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    Will i be seen as a Peadophile

    Seen as many Farang come here, for either the sex tourism or a younger wife, and most get stereotyped.

    When My daughter reaches say 10 to 14 yrs old am i likely to be seen as a peado.?

    Anyone experienced this.?

    I must admit i have looked at guys walking around with younger girls and thought the same myself.

    So when she reaches 16 to 18 yrs will i be seen as a dirty old Bstard.

    I may have to get a T-shirt made stating she's my Daughter in both Thai and English

    Edited as willy posted.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yasojack
    My daughter reaches say 16 or 18 yrs old
    No.

    Pedophilia or paedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children, generally age 11 years or younger.

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    very true Willy i should of Posted a dirty old bastard.

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    You will know she is your daughter and so will she. What strangers think is generally irrelevant.
    That being said I don't think I ever walked around with my daughter holding hands.

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    I walk around holding hands with my son (10) all the time.

    It's what Dads do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alwarner View Post
    I walk around holding hands with my son (10) all the time.
    It's what Dads do.
    Damn right, alwarner.

    Chill Yaso - only the farangs who are sex tourists think like that.

    Anyone with half a wit can see the parental-bond when you're with one another.
    It's how you act as a parent that guides you...not what others construe. (IMO)

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    ^^Indeed. Thai dads do the same.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PeeCoffee
    It's how you act as a parent that guides you...not what others construe
    That's why he is concerned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yasojack
    Will i be seen as a Peadophile
    No, just a bad speller. Pedophile.

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    I walk around with my 15 year old twins all the time...never get a second glance.

    But, we look like a normal family, and don't live in a sleazy area populated by scum foreigners.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pragmatic View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Yasojack
    Will i be seen as a Peadophile
    No, just a bad speller. Pedophile.
    Paedophile is the correct spelling. You are trying to make him spell it in the abortion of a language "american English".

    Anyway, its the same thoughts that old men with young wives have "what if people think she is a whore" syndrome.Thinking that will change the way you act with your children /wife, which they translate as not loving them, thus causing problems,.

    Grow a pair. No one else matters.
    Last edited by pseudolus; 25-10-2014 at 11:24 AM.
    Originally Posted by bsnub "No wonder I drive a tesla"

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    Anyone who knows are family see how we act towards each other in public, many Thais look on us and see the bond we have, and comment how happy the children are.

    not looking for advice as such, just wanting to see if any parents have had negative reactions in Thailand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pseudolus
    Paedolphile is the correct spelling.
    A sexual attraction to flipper?


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    just the same old Anal shit from dogmatic i mean pragmatic.

    Quote Originally Posted by pseudolus View Post
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yasojack
    Will i be seen as a Peadophile
    No, just a bad speller. Pedophile.
    Paedolphile is the correct spelling. You are trying to make him spell it in the abortion of a language "american English".

    Anyway, its the same thoughts that old men with young wives have "what if people think she is a whore" syndrome.Thinking that will change the way you act with your children /wife, which they translate as not loving them, thus causing problems,.

    Grow a pair. No one else matters.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cyrille View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by pseudolus
    Paedophile is the correct spelling.
    A sexual attraction to flipper?

    Young flippers.

    lol bugger.

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    As someone who lives 'in a sleazy area populated by scum foreigners' I do sometimes get a bit worried about what people think when I'm walking about with my 13 year old Thai step daughter.

    That being said I also take a good look at others doing the same. It's better to keep your eyes open than bury your head in the sand.
    I would post pictures but life's too short.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pseudolus View Post
    Grow a pair. No one else matters.
    Yep, totally agree.

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    It's a sick mindset and nobody else's business if your wife/partner is younger than you. Its how you interact with each other as parent and child for the OP's question. Years back a German friend got it all the time when he was out with his two teenage sons, I found it baffling that farangs just assumed he was some deprived deviant.

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    There's a thai guy in our village that got locked away for two years for having sex with one of his three step daughters, he's out now.

    Lives in the same home as the other two step daughters, the other girl got taken into care, beggars belief.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fohk View Post
    It's a sick mindset and nobody else's business if your wife/partner is younger than you. Its how you interact with each other as parent and child for the OP's question. Years back a German friend got it all the time when he was out with his two teenage sons, I found it baffling that farangs just assumed he was some deprived deviant.
    How do you know what they assumed?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yasojack
    There's a thai guy in our village that got locked away for two years for having sex with one of his three step daughters, he's out now. Lives in the same home as the other two step daughters, the other girl got taken into care, beggars belief.
    Very common occurrence with Thai stepfathers. Wife won't say zilch due to her not wanting to live without a man.

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    Thats the thing, she's in jail for selling the kids to farang in BKK.

    He got custody of them, for some unknown reason i posted about it sometime back

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    Who cares what some fukwit punter thinks!

    You should just be a good dad.

    Now if you're taking your daughters walking around lower Sukumvit or Pattaya walking street, or Bangla rd you might have to wonder.

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    I was eating in KFC in udon and my 13 yo stepdaughter came and sat with me when she had finished her meal at a thai food place and I got some funny looks from farangs not Thais until my wife joined us, it didnt worry me but I thought the farangs must have been sickos to think anything wrong.

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    The only difference is that possibly in many cases the kids came as a package with your gf/wife (their Mom). You are Dad.

    People look at you with a young person of different racial texture are probably just saying to themselves how happy those kids look and how proud they must be to have that farang as their Dad. What a nice guy.

    Just look your kids in the eye and give them a high-five and a hug.

    Any other person on earth that doesn't understand that dynamic is an assh*le (IMHO).

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