Thread: What does one do..

Thanks for the info. I'll let sleeping dogs lie for the moment.

He was my friend in real life, not just through the fora. I just wanted to put the RIP under his thingy. Out of respect, as has been done before.

Originally Posted by patsycat

Thanks for the info. I'll let sleeping dogs lie for the moment.

He was my friend in real life, not just through the fora. I just wanted to put the RIP under his thingy. Out of respect, as has been done before.

Then you need to let the mods know FFS.
Who was it (Username) and how did he die?

He died, he was cremated today and is now on his way home with his family.

Cujo, i shall let the mods know, thanks.

Patsy, find a post your friend has here and report it with comment "he has passed away. Please change av to RIP".

This is fastest way to have admin make the change.

Originally Posted by patsycat

He died, he was cremated today and is now on his way home with his family.

Cujo, i shall let the mods know, thanks.

Really, what's the big secret? Why can't you inform the members like anyone else would?

OK, he died at the age of 55 of complete organ failure due to alcohol abuse. His family travelled to be with him in his last days. And took his ashes home. Happy?

No member name, because it was only a week ago and his family may know his username here and look it up. Out of respect for them, i am not telling you it.

Up to you but I doubt his family even knows of the existence of TD let alone his user name.

For Christ's sake if his family knows TD and knows his nic how is telling US his nic compromising anything?
And unless he's been an active and recent poster no ones going to see his login with the RIP so I guess it's to remain a secret so this thread is all about nothing. Well, someone died but I'm not telling you who.
WTF?

I don't understand the dilemma.

If he is dead you can tell us which TD member it is and put RIP under his name without revealing his real life identity.

His family either know his TD identity or they don't. Either way anonymously revealing which TD member has died without revealing any more details would not affect this.


The thing I find odd is when a member dies and then this becomes a cue for his real life identity and photos to be revealed.

If he wanted to be anonymous on the forum in life then he probably wanted to remain anonymous in death.

People on TD would be mouring the loss of the TD identity anyway so they don't need to know his real identity.

Originally Posted by Looper

I don't understand the dilemma.

If he is dead you can tell us which TD member it is and put RIP under his name without revealing his real life identity.

His family either know his TD identity or they don't. Either way anonymously revealing which TD member has died without revealing any more details would not affect this.

Exactly.

Patsy sure being a drama queen over this.

Steveun

Now sod off Coojy woojy, you twat.

Originally Posted by patsycat

Steveun

Patsy Darling,

You simply need to learn to not feed retards like Cujo.

It makes him feel the big man baiting you.

Have a nice drink Pats.

Originally Posted by patsycat

Steveun

I hope TD can continue despite this loss.

RIP Steveun

Originally Posted by Iceman123

Originally Posted by patsycat

Steveun

I hope TD can continue despite this loss.

RIP Steveun

43 posts in 9 years. Think the board will stagger along for a while.

Still looks like patsy got her wish:

TeakDoor.com - The Thailand Forum - View Profile: steveun

(and it shows on the posts)

Originally Posted by patsycat

Perhaps this thread can be closed now?

Don't think we do that here darling.

Originally Posted by patsycat

Thanks. I did write a nice, polite note to the admin.

Perhaps this thread can be closed now?

Unless Cujo wants to know the guy's full life story??!! It's a cracker!!

Born 29.12.1960 died 13.03.2016. Cremated on St Paddy's day in Pattaya. Taken home to England by his little sister. Who was with him when he died.

I don't know if any of you have felt it - but the sadness deep inside, like a rock on your insides when something like this happens. Is fuckin' horrible.

You must have been very close to him, I'm sorry for your loss.

So, Cujo, why did you red me on this thread? Not that i give a shit about greens and reds and have never done?

I was close to him, and that is all that counts to me.

That's going a bit low to red someone who asks questions about a member here who has died?

I don't want any animosity - but that goes really under the belt.

Silly that a simple question becomes a whole shitefest.

Anyway, RIP (thanks mods) Stevie xxx

Originally Posted by patsycat

So, Cujo, why did you red me on this thread? Not that i give a shit about greens and reds and have never done?

OK then.

Cos Kuto's a Kunt!
No one likes you Kunto, why not fukk off to another forum like a nice little kunt?

Originally Posted by Kurgen

Cos Kuto's a Kunt!
No one likes you Kunto, why not fukk off to another forum like a nice little kunt?

Grow up will you.
It's your immaturity that causes you to post all that entirely irrelevant and boring shit you do.

No, really. Why did you RED me for this thread?

Give me an answer, If it had been a friend of yours you may have asked the same questions.