Thread: Falang victims of Thai thuggery.

Never believe Thai history. They make it up as they go along.

Originally Posted by Pragmatic

Never believe Thai history. They make it up as they go along.

Yep. True....

But nearly all historiography is invented/fabricated on a whim for convenience.

When pointing a finger, one will have four directed back at themselves.

Originally Posted by NZdick1983

Farang guys stay in abusive relationships and put up with shit, that
normally (on home soil) the'd never stand for, simply because the chick holds all
the cards (house, car in her name)...

This is the exact reason why I would never ever build a house on the teraks land in Thailand.

White boy has just lost all the Power in the relationship once he spends his hard earned on the House.

The terak can fuck him off down the road whenever she decides its time for him to go, the white boy is in a precarious position at this point.

Always trying to keep the terak happy for fear of being arsed out.

A massive fuk that for joke.

But Ive got a usufruct.

^Some guys put their faith (and life savings) in the the good nature of Thai women. (more fool them ey?)...

Doesn't mean I think they should be penalized for their naivety. I guess it's not just
Thai women that will milk the vulnerable (as you blokes with ex Farang wives can attest)

Thais view weakness as stupidity. That's why they think we are stupid when we get
ripped off by them. It's all fair game in their eyes, if they can use their charms and sexuality to extract your money, they reckon it's fair play.

To my mind, I endeavor to build my own savings/business using my own mind (feeble as it may be) I'd rather be poor than steal from anyone.

“We are free to choose our paths, but we can't choose the consequences that come with them.”
― Sean Covey

"I'm just a buffalo soldier in the heart of america,
Stolen from africa, brought to america,
Said he was fighting on arrival, fighting for survival;
Said he was a buffalo soldier win the war for america.

Dreadie, woy yoy yoy, woy yoy-yoy yoy,
Woy yoy yoy yoy, yoy yoy-yoy yoy!"

- Bob Marley...

Originally Posted by Koojo

Originally Posted by terry57

Originally Posted by NZdick1983

Farang guys stay in abusive relationships and put up with shit, that
normally (on home soil) the'd never stand for, simply because the chick holds all
the cards (house, car in her name)...

This is the exact reason why I would never ever build a house on the teraks land in Thailand.

White boy has just lost all the Power in the relationship once he spends his hard earned on the House.

The terak can fuck him off down the road whenever she decides its time for him to go, the white boy is in a precarious position at this point.

Always trying to keep the terak happy for fear of being arsed out.

A massive fuk that for joke.

But that's how you lived your life in Aus as well Terry.
In fear of being fucked over by a woman, that's why you never married.
(I forget the thread)

Being fleeced by a woman is not just a Thai thing. Many on this site were taken advantage of in previous marriages or relationships. Sad to say, I am one of those poor soles. To have a female take away everything a man has is a natural danger of the world. Each country has it subtle differences and techniques, but the outcome is the same.

Knowing these techniques in any country you may call home will dramatically reduce the odds of one falling victim to abuse, both financial and emotional.

Originally Posted by Koojo

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But that's how you lived your life in Aus as well Terry.
In fear of being fucked over by a woman, that's why you never married.

Koojo,

Your problem is that you read a post and you then think you know everything about that poster or the posters motives.

Relax mate, don't think to hard , your small brain hurts you too much.

Look Koojo, Just to make things a tad easier for you and save you the angst I'll clear up the Issue for you.

Yes, its true I've never married and never will more than likely, its not my go, simply never wanted to and find it quite silly really. Plenty of others out there who marry but not for me.

Fair enough that innit. My life my choices.

I've been in a few long term relationships, a few shorter ones, shared houses with women and had some blinding times but all things come to an end and we parted amicably.

Normal sort of shit except I did not lose most of my assets like many other dumb conts.

Because I picked my women well they all had good jobs, their own Superannuation and life.

When the time come to part we just split all our shit strait down the middle and rode off into the sunset.

Had to sell houses mind you but that was no problem as the houses were half theirs and we both made money. Some real good money in some cases.

