'makes me laugh' that some foreigners use such perverse 'logic' as yours to boast on forums that they bought their wives.

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    Ah, well...As long as you're happy...Nothing wrong with marrying a "whore," too...

    They are people, too, don't you know?...

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    true 100%

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    Quote Originally Posted by cyrille View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Thai3 View Post
    it's still a big deal with most Thai families, I forked out 200k, got 100 back and most of the rest went on the wedding, I think they made a bit out of it but they never got anything since. It makes me smile when Johnny foreigner boasts he paid nowt on forums, when you know they married a whore from Pattaya or Bkk who had a few thousand through her, and left her with at least one kid.
    There are plenty of women from families who wouldn't dream of asking for sinsot but the prospective wife doesn't come from that sort of background or anything like it.

    It 'makes me laugh' that some foreigners use such perverse 'logic' as yours to boast on forums that they bought their wives.

    Yours,
    JF.
    Do you actually live in Thailand Cyrille?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BaitongBoy View Post
    Ah, well...As long as you're happy...Nothing wrong with marrying a "whore," too...

    They are people, too, don't you know?...
    Nothing wrong with it, but paying sin sot for a whore is laughable, in terms of Thai culture. If you do marry a slapper the odds are even worse than normal for it working out, although we all know people like this who have been married for decades. Maybe we should have a did you marry a whore thread?

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    Maybe the whores should start a "Did you marry an asshole thread?"...

    555...

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    Most of them did. The types dumb enough to marry prostitutes normally carry one with them after they get 'married'

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