So the fear of being fuked over by a woman has never entered into my mind, I have never placed my self in the situation for this to happen and never will.

I reckon you are one of those sad conts who are in the situation where you will lose shit loads when your bint bolts.

At the end of the day your marriage is only a peace of paper. Ask all the fukers who are divorced.

Silly cont koojo, now get back to Tefling. Sounds like to me you will need that extra money to pay off the Mrs.

Originally Posted by rickschoppers

To have a female take away everything a man has is a natural danger of the world. Each country has it subtle differences and techniques, but the outcome is the same.

Knowing these techniques in any country you may call home will dramatically reduce the odds of one falling victim to abuse, both financial and emotional.

There is only three way's to approach the situation of setting up house with a Thai woman, any person with half a brain will realize it.

One either buys a Condo in his name and lets her move in if he wants.

In this case what ever happens its his Condo and she is out on her arse if it goes tits up.

The other way is, you put your hard earned into a house on her land which in the case of a relationship breakdown its all hers. Usufruct, my arse.

The other way is. just friggin rent a house and not worry about shit.

You my friend have it dialed in because you have invested what you can afford to lose and you accept the rules of the game.

I wish you all the best with your house, its friggin brilliant.

Cheers.

Originally Posted by BaitongBoy

“We are free to choose our paths, but we can't choose the consequences that come with them.”
― Sean Covey

That's a pile of shit that quote, the guy who penned that crap is a tool.

Bad consequences are the result of poor or emotional decision making, if one takes the correct path and makes good choices there are no bad consequences.

A little example might be when the emotional fool marries a bar girl and buys her a house up in shitsville against the guy who chooses a woman who is his equal and lets her move into his condo.

But only part time.

Originally Posted by peterpan

Never had any incidents with Thais, only one with a couple of English lager yobs, who were threatening to bottle me,

I thought you had accepted Marmite and my apology graciously and you wasn't gonna mention it again

Originally Posted by terry57

Originally Posted by BaitongBoy

“We are free to choose our paths, but we can't choose the consequences that come with them.”
― Sean Covey

That's a pile of shit that quote, the guy who penned that crap is a tool.

Bad consequences are the result of poor or emotional decision making, if one takes the correct path and makes good choices there are no bad consequences.

A little example might be when the emotional fool marries a bar girl and buys her a house up in shitsville against the guy who chooses a woman who is his equal and lets her move into his condo.

But only part time.

Why do people assume every quote uttered is deep and meaningful and not just utter tripe?
I agree with Terry here, what crap. You can't choose the consequences but you should, if you're not a complete fuckwit, generally be able to anticipate them.
I always say the (Mainland) Chinese are hopeless at seeing into the future, that is, anticipate the results of an action or decision beyond the immediate.
Bloody annoying and frustrating that is. Same as they can't walk or ride a bike without meandering all over the footpath or road.
I realize I'm generalizing here, but as is usually the case when I generalize, I don't care.

Originally Posted by terry57

be nice if some of those sad conts went home.
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Done my bit Tel ,, I,m in England

Originally Posted by Koojo

You can't choose the consequences but you should, if you're not a complete fuckwit, generally be able to anticipate them.

Unfortunately people genuinely believe it'll never happen to them. And even when it does they live in denial. I've first hand experience in this when I've told others that their teelak has been messing with a Thai guy, or goes back to Pattaya, whilst they're away. The teelak will just deny it and the farang desperately want to believe her, over me, so does.

I've now given up on being an informer but it doesn't matter anyway, as the locals now avoid letting their boyfriends near me. As someone wrote on here:- There is a saying in Thai that captures it well: "farang roo mark mai dee" - foreigners who know too much are no good.

Originally Posted by BaitongBoy

"Dreadie, woy yoy yoy, woy yoy-yoy yoy,
Woy yoy yoy yoy, yoy yoy-yoy yoy!"

- Bob Marley...

Seems a bit wiser than Mr. Covey.

Originally Posted by terry57

Originally Posted by rickschoppers

To have a female take away everything a man has is a natural danger of the world. Each country has it subtle differences and techniques, but the outcome is the same.

Knowing these techniques in any country you may call home will dramatically reduce the odds of one falling victim to abuse, both financial and emotional.

There is only three way's to approach the situation of setting up house with a Thai woman, any person with half a brain will realize it.

One either buys a Condo in his name and lets her move in if he wants.

In this case what ever happens its his Condo and she is out on her arse if it goes tits up.

The other way is, you put your hard earned into a house on her land which in the case of a relationship breakdown its all hers. Usufruct, my arse.

The other way is. just friggin rent a house and not worry about shit.

You my friend have it dialed in because you have invested what you can afford to lose and you accept the rules of the game.

I wish you all the best with your house, its friggin brilliant.

Cheers.

Terry,

You may want to rephrase that to read there are only three safe approaches, and that would probably still not be quite right. There really is no approach without possible poor outcomes. It is buyer beware in every approach.

^^^Choppers - Never invest what you can't afford to lose is a good adage as you mentioned earlier.

Life is never perfect.
Sometimes the timing is just poor - ie: financial markets , investments, health issues, family...sh*t happens...sometimes for reason.

Hindsight is 20/20. Sometimes learning the lesson a second time isn't so bad...if one can truly afford it ;-))

Question for Terry: who are you going to put in your Last Will & Testament...nieces and nephews, ASPCA ?

Originally Posted by 9999

Either my Mrs is on the square, or she's a very very good player, playing a long long game. In that case I'd just say well played, touche, respect....

Nice reply 9999. For me its nine years and 3 kids later and I still look over my shoulder. In someways I shouldn't, but it's now become routine. Can anyone switch off?

Falang victims of Thai buggery...

Seems to me rather than peoples Thai wives/girlfriends screwing them over, I'm reading about a bunch of tight fisted evil farang cvnts who would like to screw over and see their Thai partner end up with nothing in the event of a break up.

Originally Posted by nigelandjan

Originally Posted by terry57

be nice if some of those sad conts went home.
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Done my bit Tel ,, I,m in England

You're OK mate, you can come back.

I was referring to the other miserable pommy coonts, not you.

Originally Posted by Pragmatic

Originally Posted by 9999

Either my Mrs is on the square, or she's a very very good player, playing a long long game. In that case I'd just say well played, touche, respect....

Nice reply 9999. For me its nine years and 3 kids later and I still look over my shoulder. In someways I shouldn't, but it's now become routine. Can anyone switch off?

With many of the horror stories that go around, I am not sure you can (sad as it is to type that).

Toby Charnaud, Raymond Hyde, Ian Beetson, Stephen Phillips, Dale Henry, Oswald Duvel....

RIP lads.

You only hear about the horror stories because they are 'news', you don't hear about the tens of thousands of foreigners married to Thais living in Thailand or abroad who are happy in normal relationships as it isn't 'news'.

Originally Posted by PeeCoffee

Question for Terry: who are you going to put in your Last Will & Testament...nieces and nephews, ASPCA ?

Good question that one.

I used to change it every 12 months depending on how I felt at the time, add more money to some, take some away from others or just delete them if I felt like they deserved nothing.

It was free to do that but now its $ 300 to alter a will so I aint changed it in 4 years.

So my lady cousin in Perth gets a nice big wedge, my lady friend in Victoria get's a wedge, my lady friend in South Africa gets a wedge, the dogs home gets a wedge the cancer council gets a wedge and a mate of mine gets a wedge.

Nieces and nephews will clean up when my cousin kicks off, that's if I don't just tear the Will up in the mean time which I may just do. Quite capable of anything these days.

In the event I was run over by a truck and killed the above is most probably how it would play out but in the event I was dying of cancer or some other issue I would be dispersing 100 K wedges to some people I know over here plus giving a shit load to Thai charities.

I think the longer I stay here the more likely It will be that I will be sending cash advances this way. I want my money to go to people who will use it in a responsible manner.

My cousin in Perth is well worthy of a good wedge, she will party like fuk with it and blow the rest on traveling. She has my full respect.

What about you , have any coin to unload ?